Woman 40 and over have been bringing sexy back to men who thought they hit the jackpot while dating woman in their 20's! Statistics say, Men have learned that beauty is only on the surface and what was missing was romance,passion,and to be desired in their short-lived relationship with much younger woman. Tell us your thoughts!
As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:
A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to
ask, What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.
If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.
A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 40 give a hoot what you might think about her or what she's doing.
Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you.
Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. They always know.
A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.
Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to
wonder where you stand with her.
Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.
Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.
Ladies, I apologize.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk
for free", here's an update for you. Now, 80% of women are against marriage.
Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.
Well Ladies, as for me as I age I can only say that when I look back through the years I am only getting better with age. I have had various men of all ages tell me you look like you are in your early 30's and when I tell them I am 45 they are blown away. So,I have no problem at all being 45 and proud of it. I exercise and eat right.I am proud of the way that I look!I am fighting old age every step of the way!! LOL
Look at everything you have done/lived & learned just getting to your 40's. Hopefully you will exercise that knowledge and not settle for anything less than bliss. How can someone in their 20's say that? I have dated both spectrum's of this topic. I honestly would prefer the experienced lady that knows which way is up and what she WANTS.
Friendly advise if you don't know what you want STOP. Figure it out before you try to find someone so that you can share it with them.
I think that being in touch with my body at this age, knowing my goals for my life and doing what I want to do now after bringing up a child and watching her go on her way, and getting my college degrees has brought me to love who I am right now,which has helped me to grow everyday still,learning new things, especially after moving 3000 miles from security to start a new life and experience a new way of living on another coast where I was born originally.. feeling good in your skin at this age makes me ready for what is ahead in this journey... By the way my Birthday is the 17th...to all you Scorpio people out there, Happy Birthday...great topic...
You are so right. I had two month affair with a young pretty lady in her twenties and after a while she started acting her age and driving me nuts. I prefer women between 40 and 45. Perfect age group for me. You look a lot younger than 42.
Hi all, I thought I would check out the forum. I normally blog.
I know that I am in a point of my life that I feel all powerful. I feel sexy, passionate, beautiful. intriguing, all rolled into one person.
I have never felt this way before in my life. I think it is because now, I Love who I am. Before I did not even know myself. I know what I want, where I am going and how to get there. The only thing I do not know is if I will do it alone or with someone. But that is the beauty of it, I am headed where I want to be regardless.
I think women over 40 are at a point in their lives where they're thinking, "Next man who wins my heart ... I'm gonna rock his world!" And we know how to do it too! LOL
Whereas, a younger woman might be thinking, "Next hot hunk who wins my heart had better rock my world!"
The difference is ... we understand 50/50 rather than 70/30 because we've been there and have seen only 50/50 will work for the benefit of both!
This is JUST MY OPINION----- NOT everyone "acts their age" (whatever that is). I mean, TRUST ME, I HAVE dated some men in their late 30's and I swear, THEY TOO act like retarded, rude, vulgar, idiots who have too much machismo bullshit inside of their SMALL heads (BESIDES the SMALL head on the bottom, haha). And then, I have dated VERY FEW men in their 20's who were a little bit more mature and kinder than, the ones in their late 30's. AND, I HAVE ALSO dated VERY FEW men in their late 40's AND late 50's who STINK REAL NASTY AND ARE VERY RUDE TO ME. In other words, SOME men have been real kind AND mature to me, everywhere from 23 years old to the last one that I dated, at 65 AND SOME, AGAIN, have been REAL sons-of-bi****s, bas****s, everywhere from 24 years old to the last one that I dated, at 39! So there---NOT everyone "acts their age" all of the time. Oki-doki? Ok then, bye ya'll; have a fun, horny day! (:
I think the most sexy women are my age to 10 yrs older, their kids are grown and they are too old for all the games the 30-40 yrs olds like to play !!!
There must be some amount of physical attraction. But youth? not for me.. My profile lists 35 to 45 for a reason. I would prefer the women I meet to have had previous marriages or failed relationships. I'm a firm beleiver that with each failure, you learn. I am 42, I don't feel 42, I feel 25, but I'd rather have someone around my age, getting too old in life to meet someone who doesn't even know what they want yet.