I'm actually very fed-up with men at the moment, especially the married ones. Some men are so shallow that not even paper boats can sink in them. I had to put one married man in his place .... again.
He was trying to come on to me, until I said I hope he compliments his wife that way too. He said that she didn't change as drastically as I did. I said that if he'd compliment her then maybe she'd want to change. That put a very nice dampner on his little come on. I added where he can go, if he presists.
I shaped up and some people who haven't seen me in a while don't even recognise me. That's where his last comment came from about his wife.
This is the gist of what goes on. What is it with you married guys that you think you owe single woman a favour? You're nothing but an irritation. Cherish and nurture what you have at home. Also think why you got to the negative patch you find yourself in. I'm not your sideline or willing ear. If I date someone, I don't want to share him with a girlfriend either.
It appears that most men want a pretty faced ditz. Heaven forbid you have a brain and can actually hold an intelligent conversation!
I am not desparate and I really don't need any 'favours'. I'm not an animal who run after lusts.
All I want are guy friends with no strings attached. Just good old friendship.
Of course i must comment on this topic. This is so simple. Men are hunters, this started with evolution. Just look at it like this girls, men are really still cavemen. And we are just here to reproduce. This is not rocket science.
Women are looking for the best provider and men are looking to spread their seeds. Everything else is what society dictates. I could go on and on, but i wont.
Yes, some women get sucked in and then have their hearts broken by some schmuck who was just looking for a side dish. Some ladies do that too and some unsuspecing man is in the same boat as the woman who had her heart broken.
They should then create a site for that (not that I condone it).
Check out the penalties from one site that I found about married men! It's in the sugar daddies vs MM thread! OUCH! Talk about a fine! They even screen criminal background! I wish they did that on here, but I wonder if they don't because they know that a great deal of wealthier clients are in fact probably married and looking for a side dish. hrmmmm........
Absolutely, when we give them attention, they think it because they're so great. A great woman like you still probably have to meet her match.
Sexual attraction or not. I don't condone such behaviour. If they try and I smile and politely take it, it sends the message of it is okay to treat me and other women that way. You train them like dogs. hehehehe (Saw this on BBC Prime). Seriously I don't see it that way.
It is far more fun to put them in their place.
I pity the wife and girlfriend who has to put up with such an insufferable ego.
I know us women have our moments too, but what's with the insecurity?
I know who I am and am proud of it. I won't be treated as anything less than that.
PS It is cold and rainy here. Typical Cape Town winter.