Where do you go when you first log on to this site? I find I'm always looking first at "Who viewed me" -- does that mean I'm overly concerned about what others think? If you go to "Search profiles" right away, are you a hunter? If you keep coming back to your favorites, are you longing from afar? Tell me where you go first and what you think it says about you.
sharp1 write: Like BnB...forums first, sometimes "Who has viewed me", I never search. This site has become purely entertainment for me, and if I am lucky to meet great new friends (male/female) bonus!!! :-)
Last year I met Bonnie88 in London, UK; billzeke returning from Alaska in September; this past April in Vegas met up with Wrightwood, butterflynjax, Minnie, Maayan, Cub, MasRogue, Mel, Moonie, fun4two, intelligentblonde, and others...all from MM...we had such a wonderful time, and I believe some of us will be keeping in contact for a very long time. More than a dating site I think! :-)
Wow! That's excellent that you've made good contacts here to have some travel buddies and maybe some longtime friends. Great to hear that!
BlueEyz2006 write: Where do you go when you first log on to this site? I find I'm always looking first at "Who viewed me" -- does that mean I'm overly concerned about what others think?
I don't think that, Blue. I think you're here to find a love and you're just looking to see who might be feeling the same about you!
If you go to "Search profiles" right away, are you a hunter?
Of course! You're hunting for your lady!
If you keep coming back to your favorites, are you longing from afar? Tell me where you go first and what you think it says about you.
I go directly to the forums and check out the new posts in the Messages, Romance and sometimes the other Topics. Before the IM even loads, I click it off. Habit. I usually find there are just "lurkers" who want to talk to me anyway, and half the time, they don't even know what to say. What does that say about me? I guess that I enjoy reading the new, great humour, new and interesting posts, and I can't resist a rousing debate!
I seldom check who has viewed my profile or who has winked at me because I forget. I always check my emails tho.
I rarely search anymore because it doesn't matter who I like, men never answer winks in MM. And if they do, and they start up a conversation, they always fade away, NOT because I'm not interesting to talk to, but because they usually have several women on a line and are juggling them simultaneously. When they drop one, they barely notice.
So, I guess I'm just a forum girl. Hey, so all you studly males out there! If I haven't checked your profile or put you in my "favourites" file, it's because I'd rather chat with my buds here in the forums and hope you'll read what I have to say and decide, "THAT'S the girl for me!"
Funny thing happened to me on the way to the Forum, good title, lol , being a non paying member i cant view the hundreds who've viewed me, so i go look at the winks and emails, then the forum, then see whose on IM, even tho' i can't contact them, so I buzz Ready and get her to contact my friends lol