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Posted on Tue, May 30, 2006 22:20

cocopopz writes:
Why do some of you insist on being so spitefull?
These forums are full of bitterness.
I just don't get all of this bitching and down right cruel behaviour.
It is just bullying plain and simple and those of you who take part in this are obviously emotionaly and mentaly retarded.
You stop normal , decent people from wanting to join in.
If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all.
All this negative emotion must effect you and if doesn't your not human.
Leave the play ground stuff to the kids.
I'm certain you would all feel better for it.


Where did Coco and the puppy go? Did she stop wanting to join in? Gee, it would take more than a bit of ribbing from the m,m,members to make ME go away.

When I was a poppin' fresh newbie, I read the forums awhile and then started a thread with what I thought was an interesting topic that others would be inspired to participate in. They did.

Then I slowly and sometimes smart-assely (I just made up that word) commented on other threads, integrating myself into the MM community, watching my P's and Q's, not causing trouble ... well, until Edtarboosh (a favorite past member) said something unsavoury about me and I hit the cyber-ceiling. Being new, I didn't realize he was just a master of sarcastic humour and NOT a troll or a flamer. I backed off, made peace, and adapted.

That's what helps us all get along here,(those of us who DO). We get to know each other, follow the lead of others, be sensitive to each unique, eccentric style or risk misunderstanding a poster, taking issue with them, and making fools of ourselves. It's all a learning process.

Forums are no place to just barge in and start setting everybody straight ... according to YOU. lol It's like a party. You don't just walk into the room and start telling everybody what YOU believe and what YOU think is so ... and everybody else is wrong or a moron if they differ. That'll get you pushed out of the party onto the balcony and the sliding doors locked on you in a New York minute!

MM Forum is most definately a "community." Many of us have known each other (online AND in person) for years. We talk to each other the way we talk to each other. We deal with it so .....

If you're a newbie and you want to join in on the Forum, by all means ... you're more than welcome! Some fresh views are great! But you're nuts if you jump into a flame-thrower's fight and expect not to get a little burned!
Try the less controversial threads and make us love you like Triples did.

Then ... unless you insult someone despicably ... who could resist you?

Try it.



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Posted on Mon, May 29, 2006 17:52

GrapesOfGoodHope write:

PS Stats dear, I'm jealous of you! You really do have a suitable MM name!


Grapes sorry i am always soooooo far behind- lack of participation(smile)
Now i have never seen a full shot of you but with 5'10/slim i can imagine(NLW of course)..LOL. Thank you tho for such a nice compliment

WILLPRT- You know you are so right. Isn't it nice to have discussions of anything without the fighting. It is possible. And when someone gets out of line say your piece get it over and forget it..(AHHHHHHHH wishful thinking)

  


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Posted on Mon, May 29, 2006 10:48

SweetAimee write:
Chatherine5050 write:
When I was asked to enter my credit card number, my statement did not read "GrapesOfGoodHope" or "Preciouz".

Well I be darned!
It didnt say that with you?
My agreement stated I had to always cherish the wise words of fine GrapesOfGoodHope! And I willingly accepted these terms and haven't got any regrets about that ever since.

I think there are different ways to 'enter a new virtual community.'
You can 'fight' your way in or you could sit back a bit and slowly move in.
Both are perfectly okay.
I think now the time has come Catherine, for you to enter a new phase.
You are in! :-) (Welcome!)
I think you are a smart, beautiful lady with enough wit to also make other responses.
Let's now get passed the 'some elite group is terrorizing newbe's away from the forums', and start having fun again. (Tho I know how those 'fighting threads' can be fun too.)
Come join the 'catfights thread', where you can say what you want without coming across like things written here need to be taken so seriously.
(I think same goes for Preciouz... get off your 'selfrighteous' horsey and let's not be seriouz for a change.)

In conclusion; let's all QUIT this bitching about who is or isn't bitching and let's all be bitching together. (MSRob, you can be HeadBitch lol)

Anyone who has some issue with what I'm saying here can come eat at this restaurant:

Yup thats what my agreement said also. It also said in case of emergency, if Grapesofgoodhope is not available; contact Rob. To be honest with you, he hasnt been much help. He cant even fish a frog out of the toilet.



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Posted on Sun, May 28, 2006 09:51

Chatherine5050 write:
When I was asked to enter my credit card number, my statement did not read "GrapesOfGoodHope" or "Preciouz".

Well I be darned!
It didnt say that with you?
My agreement stated I had to always cherish the wise words of fine GrapesOfGoodHope! And I willingly accepted these terms and haven't got any regrets about that ever since.

I think there are different ways to 'enter a new virtual community.'
You can 'fight' your way in or you could sit back a bit and slowly move in.
Both are perfectly okay.
I think now the time has come Catherine, for you to enter a new phase.
You are in! :-) (Welcome!)
I think you are a smart, beautiful lady with enough wit to also make other responses.
Let's now get passed the 'some elite group is terrorizing newbe's away from the forums', and start having fun again. (Tho I know how those 'fighting threads' can be fun too.)
Come join the 'catfights thread', where you can say what you want without coming across like things written here need to be taken so seriously.
(I think same goes for Preciouz... get off your 'selfrighteous' horsey and let's not be seriouz for a change.)

In conclusion; let's all QUIT this bitching about who is or isn't bitching and let's all be bitching together. (MSRob, you can be HeadBitch lol)

Anyone who has some issue with what I'm saying here can come eat at this restaurant:

  
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Posted on Sat, May 27, 2006 08:58

GrapesOfGoodHope write:
Oh dear, another one bit the dust! Retracted her "nasty, rotten" thread and responses! Respect, Cocopopz, Leb' wohl!

LOL........Well said....

  


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Posted on Sat, May 27, 2006 03:27

cocopopz write:
Why do some of you insist on being so spitefull?
These forums are full of bitterness.
I just don't get all of this bitching and down right cruel behaviour.
It is just bullying plain and simple and those of you who take part in this are obviously emotionaly and mentaly retarded.
You stop normal , decent people from wanting to join in.
If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all.
All this negative emotion must effect you and if doesn't your not human.
Leave the play ground stuff to the kids.
I'm certain you would all feel better for it.

From your message, you don't seem to be doing too bad yourself either....
It's one thing to try and make peace and be diplomatic about it... it's another to insult also with your message, You can't have it both ways.
Those who live in a Glass House, shouldn't throw stones.



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Posted on Sat, May 27, 2006 03:14

Why post such a boring message about posting such nasty, rotten messages.

People should quit feeling so offended all the time. Great thing on a forum is YOU DONT HAVE TO READ ANY OF IT if you don't want to.

One mouseclick and Whoopsilaaa... you're back in real life again! Isnt life Grand!



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 13:44

cocopopz write:
I have seen the things they say about you blondeindian and all i can say is the green eyed monster is one mean creature.
Jealousy will eat them inside out in the end and they have nobody else to blame. I hope you don't let them worry you too much because your face is to pretty to be spoiled by frown lines


Well Coco it seems you are doing some name calling of your own. If you want to comment on this subject the names of retarded etc. should be left out or that makes you no different then anyone else who does it.

Coco let me just say to you no one on here is jealous of anyone else. And if you are talking about BI rest assured no one is jealous of her. Please note that our BlondeIndian at one time way back but not to far was verbally abusing everyone on this sight that was on the forums. She started off very badly like that and she made alot of enemies. She will make you think everyone is against her which is not true. Everyone has exhausted their tolerance for her childlike behaviour. So Coco take what you hear with a grain of salt and believe even less.

Jealousy has NO part in anything to do with BI.



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 10:39

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i have so many times, because they attack me the most, they do recken with these folks on occassion



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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 22:17

cocopopz write:
Why do some of you insist on being so spitefull?
These forums are full of bitterness.
I just don't get all of this bitching and down right cruel behaviour.
It is just bullying plain and simple and those of you who take part in this are obviously emotionaly and mentaly retarded.
You stop normal , decent people from wanting to join in.
If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all.
All this negative emotion must effect you and if doesn't your not human.
Leave the play ground stuff to the kids.
I'm certain you would all feel better for it.


I only bash misogynistic boobs who call me names and I haven't done that in many weeks.

So, tell me, Coco .... who is that darling little, black, furry baby you're holding? What a precious little thing.



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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 16:35

That question has been asked again and again, but the environment remains the same. If there was an actual moderator for the forum, that would help immensely. It would be worth the investment as this behavior causes good people to leave. This is a dating site after all!

Look at the deteriorating forums thread and you will find some answers there.



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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 10:33

perhaps if more people would write to MM and complain about the trouble makers then maybe they will get rid of them. it would only make good business sense to rid the site of them and allow fresh sweet people in with out the worries of being slandered. so everybody write to MM and let them figure it out. good luck everyone.



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