This topic I am sure will bring some discussion if not comment from those who say they are not prejudice. Keep in mind that I never mentioned anything about race or color. I received this comment from a female member, after simply sending a simple wink. Now you tell me if you think this is a comment by an open minded individual. It was not about a dating but just a friendly hello ~
I don't date black men
My reply: me either
Any comments morallysweet???
here is another comment from another member politely said from canada. the land where no discrimination exist??? but notice
HI, Sorry no offense, but I am not attracted to black men. Good Luck.
Here is another post by a member
beautifulhardbody: looking for white
my reply: islands101: "white what" :)
any comments beautiful hard body
1 Miss Brazil
another woman with lack of personality indicates she has been told by other members that she should not date black men. Any comments Miss Brazil? or are you scared
I hope you are not feeling rejected. The women are basically stating their choice. None of the remarks indicated a dislike of a particular race, what I read were statements indicating a preference and that is "ok", because we all have preferences. What I would say to you is keep looking. If your preference is white females, I would suggest going to the interracial dating site. Good luck to you in search for the woman of your choice.
There are two sides to the coin. Wink means what? Dating request? If I wink you and you get defensive and begin suggesting things your are not sure I had in mind then you have a prejudicial problem. On the other side if a wink equals dating then the lady has a right to tell you she doesn't date certain types of people. There is no reason to suggest she is racist because no one knows her experience with black people. My late grand mother used to say when a snake bites you when you see a worm you will run for your dea life.
With that said, my love for people and places has put me in contact with differnt types of people on earth. Everybody is differnt; black white, indan, chinese Arab you name it. Never put everyone in the same basket. An American white woman screwd me, but I have a more friendlier relationship with them than black women. I am not saying I do not like black women. I simply do not have more opportunities around people of the black race as I really would love to.
We should really consider building healthy relationships by just trying to think positively without prejudice. It makes us look very stupid; black, white, colored chines or whatever you may call yourself. If you are a white person and you have never met very cool black people you need to make an effort, be positive about them and visualize yourself meeting really good black people. Give time for your vision to mature and you will be amazed how some black people you will meet can positively influence your life.The saying that when you go black you do not go back is not a joke.
If you are a black person and you have not had an opportunity to meet good white people you need to make an effort, be positive about them and visualze yourself meeting really good white people. Give time for your vision to mature and you will be amazed how some white people you will meet really care and can positively influence your life. Remember we attrack to us our experiences through our thoughts and actions.
The ignorant racist class; both white and black have no idea what they are missing trying to peck at each other. In California there are communities of brethren living together that do not know race. The lifestyle is begining to attract People all over the country. The first thing you realise in us is that we care for each other. We are conscious of what we put in out bodies; water, food, lotion, environment medication, spirituality and more. We are highly conscious of the good things of the earth that makes us avoid chaos and sicknesses. Very few of us have the major illnesses that plagues the rest of America. Your health is the first thing you will gain back when you join conscois living. The greatest experience you will ever have in life is living in a mixed community where race or skin color does not really matter.
Exactly! You can always tell when a man is feeling hurt and overly into his feelings. This particular guy loves to start controversial topics and play the victim. He's complaining about white women not wanting to date him, yet he hasn't mentioned what happens when he contacts(he probably doesnt) any African American women. He's upset because his own racial preference doesn't want to date him. Grow up and stop putting these women on blast Because you're hurt.
Well said 4everloyal.....It asks you on the site what you are looking for....White, Asian, Black, etc. It also asks if you would like a tall person, blonde hair or brown, etc. These are all preferences and not racist questions. Just weed though your emails until you find the one person that makes your heart beat (black, white, green, red). Love comes in many forms and I wish you happiness and joy in your quest.
i think racial discrimination is one of the worst things around these days, fair enough if you don't feel attracted to that race then feel free to let them know they arn't your type but im sure if you give them a chance they might show you its all about looks, whats on the inside counts too.
I'm a black man "PROUDLY" to say so. My best friend is white and female also married a black man,... and even after divource she's still wants to get married to a black man, I think all these is about what we feel in our hearts. if you happen to say you will never date a black man, thus you will never know with whom there will be chemistry as little as it can be, it might grow into something beautiful than you ever imagine. White or Black, IT DOESN'T MATTER. I don't need anyone to believe me either as to we all have a different perception about things, but when the right one magically appears in your life, it will surely be and color wouldn't matter anymore
hey man,u r 55years old,a woman tells u she dont date black men.then u tell the entire syte about it like she took your wallet.grow up,get real.dont use race if a woman dont want u,find 1 who does.im a white man if a black woman wants to date me,not u,what does that make her?
I don?t know what's worse, OP... your not respecting her choices or you out playing the victim card!
Hell, we all get shot down for a myriad of reasons. At least morallysweet was both courteous enough to respond (a rarity) and courageous enough to give you her reason.
You have no idea what drives her reasons and they may have nothing to do with her personal choices or racism.
I dont date red heads, that doesn't mean I am prejudiced against red heads and I also dont date non-Christians... not because I am prejudiced but because its important for me to find someone with which to share my faith.
I think, by your post, you demonstrated a lack of tact and class and therein revealed a lot more about yourself witnout possibly hurting morallysweet as she can now safely sit back and say "see, I made a good choice in not dating this jerk."
Not date a black man as you had put it but it says black men...
It is racist...to highly certain degree...There are discriminations everywhere...If you do not want to date short men than you are discriminating against short man because they are short and if there was a term for it like racist-maybe "shortist" then you would understand
Just remember the next time that you are not promoted and a male is promoted and your work was better than his and you worked harder...remember YOU SAID THIS FIRST.
wow funny how no-one has the decency to be polite and at least try to be cordial. I feel for you as a nubian " isis queen" i have ran across a few of them myself. but thank goodness I am fully in touch with myself that I do what someone else should 've done to them a long time ago ... laugh in their face. good luck in luv
Life is so much easier when you are able to accept who you are.
I personally dont care if a man if black, white, purple, or green.
As long as he is healthy :), and loves me for who I am nothing else matters.
Love has no color.
... Last time I checked trust, honesty, understanding, affection, compassion dont have a color either.
Those are thing I care about. It's not about being senitive. It's about being a mature adult.
(Which if your NOT MATURE/NEGATIVE and you read this message and decide you want to respond to my comment... Dont bother. It will just make YOU mad. I know who I am and a negative comment is not going to change who God made me. )
Let's not assume that if a person chooses not to date a black man that they are a bigot, racist, prejudice, etc. I have never dated a black men, but my best friend is married to one. Her step-son is black, yet I have treated him like my own child in many ways thru the years. I have taken into my own home many times in the past, bought him food, cigarettes, gifts on holidays, and the list goes on. Thru the years I have also known many friends that have dated or married black men and have been completely accepting and never prejudice. I've had friendships with many black men or women my whole life. In gradeschool there was only one black person in our school and she was the funniest and sweetest girl ever! I've stood up for blacks when others have discriminated. I have a cousin that had a child with a black man, but went on to marry a white man. I have another cousin that married a black man many years ago and later divorced. He was a really cool guy and was friends with some of the Globetrotters that he play basketball growing up. Anytime I saw him growing up, he as the nicest guy ever and we always spoke and got along.
I have dated men from other countries and have been very good friends with men from other countries that are US citizens. Many are the smartest people you will ever meet! However, with all that being said, I have never dated a black man, and anyone that knows me would say that I am FAR from a bigot, racist, prejudice, etc. It is a matter of choice, not color. I don't agree with all the slams here against people. To label someone on the mere fact that they choose not to date someone black is wrong. I have bent over backwards for my friends husband's son who is black, not only financially but as someone that he feels treats him like family and gives him guidance, advice, friendship, and the caring that he is in need of as a person. If I choose to not date a white man, am I called names? Look beyond things and find the person that is right for you!
Cynburghleah write: Whos calling who a bigot Sween? Isnt that like the pot calling the kettle black? - oops, sorry, I know how much you dislike that colour :) Im not trashing anyone, Im asking her a question. Sheesh! Mind your business.
Sorry Cyn, I played too many teams sports to ever be a racist or bigot. I dont like trailer trash no matter what color,shape or income they come from. I just dont think its appropriate for a black man on these forums to trash white,black,pink,purple,yellow,green women for not wanting to date him. Have you looked at this guys pics? Maybe they dont want to date him because he's buck ugly, not because he's black.