I'VE GOT POOL BOY SYNDROME! NOW HOW DO I APPROACH HIM??? Dating Wealthy Men / Women

  • View author's info Author posted on Sep 27, 2006 15:49


    OK, this is going to be short and to the point. My pool boy is this fine, young and sexy looking Hispanic guy.

    How do I move him from being super professional to getting him to join me in my hot tub???? LOL

    Now, the last time he was here to service my pool he mentioned that he was going to bring me "spa scents" for my hot tub to make it smell like exotic pineapple or something like that. I can't really remember. I burned up all of my short term memory cells from back in the day, if you know what I mean. But I digress. Anyway, I asked my girlfriends what should I do and they all tell me to ask him to join me in the hot tub to see if he likes the new scent (it's an indoor pool and spa so I have time to work on my approach).
    But I don't want to jeopardize my service from the pool company because I love them.
    Any suggestions on how to approach him?

    Any helpful suggestions will be greatly appreciated!
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  • View author's info posted on Oct 05, 2006 13:33


    TripleS write:
    Good help is hard to find. The fantasy and eye candy value may be higher than the reality of the fling. I'm inclined to give this advise: flirt outrageously, but enjoy a well-kept pool.

    I am still looking for a pond boy, if you have any recommendations! lol

    Re:





    Triple S, I go back and forth. But this boy is YOUNG AND TENDER! But on the other hand, last guy ruined my filtration system because he wasn't used to working with indoor pools. So you might be right!!

    SSM
  • View author's info posted on Oct 03, 2006 18:18


    Sexy_Single_Mom write:
    Katiegirl, have you done this before? That's really an excellent suggestion? His next visit is this Monday. Maybe I can get up enough courage to do that.
    Thanks,

    SSM

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    Pretty simple, drop the top and get busy,wink.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 03, 2006 13:08


    *****@@@@@>>>>UPDATE, UPDATE<<<<@@@@*****

    Ok, so not as good as I had fantasied, but better than expected. No, we didn't splash around in the hot tub buck naked. But he did give me his phone number!!

    Can you believe it? HE actually approached me. Well sort of. I asked him did he bring the spa scents he mentioned a couple of weeks ago (my pool and spa are serviced every 2 weeks because of them being inside the house) and he said he forgot. So of course I acted like a spoil little girl and through a fit (but with a smile on my face).

    He said he would have someone send it over to me and I told him no I wanted him to do it. And then I made somewhat of a fruedient slip and said that I wanted him to smell the scents with me. But then of course I told him I didn't mean it like that. He said that was ok and that we wanted to come back to smell them with me.

    So he said I would get it a lot quicker if someone else brought it over. I said ok. But then he said "here's my cell phone number, why don't you call once you get them." I guess the look on my face scared him. LOL. So he started to apologize saying that he didn't mean to come on to me like that and I said, "baby, don't worry, I'm not one of those stuffy clients you're used to, I'm not offended at all and I'll definitely call you!" So a big smile came to his face, which brought a big smile to my face and we talked a bit more about everything but the pool cleaning and he left.

    Oh, the best part of it, to me, is that he's 19 yrs old!!! Oh yes baby!!

    SSM
  • View author's info posted on Oct 02, 2006 15:43


    Simple me....just ask and I am certain you shall receive!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 30, 2006 02:12


    Sexy_Single_Mom write:
    Katiegirl, have you done this before? That's really an excellent suggestion? His next visit is this Monday. Maybe I can get up enough courage to do that.
    Thanks,

    SSM

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    LOL For some reason, SSM, I attract 18 year olds while I'm just going about my day minding my own business.

    Here's a few more suggestions:

    1. Make sure you feel beautiful and then ... relax. Just be yourself and do everything with a bit of humour and know that you're a knock out.

    2. Instead of thinking of him as your hot pool boy, think of him as just a neighbour or the friend of someone you know and that will ease some of the pressure of "possibilities." If you don't expect an outcome or imagine a negative outcome but just "wing it" and handle things as they come up ... you won't seem nervous and you'll come across as confident and self-assured.

    3. Like Essence says, be assertive but not aggressive and certainly not shy! Confidence is a really strong sexy trait.

    Now, go get 'im, SSM And let me know how it went! Everybody loves romance stories.

    :D

    Good luck!

    Katherine
  • View author's info posted on Sep 29, 2006 22:26


    Thanks SouthernEssense for the vote confidence. You brought up very good points and I think part of my fear IS the thought of losing his services. He's a great pool guy and besides 2 other (one of which is no longer with the company) techs he's the only one that knows my system.

    Is it worth it? Maybe not.

    He recently came to the company so that's why the invite is just now coming. I've only known him for a little over a month. Would I want more? That I can't answer right now, but I wouldn't rule out any possibilities. I'll definitely keep you posted!

    SSM

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 28, 2006 18:42


    Katiegirl, have you done this before? That's really an excellent suggestion? His next visit is this Monday. Maybe I can get up enough courage to do that.
    Thanks,

    SSM
  • View author's info posted on Sep 27, 2006 14:38


    Sexy_Single_Mom write:
    OK, this is going to be short and to the point. My pool boy is this fine, young and sexy looking Hispanic guy.
    How do I move him from being super professional to getting him to join me in my hot tub???? LOL
    Now, the last time he was here to service my pool he mentioned that he was going to bring me "spa scents" for my hot tub to make it smell like exotic pineapple or something like that. I can't really remember. I burned up all of my short term memory cells from back in the day, if you know what I mean. But I digress. Anyway, I asked my girlfriends what should I do and they all tell me to ask him to join me in the hot tub to see if he likes the new scent (it's an indoor pool and spa so I have time to work on my approach).
    But I don't want to jeopardize my service from the pool company because I love them.
    Any suggestions on how to approach him?
    Please no snide comments about losing weight, gaining beauty, etc. because I believe he's interested I just don't know how to move it to that level! :-)
    Any helpful suggestions will be greatly appreciated!
    Well, you have to have your bikini waiting near the hot tub so you can pounce the minute you feel you have the guts to go for it! And maybe have a spare pair of men's trunks available in case he's shy. (yeah, like a pool boy gets a job as a pool boy because he's an introvert. NOT!) LOL

    Then, if I were you I'd just jokingly thank him for the scents & ask him, "Wanna take a break & try them out with me? I was just going in for a while." & see what he says!

    Joke with him not to tell his employers or they might think you're trying to turn him into a slacker. Offer the shorts so he won't get what he's wearing wet. Then let him decide if that's an issue.

    You could have a cool pitcher of something cold, wet & yum nearby with several glasses around so it doesn't look like you've been planning a Tubbing For Two all along. Go for it & good luck!
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