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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 00:00

If I built a perfect man, which of these characteristics would be:

1. - "MH" (a must-have)
2. - "CLW" (could live without)
3. - "ANN" (absolutely not necessary)

Okay, here he goes......

HEAD:
a. gorgeous eyes w/ no glasses
b. sensuous lips
c. strong jaw and chin
d. no nose hairs
e. perfect teeth
f. a full head of fabulous hair
g. no piercings, plugs or ear hair
h. anything I left out _____________

BODY:
a. strong, muscular neck/shoulders
b. pecs you could bounce pennies off
c. big, bulging biceps
d. clean, manicured hands
e. six-pack abs
f. flat, sexy abdomen
g. gorgeous, muscular back
h. to-die-for derriere
i. enviable "package"
j. smooth, hairless body
k. cyclist's legs
l. clean, pedicured feet
m. no tattoos anywhere
n. anything I left out _______________

PERSONALITY:
a. even-tempered
b. sensitive
c. loving
d. in touch with his "feminine side"
e. great sense of humour
f. self-pride
g. self-confidence
h. religious
i. tolerant of others
j. enterprising
k. ambitious
l. competitive
m. fighter for justice
n. creative
o. anything I left out ___________

MIND:
a. brilliant
b. intelligent
c. dumb, but so pretty
d. finished high school
e. took some post-secondary
f. graduated university
g. acquired a masters degree
h. has a doctorate or is a Mensa member
i. anything I left out _____________

LEISURE:
a. athletic
b. academic, nose in a book
c. x-treme gentleman
d. couch-potato
e. traveler
f. passionate
g. shy
h. laid back
i. down to earth
j. leader
k. hard worker
l. great dancer
m. loves kids
n. loves animals
o. anything I left out _____________

ANYTHING ELSE I LEFT OUT: ____________

Okay, I've built a man. What qualities are MH, CLW OR ANN to you?

This is not a lesson in shallowness; it's a sort of exercise in knowing what's important to us, and what doesn't mean that much in our search for a luv-lemur! LOL

And it's not meant to put the guys on the spot, it's so that we can share our ideas with the men and show them what's hot and what's not with us.

I was inspired to start this by an old memory that popped up the other day about this guy who dressed like a bum, sported a horrible comb-over, had one chipped tooth right in the front of his smile and who had a lot of potential to make himself look handsome but chose, instead, to call me a shallow _itch because I told him I was busy after he asked me out for dinner. I just wasn't into him ... but he made it MY fault that I prefered men with better grooming habits.

Somebody else can build the perfect woman so the men can tell us what they can't life without, don't mind missing, or don't even care about.

  


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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 08:02

My list was too long, so the end was cut off! Here's the rest:

Family: Ideally, has a good relationship with his family, but at the very least with his mother. Has grown or near-grown children of his own, and does not want to have any more. Is respectful and decent toward the ex-wife and ex-lovers. Treats children and stepchildren well. Loves my child like a daughter. Ideally, loves cats and is not allergic to them, but at the very least is willing to compromise and live with them.



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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 08:00

I've built him and put out a call to the Universe:

Psychic/Spiritual: Has very good instincts. Is aware of a Higher Power: Witnesses how Spirit moves and effects change. Generates (and runs on) his own power. Is unwilling to psychically ?feed? off a woman without her explicit permission. Thoughtful and contemplative.

Emotional: Emotionally healthy and mature. Generally sane. Crazy in love with me, interested in what makes me tick, loves my brain. Motivated to make me happy. Indulgent, affectionate, generous, honest, emotionally available, independent.

Physical: Easy on the eyes: Nice eyes, nice smile, good teeth. Watches his diet, his weight, his general health. Slender and muscular. Metrosexual. No addictions to speak of (including tobacco). Free of nervous tics or damaging personal habits.

Intellectual/Personality/Aesthetics: Female-friendly; Treats women as individual human beings. Energetic, creative, gregarious, outgoing, funny, sociable, fashion-conscious. Loves to DO things: Music, dance, fine dining, travel, etc. Progressive, worldly, intelligent, in-touch, civic-minded, philanthropic, and intellectually curious. A lover of art, nature, and beauty. Has a lovely, comfortable home that acts as an emotional ?center.? Is neat, clean and orderly without being anal about it.

Sexual: Has good chemistry with me. We are each other?s physical type and are a good sexual ?match.? Wants to, is capable of, and willing to do what it takes to achieve mutual sexual bliss in the context of a committed relationship. Unwilling to impose moral standards that he is unwilling to live up to him. Open-minded, safe, loves to give pleasure, and skilled.

Financial: Understands that it?s important to me to continue to be financially independent. Financially secure enough to be able to spend on mutually enjoyable activities. Indulgent, especially of my fashion whims. Happy to jointly invest in our long-term security needs, even if we never marry.



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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2006 21:55

I had a meeting today with a politician in my city. He was talking to someone on his Bluetooth when he opened the door for me and invited me in with a hand-wave. He made me wait while he finished the call. He was wearing a plaid, short-sleeved shirt and baggy jeans. He had about a 52 inch stomach and was losing his hair and wore glasses. If he lost a bit of weight and didn't have such a pronounced double chin, I could see he was very attractive. He wasn't what anyone would call "the perfect man."

Nonetheless, we laughed through the whole meeting and I found him to be the most intelligent, funny, caring and witty guy I'd met in a long time. He had a firm handshake and during one of the 5 times we shook hands and said goodbye, he held my hand for about two minutes as he talked to me and while I looked at him, I thought, "I like him! I could see myself dating him!"

My idea of perfect for HIM was different. I hope we meet again soon!



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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2006 05:08

Well, if its good,I have it.

If its bad, I don't have it.

If I have it and you think its bad, you must be wrong.

And if I have it, and you don't want it, that means your specifications are wrong.

Now why would I want a woman that is wrong all of the time.


lolololol



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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 15:06

katiegrlK2B write:
If I built a perfect man, which of these characteristics would be:

1. - "MH" (a must-have)
2. - "CLW" (could live without)
3. - "ANN" (absolutely not necessary)

Okay, here he goes......

HEAD:
a. gorgeous eyes w/ no glasses-MH
b. sensuous lips-MH
c. strong jaw and chin-CLW
d. no nose hairs-MH
e. perfect teeth-MH
f. a full head of fabulous hair-CLW
g. no piercings, plugs or ear hair-MH
h. anything I left out _____________

BODY:
a. strong, muscular neck/shoulders-CLW
b. pecs you could bounce pennies off -ANN
c. big, bulging biceps-CLW
d. clean, manicured hands-MH
e. six-pack abs-ANN
f. flat, sexy abdomen-CLW
g. gorgeous, muscular back-CLW
h. to-die-for derriere-MH
i. enviable "package"-
j. smooth, hairless body-ANN
k. cyclist's legs-ANN
l. clean, pedicured feet-MH
m. no tattoos anywhere-CLW
n. anything I left out _Average body______________

PERSONALITY:
a. even-tempered-MH
b. sensitive-MH
c. loving-MH
d. in touch with his "feminine side"-CLW
e. great sense of humour-MH
f. self-pride-MH
g. self-confidence-MH
h. religious-ANN
i. tolerant of others-MH
j. enterprising-CLW
k. ambitious-MH
l. competitive-CLW
m. fighter for justice-ANN
n. creative-MH
o. anything I left out ___________

MIND:
a. brilliant-ANN
b. intelligent-MH
c. dumb, but so pretty-ANN
d. finished high school-MH
e. took some post-secondary-ANN
f. graduated university-CLW
g. acquired a masters degree-CLW
h. has a doctorate or is a Mensa member-ANN
i. anything I left out _____________

LEISURE:
a. athletic-MH
b. academic, nose in a book-MH
c. x-treme gentleman-CLW
d. couch-potato-ANN
e. traveler-MH
f. passionate-MH
g. shy-CLW
h. laid back-MH
i. down to earth-MH
j. leader-MH
k. hard worker-MH
l. great dancer-MH
m. loves kids-CLW
n. loves animals-CLW
o. anything I left out _____________

ANYTHING ELSE I LEFT OUT: ____________

Okay, I've built a man. What qualities are MH, CLW OR ANN to you?


Yikes, I haven't counted, but it seems like a lot of MH's.....No wonder!!!

And yes, Rob, I do believe if we build it, it will come!



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 22:24

katiegrlK2B write:
If I built a perfect man, which of these characteristics would be:

1. - "MH" (a must-have)
2. - "CLW" (could live without)
3. - "ANN" (absolutely not necessary)

Okay, here he goes......

HEAD:
a. gorgeous eyes w/ no glasses CLW
b. sensuous lips MH
c. strong jaw and chin CLW
d. no nose hairs MH...no nose hairs
e. perfect teeth MH
f. a full head of fabulous hair CLW
g. no piercings, plugs or ear hair MH
h. anything I left out _____________

BODY:
a. strong, muscular neck/shoulders CLW
b. pecs you could bounce pennies off CLW
c. big, bulging biceps CLW
d. clean, manicured hands MH
e. six-pack abs CLW
f. flat, sexy abdomen CLW (within reason)
g. gorgeous, muscular back CLW
h. to-die-for derriere CLW
i. enviable "package" CLW
j. smooth, hairless body CLW
k. cyclist's legs MH
l. clean, pedicured feet MH
m. no tattoos anywhere CLW (discreet location, not big)
n. anything I left out _no body piercings; no big hole rings in their ear lobes...YUK!!!

PERSONALITY:
a. even-tempered MH
b. sensitive MH
c. loving MH
d. in touch with his "feminine side" MH
e. great sense of humour MH
f. self-pride MH
g. self-confidence MH
h. religious CLW
i. tolerant of others MH
j. enterprising MH
k. ambitious MH
l. competitive MH
m. fighter for justice CLW
n. creative CLW
o. anything I left out _carry himself well, walking tall; looking into eyes when talking

MIND:
a. brilliant CLW
b. intelligent MH
c. dumb, but so pretty Absolutely Not
d. finished high school A.Not
e. took some post-secondary No
f. graduated university MH
g. acquired a masters degree CLW
h. has a doctorate or is a Mensa member CLW
i. anything I left out _____________

LEISURE:
a. athletic MH
b. academic, nose in a book No
c. x-treme gentleman MH
d. couch-potato NO
e. traveler MH
f. passionate MH
g. shy No
h. laid back CLW
i. down to earth CLW
j. leader MH
k. hard worker MH
l. great dancer CLW
m. loves kids MH
n. loves animals MH
o. anything I left out _____________

ANYTHING ELSE I LEFT OUT: ____________


I had to adlib because your choices didn't fit my view.



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 15:51

katiegrlK2B write:
If I built a perfect man, which of these characteristics would be:

1. - "MH" (a must-have)
2. - "CLW" (could live without)
3. - "ANN" (absolutely not necessary)

Okay, here he goes......

HEAD:
a. gorgeous eyes w/ no glasses
b. sensuous lips
c. strong jaw and chin
d. no nose hairs
e. perfect teeth
f. a full head of fabulous hair
g. no piercings, plugs or ear hair
h. anything I left out _____________

BODY:
a. strong, muscular neck/shoulders
b. pecs you could bounce pennies off
c. big, bulging biceps
d. clean, manicured hands
e. six-pack abs
f. flat, sexy abdomen
g. gorgeous, muscular back
h. to-die-for derriere
i. enviable "package"
j. smooth, hairless body
k. cyclist's legs
l. clean, pedicured feet
m. no tattoos anywhere
n. anything I left out _______________

PERSONALITY:
a. even-tempered
b. sensitive
c. loving
d. in touch with his "feminine side"
e. great sense of humour
f. self-pride
g. self-confidence
h. religious
i. tolerant of others
j. enterprising
k. ambitious
l. competitive
m. fighter for justice
n. creative
o. anything I left out ___________

MIND:
a. brilliant
b. intelligent
c. dumb, but so pretty
d. finished high school
e. took some post-secondary
f. graduated university
g. acquired a masters degree
h. has a doctorate or is a Mensa member
i. anything I left out _____________

LEISURE:
a. athletic
b. academic, nose in a book
c. x-treme gentleman
d. couch-potato
e. traveler
f. passionate
g. shy
h. laid back
i. down to earth
j. leader
k. hard worker
l. great dancer
m. loves kids
n. loves animals
o. anything I left out _____________

ANYTHING ELSE I LEFT OUT: ____________

Okay, I've built a man. What qualities are MH, CLW OR ANN to you?

This is not a lesson in shallowness; it's a sort of exercise in knowing what's important to us, and what doesn't mean that much in our search for a luv-lemur! LOL

And it's not meant to put the guys on the spot, it's so that we can share our ideas with the men and show them what's hot and what's not with us.

I was inspired to start this by an old memory that popped up the other day about this guy who dressed like a bum, sported a horrible comb-over, had one chipped tooth right in the front of his smile and who had a lot of potential to make himself look handsome but chose, instead, to call me a shallow _itch because I told him I was busy after he asked me out for dinner. I just wasn't into him ... but he made it MY fault that I prefered men with better grooming habits.

Somebody else can build the perfect woman so the men can tell us what they can't life without, don't mind missing, or don't even care about.

ok katie, I know you just copied all these items from my Bio,wink.



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 05:32

HEAD:
a. gorgeous eyes w/ no glasses (Nice eyes *Sigh* - glasses no prob)
b. sensuous lips (OWYEAH)
c. strong jaw and chin (CLW)
d. no nose hairs (CLW)
e. perfect teeth (Love great teath)
f. a full head of fabulous hair (CLW)
g. no piercings, plugs or ear hair (Dont like piercings)

BODY:
Found out I am not that picky bodywise. Have been attracted to all kinds of bodies ;-)

PERSONALITY:
a. even-tempered (Mwoah)
b. sensitive (Yeah)
c. loving (Yeah)
d. in touch with his "feminine side" (Yeah)
e. great sense of humour (OwwwYeah)
f. self-pride (Yeah)
g. self-confidence (HellllYeah)
h. religious (NOOOOOOOOOO)
i. tolerant of others (Mwoah)
j. enterprising (Mwoah)
k. ambitious (Yeah)
l. competitive (Mwoah)
m. fighter for justice (Mwoah)
n. creative (YEAHHHH)

(Mwoah means not that important)

MIND:
a. brilliant (Yes Please)
b. intelligent (Too)
c. dumb, but so pretty (I'll pass)
d. finished high school (would be a plus)
e. took some post-secondary (plus too)
f. graduated university (plus too)
g. acquired a masters degree (plusplusplus)
h. has a doctorate or is a Mensa member(Doctorate's nice, Mensa member doesn't impress me)

LEISURE:
a. athletic (Mwoah)
b. academic, nose in a book (I like that)
c. x-treme gentleman (Nice)
d. couch-potato (from time to time)
e. traveler (YEAHHHHH)
f. passionate (A Must!)
g. shy (NO!)
h. laid back (Would be nice)
i. down to earth (YEAHHH)
j. leader (Okay)
k. hard worker ('sCool)
l. great dancer (Nah)
m. loves kids (Yeah, why not)
n. loves animals (Or at least my cat)

Can I order one like that from you Katie?
I understand the at least 6 weeks delivery thingie, thats okay... just make it a masterpiece pls!
:-)



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 05:21

I guess this is the female equilvalant of Kevin Costner's field of dreams???

"Build it and they will come" :o)

Intrigued though as to what the responses will be!



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 03:27

A sensual nerd. :)

I've found that types that I don't usually go for (blue-eyed blondes, slim) have held my attention merely on something they did or said or the way they touched me which made them very attractive.



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