I have been reading every ones complaints about men on this site. I think we should start a posting of men who are not honest. Write his username is CAPS, so we all know who to steer clear of. I have to say, that we should all write that we are strong women on our profiles, I did, and no one has asked me for money. I didn't say that to put anyone down. It's just that men think we are stupid, and if we all stand together, it will be harder to play us. I hope all of you find an honest guy.
Hello, I want to share my own experience here. Some guys send me email professing his love and want to send me airline ticket for a weekend. I thought he sounds too good to be true ; why would he call me princess bride, my princess etc.... so I would agree for a weekend sex? No wayyyyyy. Who knows some of these guys might have STD or even AIDS !!! Some of the guys I chatted are really nice, like Mr Maxwell from New York, he's a gentleman and smart. The bottom line is......If it is too good to be true...IT'S NOT TRUE.
Honey, do I have a liar and cheap one for your list his name is supposedly AVOICE I did a posting on him yesterday and ladies if he contacts you run for the hills because this guy is a cheap user and makes women feel like crap with his holier than though attitude. I even bought his little girl some Victoria Secret body washes for Xmas they were like "Blossom Romance", "Amber Romance" and he had the nerve to tell me to my face how he never gave her the gift because he thought it was to adult...come on it wasn't like I bought the girl a g-string and what 12-13 year old girl doesn't like to smell pretty and even if it did say "Romance" I wasn't trying to corrupt the poor girl...and as a Mom of two I thought I had done a nice thing and did not get anything risque but no he said he wants to keep his daughter a little girl a little girl as long as possible and while I can understand that what girl doesn't liked Vickie's, and he made me feel horrible. He needs to wake up and come into the new millenium. And he is so CHEAP it is beyond words, thats why he is on this site for women who can take him out, buy him things, have sex with him, his old 50 year old butt thinks he looks like Denzel and meanwhile he looks like Flavor Flav!!....LOL
Total fraud and liar. Takes advantage of girls with huge hearts and destroys their souls. Not who he says he is, check the headers of his emails.. Do an IP search He is never in Canada, europe or anywhere other than CT. RUN FAR AND FAST IF HE CONTACTS YOU!!
Approximately from age 2, we begin to lie. It is a sad flaw within our human makeup. The trick, is to learn to live not from our ego but be true to ourselves. If one learns to read body language, it will be very obvious when a lie comes forth. Then it is up to you to, let it go, address it, or exit.
The truth is free.
There is no gender for telling the truth. Or for lying.
The truth gives you the same story.
Lies have a different tale every time.
Men who tell lies are the same as women who tell them..A liar...period.
Hummm...Fortunately, I personally have not encountered any liars so far. Possibly because of what I represent or the fact of knowing how to ask the right questions.
Both sexes can be dishonest and this we should keep in mind. The Internet is full of scam artist, lairs. etc...just as in regular society. A list would be as long as the oceans are wide if you logged them all. It's a waste of your time!
I understand your anger but do not let it consume you or change faucets of your personality. Learn from it and move on. Do not give him superiority over your time, your mind, or your heart.
In closing...What goes around will resurface again. He will reap what he has sewn...
In fact, ALL men, just like ALL women, are liars. The more appropriate consideration should be, who can look you straight in the eye, and then be less than honest.... those are the ones to avoid, regardless of gender.
Ladies you are starting on a path that had no destination. One thing ALL of you will need to ALWAYS remember is this is the "internet" Anyone can say anything about themselves at any given time. Unless you are very intimate with these guys at any given moment day after day after day(which is most unlikely as the distance is usually there)you will never know what they are truly like. Men/women can say anything. It's called getting to know someone and that is most certainly not full proof. Unless you can truly judge their character you don't know if what they say is the truth. So on that my advice is to put this thread to rest as it will only be a man bashing thread. No one can truly vouch for another unless they spend long quality time with them as we would with someone in our home town. Remember that and when you get involved with someone get all the pertinent info. Home phone, work phone,adress everything you would get from someone you were dating who lived down the street.
yes they are good men, but you are missing the point dear, it is the men who have done something to others,they dated or had friend contact with and the guy or gal maybe was not kewl and people want to warn others....
P.S. I notice that some of you would like to bury this thread and my apologies for resurfacing it but I just wanted to add that point in for the benefit of the women who mean well and want to join forces to combat players/liars. I completely agree with the notion of burying this thread.
Best of luck to all you ladies seeking a good partner- may your instincts guide you well.
No problem troubled Princess. Again anyone of you can complain about someone. I have had them give me a false name living right here in the same town. It's called "character". The men could bash the women as well as in reverse but remember one woman's/man's trash might be another ones treasure. Our personalities are all different. We have to go thru many to find the one as the men do too. So using this for general men bashing is not a good thing. Some people will never stop but you need to learn to ignore them. Take people as they are. Don't always listen to someone else's account. We know the difference between personalities that don't mesh and men/women who can cause havoc to others. So yes this thread needs to die a slow death. It's terminal. Let it "rest in peace".....
Excuse me..do you think this will help..and is it totally fair...what if a woman just has a bad experience..say he doesn't want she for whatever reason..or things just don't work out and she is pissed off....what if she is just a vindictive scorned woman..you are giving these people the power to destroy and ruin possibly innocent individuals reputations. Keeping this in mind a man could do this as well...he could ruin a woman's reputation..or leave much to question her integrity and character....and she may be innocent. I feel this leaves too many open doors...Now if someone is really bad..perhaps then...but I feel it could be offering the opportunity for an all out witch hunt just like the one that has been going on in.." Blog City" why go there. If one deems this necessary why not post that you have information on someone you believe is of questionable character ...then just say please contact me if interested.
susieinvegas write: I have to say, you are very smart for a young woman. We need more like you. I know of at least one on this site who is a liar, acts all sweet and compassionate, but is a total narcisstic jerk. Unfortunately, most women don't realize it, so he gets plenty of dates and actually has a fan club going on here. This behavior hurts all of us. I'd like to mention his screen name, but he gets all nasty when I do that, claims he can make me lose my children. Scary, huh?