When do I make my move? Message Board

  • View author's info posted on Aug 01, 2006 18:58


    Hi Auburnhair. Hes something real scary, you talk about putting your panties on the same way , well in the Marines we used string to hold up our nylon stockings before going into action, the poor little shop girl in Woolworth's collapsed in fits when 10 hunky marines walked in and bought the largest pair she had. Trouble was the hairs on your legs worked through the mesh after a few days and made you itch like hell. But they did the job
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  • View author's info posted on Jul 31, 2006 19:07


    bobsthename write:
    I can't tell this story any more because a gentleman doesn't tell. Being an animal, i still can't tell. Anyway, before I finally kissed her, I actually told her that I was attracted to her and that after three weeks I was baffled why I couldn't make a move on her. She said that it was because she intimidates men. I think it's because she doesn't really let her hair down.


    Perhaps she doesn't let her hair down because that is when she really intimidates men!!! Be prepared to be scared... :o)

    Aww Rob and Bob dont be scared, we all put our undies on the same way..or do we hehehhe
    robtest write:
  • View author's info posted on Jul 30, 2006 04:37


    BOB since we are like brother and sister this is one abig Ole whopper of a story even women who are beautiful and intimidating to men need ( SEX ) to .
    You have had some gorgeous women and You can't get your mind of your clearly mental ex who needs help I mean she can be quite loving and everytime you find someone sometimes even far more beautiful you run back to her not meaning to hurt women that may be beter suited for you.
    You are like some of us women who say we want a good nice guy but the bad boys are hard to resist now that I am older and have had my fair share of hard knocks I want a nice man ( until you get over { L} you will never find true love ever.
    This is where it is you fell in love with someone your friends and family are fed up with her and she has an equally good side but her wicked side is there loud and clear.
    Bob LET GO OF HER>>>NOW

    With this hot blackberry woman which I know she exists even if it's a figment of Bobs creative imagination.
    WOW now You have such a vivid creative mind,
    I say write a ( screen play) shop it around hollywood it was interesting but Bob love come on we all know this is one big old fish tale but Bob You are are class clown and now that you have us all going we need to hear that finally some thing has transpired or you just like women who are unavailable I mean chasing is one thing but game playing is another. XOXOXOXO
  • View author's info posted on Jul 27, 2006 10:35


    Ok Bob you need to be honest here!!!! These folks are falling for this... You are such a BSer, if your going to make up a story make up a good one, like your old storysssss you crazy guy.... I Will be on the road soon....Bob it would be funny if you and I ran into each other we might light the world on fire.... my friend..Have a good one you all
  • View author's info posted on Jul 25, 2006 12:31


    Hi Bob. Take the advice of an older wiser Bob, What the hell have you got to lose, ouch, might hurt a bit, but go for it join the SAS 'Who Dares Wins' faint heart does not win the 'Pizza eyed Girl'. She sounds like an Alpha woman, Oh boy, your going to have to stand up and be counted, if you like a 'strong' women, then are you a man or a mouse?
    Dan Dares you. Good luck
  • View author's info posted on Jul 24, 2006 11:02


    bobsthename write:
    I can't tell this story any more because a gentleman doesn't tell. Being an animal, i still can't tell. Anyway, before I finally kissed her, I actually told her that I was attracted to her and that after three weeks I was baffled why I couldn't make a move on her. She said that it was because she intimidates men. I think it's because she doesn't really let her hair down.


    Perhaps she doesn't let her hair down because that is when she really intimidates men!!! Be prepared to be scared... :o)
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2006 11:32


    Bob it was me you loved then it was blonde indian Lol now usnagglable etc please..

    Oh Bob you take to long to make your moves on this girl.

    I am sorry I am not saying rush into bed but this saga is boring while she is waiting for you to make a move she is shagging another.
    and Men I have brothers, cousins and Know the score...please and women it;s ok to take your time but a little teasing is ok taunting giving someone a taste and appetizer making them want the main course .
    Men like this...at least they know they aren't weasting their time...or yours.
    Women we have the same desires and needs as men we just don't always talk about it openly .

    A guy will wait Yes when he knows that EVENTUALLY what he wanted from the beginning he is getting and men are hunters and like to chase and play a little with their prey.
    So Bob sorry but hurry up and shag and tell us if it was good sex or a let down.

    Love to All DV
  • View author's info posted on Jul 20, 2006 09:47


    Bobby Bobby Baby, I'm to old for you lmao anyway, I have someone shagging my door and it has not been you!!!! You took to long....
  • View author's info posted on Jul 20, 2006 09:42


    Bob you boob, here you are, you crack me up, you are telling such a tall tail here and you have everyone on the hook you are so full of your self... bad boy and you know it...
  • View author's info posted on Jul 15, 2006 11:38


    bob don't worry .
    basing a relationship on friendship might sound weird to you .
    but there is more too a woman than what they carry down there.
    the rest of it will take care of itself.
    might just be the one. p.s. been doing any fishing up there??? for fish lol
  • View author's info posted on Jul 14, 2006 16:18


    Jocklawyer write:
    Pull the trigger on this thing, Bob. Quit thinking, just do it...you're thinking too much. Action, man, action.
    She'll dig it. (does that date me?)

    What the heck happened to just "Add Comment" on here?....

    I too say make a move, Bob. By now, you should have at least kissed for cryin' out loud! How do you not kiss someone you "moon over" several times and not find one opportunity to steal a kiss, let alone make out (aging myself too?!)?

    She's teasing you and obviously doing a darn good job. By jov, you may have met your twin in female form, Bob! Hmm....

    "I want to be friends first"...that is such crap! She's DATING men. She is obviously not ready to commit to anyone, but then are you?

    Just go be yourself...go get what you want. She'll say yes or she'll say no, and let whatever happens next happen.
    One way or the other, you will make progress and get out of stagnation.

    P.S. This is all good, Bob!
  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2006 20:01


    Jocklawyer write:
    I really hate to say this Bob, especially when the advice is offered by a respected poster, but I have to call Katie on her "advice" here---this stuff is dead wrong. Follow this and you've lost her for sure. What you should do in this week while she's away is don't have any contact with her at all. Why? Well, you didn't have any before you saw her in the bar, did you? And then what happened? She offered to dump her other suitors in your favor. Enough said, and the efficacy of my advice stands.

    And, like I suspected, this is ending up as a thread divulging and discussing too much strategic information. Heck, Rob has even explained the "lean-to" move to these women! Rob, everybody, let's tighten up a little bit here and make a pact: No more moves, strategic or otherwise, discussed in a public forum!

    P.S. Katie, you calling me a "player"? Surely not.....JL


    Only if you follow your own advice! LOL
  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2006 14:04


    Well now it's obvious she does like you this is time to seduce her! Since she asked to have ( Drinks with You) Use a play of words and use of sexy drinks with ( names)on the blackberry. Say I can't wait to see you how about having sex on the beach ready for you( of course you are only thinking the drink but ( flirty fun with sexual
    continounity or you get the drift.

    Have wicked flirty fun on the BB build her up for the mood for seduction and sex. There is an art to seducing and being seduced and I like to be seduced and I LOVE to be the seductress and this I find with men is a ( turn on for the woman to take charge and decide at what point a deeper level of intimacy will happen.
    Bob : Just play with drink names on the Blackberry that you can play with if she plays back ( flirty) she is setting the mood and she wants you the way you want her.
    When she comes in have candles lit all over the place leave your door open so the place is lit for romance and the music is sexy .....and come out very casual that you are the king of seduction offer her some wine pour her a glass or even better when she comes into your home just pull her into your body look her in the eyes with passion and kiss her Be bold . GO FOR IT! Don't be Wimpy be confident women like this let her know you want her this is sexy take charge attitude.
    bobsthename write:
    her position and stance is pretty clear...we're friends first. but I know there is a lot more there. I could be wrong, but I would bet that from the moment we met, she was attracted to me like I was to her. She is playing me don't you think? So she Blackberries me to have her drinks ready for her when she gets up next week...and she is going to spend next weekend with me. But maybe nothing will happen again other than having a lot of fun. Honestly, I've never been led this far along the garden path without something happening...in my whole life. Life sure is full of some pretty trippy 5hit.

  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2006 13:34


    Pull the trigger on this thing, Bob. Quit thinking, just do it...you're thinking too much. Action, man, action.
    She'll dig it. (does that date me?)
  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2006 12:07


    Bobby Bobby nice to see you in this state!!!! Any way my friend honestly if it happens and it might, great, on the other hand if it don't you have a wonderful friendship with this person... I hope you get all you want Bob, Let us know!!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Jul 13, 2006 09:26


    Rob cutie just lean in and kiss her don't wait for her to meet you half way .

    All women want a nice guy with a little bad boy edge to them .

    I like a man to be nice in public and take charge when we are alone .You know you men say in the SOUTH you want a lady in public, a cook in the kitchen and a sizzling whore in the bedroom. Come on if the woman likes you she may let you kiss her and to keep things from going to far so fast act as if you did something wrong by kissing her so soon it's our way of making you chase us and our way to play ( hard to get). But have no doubt we wanted that HOTT kiss as much as you did.
    You go home thinking Damn that was a great kiss but I hope she wasn't offended and if we like you we are thinking the same and just like if we are sensual women with sexual prowess apetites like men thinking of the excitement of the passion romance building up.The art of seduction and some men are masters and so are some women .
    Trust me we will act offended call our girlfriends even complain a little and they will say ( well was he a good kisser and if there's compatability , sparks , chemistry.
    We will say Yes yes hmm he took my breath away . I can tell alot by the way a man kisses me how it will be when we reach the stage of intimacy total surrender and make love.It's the appetizer that sets the mood ambiance desired for the main course.
    Just as you look at us during dinner and think about seducing us some of us speaking for myself or thinking of being seduced by you if we are into you.
    WINK
    There are men I can sleep in bed with and nothing will happen and then there are those men that I know if we get in bed sleeping isn't what we would be thinking and doing/CHEMISTRY is hard to deny and hard to fight .Even though we are in are 30's 4o's etc think of when you were a teenager or in your 20's men have more control now and respect for women but YOU know by the signals someone gives plain and simple works both ways good night
  • View author's info posted on Jul 12, 2006 18:41


    Now Jay JL I am wondering if you are a good marksman I mean do you get a bulls eye most of the time? Trust me I say enjoy the spoils of war nothing like a good victory to claim wink. Is it the thrill of the hunt , the capture itself or a little of both.
    Men are hunters by nature. Sexy little predators and us women just felines like a lioness tigress as the male species is trying to mate with a lioness.a LION claming his prize it's all basic instincts primal callings the art of mating.
    I personaly like a man to chase me and claim me and out of the blue just pull me close and kiss me as if Finally ( You are MINE) the art of seduction and being seduced women we are clever little heavenly wonderful creatures .You know you like to work for your spoils and we love making you work for your dinner , and desert.Trust me and we most definetely are in control when it comes to sex and making love .
    A woman is the one who lets it get to that point who ever says the man has control he is just left to waiting and wondering.

    Jocklawyer write:
    Sounds like you like her a little bit, too? Go ahead and pull the trigger, my friend... you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You'll be nicely rewarded, I'll predict.

  • View author's info posted on Jul 12, 2006 15:47


    Not to offend you Bob but if she is seeing other guys and she was really into you this wouldn't happen you would have captured her interest and she would have thrown the others to the curb and if the chemistry was right she would not be able to even think of anyone but you when she was with other guys the fact she is dating other guys and she ended that one night rather early at 10 pm should tell you something :(( She thought she could be into you and the first night after a meeting at a bar *not the best placre to meet someone she felt a way she perhaps later didn't after a few more ecounters .
    I mean has happened to me I mean I am one fickle flirty woman at times .
    I like ( chemistry ) someone who makes me think WOW what date others it's pointless he has got to me and I am thinking of him for no reason and the same goes for him .
    If a single woman is not as sexually interested in you for romance as you are in her, then your relationship has a basic weakness that may be an insolvable problem.
    if a woman likes you ( YOU will know it she may not let you put the moves on her but she would want you to at least kiss her keep looking at each other with those bedroom eyes and your eyes talk you will be in a group and the other people can feel the passion transpiring .
    I mean people around you can see you can't keep your eyes off each other.
    It's either there or it's not some women as well as men give mixed signals and like the attention of many men not just one and when they get the thrill of knowing you desire them they move on to their next EGO conquest.
    I am looking for fire works someone who is athletic, itelligent and wants to kiss me but doesn't I mean I can tell I LOVE THIS I love men who tell me I wanted you from the moment I met you but waited until....YUMMY this turns me on ..I can tell and I may want them the same way but just make them wait especially if I want the realitionship to develop to something that is not based on sex but deeper.WINK
  • View author's info posted on Jul 12, 2006 09:53


    bobsthename write:
    I don't think the sock theory has anything to do with this...other than a sock champion is showing frustration.
    :-) And we're not nervous. She is very confident, so am I. But clearly, the opportunity to do something was the first night we met when she took me into the cabin of her boat at 2 AM and closed the door behind us. Since then, she just scrams at the point in time where something is going to happen. When we are going to be alone...then she leaves.

    Body language is clear, when she sits beside me she gets very close for two people who aren't "together", and she leans into me. I sent her an email and she didn't reply until 24 hours later. She has a blackberry she lives with. So...I think she is playing me to win me over. It's working...Being a good looker too I can't get her out of my head. She was one of the best looking girls in the bar.

    However, I remain available and will act accordingly. LOL Yeehaw!


    So just grab her and kiss her then!!! :o)

    If she kisses like a sister then you are free to move forward or pull back based on your preferences and upbringing!!! ROFLMAO
  • View author's info posted on Jul 12, 2006 05:03



    Jock, your "Pull back" strategy is SO WRONG!!! Bob! Don't do it! I HATE it when men pull back after we've done a few things together! It doesn't make me think twice! It makes me think, "The End."



    If I like him, I'll say yes everytime. If for some freakingly dopey reason, he starts playing hard to get, I think, "OMG! He's playing me!! Bye!"

    I NEVER "relish" making a man nervous. If he's nervous, I throw him a bone & initiate the kiss first. If I'm not interested, I don't just keep stringing him along until he lays the old "pull back" move on me! I end it ASAP before I have to worry about destroying his ego.

    I really hate to say this Bob, especially when the advice is offered by a respected poster, but I have to call Katie on her "advice" here---this stuff is dead wrong. Follow this and you've lost her for sure. What you should do in this week while she's away is don't have any contact with her at all. Why? Well, you didn't have any before you saw her in the bar, did you? And then what happened? She offered to dump her other suitors in your favor. Enough said, and the efficacy of my advice stands.

    And, like I suspected, this is ending up as a thread divulging and discussing too much strategic information. Heck, Rob has even explained the "lean-to" move to these women! Rob, everybody, let's tighten up a little bit here and make a pact: No more moves, strategic or otherwise, discussed in a public forum!

    P.S. Katie, you calling me a "player"? Surely not.....JL
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