#1 Dating Site for Successful Singles and Admirers

Home > Millionaire Forums > Topics islands101 has created > Why is physical attraction and wealth so important to women Previous topic Next topic
Why is physical attraction and wealth so important to women
Author
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 09, 2011 13:33

The question is: Why is physical attraction and wealth so imporatant to women in this site. Is the basus of a good relationship about wealth and money? Are sucessful marriage based on wealth or other thngs?

Lastly, how many sucessful women on the site who have beauty and money have been in multiple marriages? How many men who are already divorced would want to be in a relationship with a women who has been married more than twice and how many women would marry a man if he were married more than twice?



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sun, Dec 09, 2012 16:43

Physical attraction is very important to me; more so than money. You can alway earn your own money if you don't mind working for it, the legal way of course.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Sep 24, 2012 16:35

You have to be physically attracted to your partner to even get off the starting the starting block.  Also, one does not want a partner whose only ambition is to sleep and then rest.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sat, Feb 25, 2012 13:26

It is so unique that a male wrote this statement. Most of the time, men reject women when they are not considered attractive. You really need to get off the "pitty pot". Now enough of this waddling in your sadness.

Physical attraction is important to most people, men and women. Wealth is also important to some people, however if you have the ability to earn your own money, then your mates wealth is not that important.

I have two degrees and earn my own money, so a man's wealth is not as important to me.

Again, please stop crying because your ego is a little bruised.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Nov 23, 2011 19:29

It is important to feel some attraction to the other person, it could be personality or humor or any number of things. i have money of my own, why shouldn't the man in my life have it as well.
the one thing that is very appealing to women is intellegence and ambition. if you have a top job or own a company, wow what a wonderful way to start a relationship.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2011 15:32

because women get tired to support loosers & it's makes life hard & short... also way too mach to worry about...



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sat, Nov 19, 2011 10:22

Research proves that attraction is important for almost every aspect of dating.  It is the number one component in creating chemistry (see Peretti, O. & Abplanalp, R.).  Walster's work in 1966 showed "by far the largest determinant of how much his partner was liked, how much he wanted to date the partner again, and how often he actually asked the partner out was simply how attractive the partner was."  Personality and intelligence, despite what men might say, did not predict any connection.  Attractiveness is the key according to research at least.  That appears to be the reality of dating.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sat, Nov 12, 2011 00:23

Physical attraction is ALWAYS important, it can develop, but it won't magically appear if there is no other chemistry. Men and women both seek attraction, it's only natural...unless you are blind.  Money is NOT the most important thing, but some of us women are sick of cheap men!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Oct 02, 2006 19:11

Nope, don't think we look for money or looks. Statistics show that mean are the ones that first look at the physical beauty. Women on the other hand have more brains, we go for what a man is inside first. THEN if he has money and looks...great!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Oct 02, 2006 11:26

For the same reason why it is important to men. When you are looking for someone and you ask for their picture, why? I tell you why it is because you want to see if they look good, if they are attractive. As for the money, it is not how much you have, it is how much you can do with what you have. If you have someone who is wealthy but always working then that is not fun, but if you earn a comfortable living and you are able to travel wouldn't that make you richer because you are actually able to enjoy life and your bills are paid. For the most part! lol!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sat, Sep 30, 2006 23:49

Island you act like that is the only thing women are interested in. Men are visual. If you are walking down the street and saw an attractive well built lady and a "miss librarian" with skinny legs and a dress covering her knees which one would you look at!!!. Now the well dressed lady is a high school drop out who has made it on her looks/librarian is well educated/160 IQ and a sex kitten in the bedroom. But would you really try to meet the librarian or go for the well dressed lady...(We really do know that answer!)

Now we as women all have different ideas of what we want. We are visual to start off. If that man who is buff and good looking opens his mouth and has nothing to say then he is "gone in sixty seconds"..LOL The looks attract. The personality,character is what keeps! We each have our idea of what we call attractive. Give us a little credit as we are no different then you. If you find an attractive person but there is no chemistry it's no ones fault. Your statement is lacking the foresite of this being the internet. We don't have the luxury of spending day in and day out with each other so we can only make snap decisions. If you find someone in which you have a strong chemistry over the phone or emails than you have been lucky and worth pursuing. Until then keep searching........:o)

As to wealth my opinion on that is until i see his W-2 form i take any amount stated with a grain of salt. There have been many "poor" millionaires on here. When they want to share that information it will be at their disgression.



Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 23:00

Yeah, I guess he does look a little like a hedgehog.

(Not you, Islands)



Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Thu, Sep 21, 2006 10:44

dude, u look like ron jeremy...kewl



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 09:09

Why is physical beauty and thinness so important to men???

Not to be snide, but we all have our standards don't we!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sun, Sep 03, 2006 13:15

You can dig for my gold anytime.



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Wed, Aug 30, 2006 10:18

blondeindian write:
mamacitarica write:
I could not care about looks anymore; wealth oh yeah!

(jokes, maybe not, yes jokes, I don't even believe myself anymore....:))

call me a goldigger I don't care, but I work hard too, and I like to be treated like a lady, my dad always paid my moms way, and same with anyone I dated...It is a protocall for being a gentlemen, and even my guy friends pick up my tabs alot, I don't ask them too, most gentlemen do, and I don't mind, if they expect me to pay, then it would be because I offered, so I think some of this stuff you are bringing up sir is silly,lol..

That and what else is there besides looks and wealth? the rest comes once you get inside with someone and you start sharing what is in your head. Wealth and looks, a rich woman with good looks--but no wierd laugh please!!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Aug 28, 2006 07:08

Hey SV, lay off the turkey legs, eh, try some pool cleaning as I do believe that's what you are only capable of my man.
shoot!



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Mon, Aug 21, 2006 08:10

what are you doing here Starman, I read in the blogs you have a fiance shouldn't you concentrate on her , rather than pissing around here eh?
My man, come up for breath OK?



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Sun, Aug 20, 2006 13:57

mamacitarica write:
I could not care about looks anymore; wealth oh yeah!

(jokes, maybe not, yes jokes, I don't even believe myself anymore....:))

call me a goldigger I don't care, but I work hard too, and I like to be treated like a lady, my dad always paid my moms way, and same with anyone I dated...It is a protocall for being a gentlemen, and even my guy friends pick up my tabs alot, I don't ask them too, most gentlemen do, and I don't mind, if they expect me to pay, then it would be because I offered, so I think some of this stuff you are bringing up sir is silly,lol..



Reply / add comments      Quote      Report abuse   Bookmark and Share
Available only
to logged in members
Posted on Thu, Jul 06, 2006 18:35

I could not care about looks anymore; wealth oh yeah!

(jokes, maybe not, yes jokes, I don't even believe myself anymore....:))

  


Previous topic     Next topic