I am disapointed about how many profiles say i want a man who can spoil me, or something along those lines...
My last gf and i dated for over 4 years, and i can assure you she was never in need of anything!
But if before we got together she said, "i want a man who can buy me" etc etc... i would never have asked her out.
When i look at profiles i look for interesting things written down. Something that makes me want to get to know the person... The second i read anything that says gimmie gimmie i close that window.
I dont think people wanting a rich person, is looking for love... and someone who replys to that kind of profile, cant honestly expect to find love, maybe something else, but not love...
Bottom line is, if you are serious about finding love, talk about what makes you "you". Then when someone writes to you, you know it is because they want to know you.
Sorry to blab on so much, just annoyed at how often i see it.
very cute dog/cat/"fluffy thing" you have there cocopopz!!!
Great points about not appreciating things that are merely given to you. I always loved the end of "It's a Wonderful Life" when Jimmy Stewart learns that no man is poor who has friends. Some of the richest people I know are also some of the loneliest and most messed up while some of the happiest people I know have little discretionary income. Instead of going to the fancy restaurants to see and be seen they stay at home to cook and spend time together. Money does help reduce stress but there's a lot more to life. However, I don't want to discourage the bra burning, sounds like a great campifre.