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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 20:58

Well, I'm relatively discouraged. Are there ANY men alive who are looking for something more substantive than the proverbial eye/arm candy kind of woman? Given that there is no short supply of young, nubile females on this site, I guess I can't blame you all. Why opt for a 47 year old when there are plenty of 20-somethings with bodies that just don't quit. Guess maturity, intelligence, and the ability to articulate two complete sentences in a row just can't compete with great legs.

It's a sad fact, but our eyes all fail, or bosoms don't sit as high and proud, our skin is no longer flawless, and the men -- well apparently they just join MM and start searching for the next youngest age group with a pretty face and still firm body.

My face and body, while certainly not perfect, has the wonderful beauty of real life etched on it, and who I truly am radiates from within with a warm glow.

Pity that seemingly matters not.

Signed,

Former Hard Body Who Had a Few Birthdays and a Couple Children, Worked Too Many Hours, Got Not Enough Sleep, And Ended Up Looking Like This.

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Posted on Sun, Oct 15, 2006 07:37

Reinman write:
Well, After reading the post from Usendme2 I have to say that putting all men in that category is like saying all women are the same. I for one am not looking for the arm show trophy woman. But rather one of compatibility, substance, experience, integrity and pleasing to my eye not everyone elses and if other people find her attractive that's great for her because I already see it.In my option the women in our age group are more independent and some men find that very intimidating, I for one do not. So don't give up, you have to look in the corners of the room, not the center, we tend to be soft spoken and don't need to be the center of attention. We are confident in ourselves with out having to be arrogant, and a few of us believe in integrity is is the cornerstone of our life.So hang in there and keep searchin.

After personally knowing this lad I'd have to take a lil chuckle to this comment!



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Posted on Tue, Jul 04, 2006 20:28

ARredneck write:
howdy gigi woman u show mee truck tu every won u lik mee truck i see wanna go fer ride in it sum tyme end big bozz mam i liks ur hat tu u hansom gal tu

Hmmm, do they have smell check on here?



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Posted on Tue, Jul 04, 2006 19:37

BlondeLightning write:
Hi Everyone!

I don't do White Lightning, I am the Blonde Lightning guy, lol. That shine makes your kids look like the baby below, lol. Care for a glass/bottle of some fine wine, lol. See I have a jug too- Wine Jug, LMAO! It will get you there too, just not as fast, lol.

BL,

Redneck chillins is bred genetikalicly like that. While they is teethin they can open beer bottles or cans. Cums n mighty handly. Thar permnant tooths come in like normal mostly...



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Posted on Fri, Jun 30, 2006 03:50

Lexus -I will be your arm candy anyday! And I have brains to boot. I love your look! Sophisticated with a little devil behind the eyes! Yum



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Posted on Tue, Jun 27, 2006 15:56

lexusdriverkj write:
I do state in the profile that she has to be my equal and does not have to be a "10". Quite honestly, my "10" may be another man's 5. She has to look good to me. So, none of us can deny that their partner has to look good in their eyes. An attractive woman to me does have to have brains, a sense of humor and confidence. But even a woman with all of the above that I am not physically attracted to is not someone I would date. It is actually very simple.

touche' and much better stated than your original post, lexus.

Say, what kind of car do you drive? And in NY, do you really get to drive it?!
lol



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Posted on Sun, Jun 25, 2006 20:13

Hey, These guys don't really believe they are going to find a girl riding a whale do they? Am i really going to be solarized in real life? Then again, am i going to only show photos of what i look like when i wake up, or the glam shot I had taken in a studio 20 years ago, or can they see thru all that, and see the artist, the intelligence, the humor, the essence of my being? Lets hope they aren't all shallow and looking for that perfect hardbody youngster. I wouldn't want him if he was looking for that anyway so i'm not too concerned about that type of man. If he doesnt want a real woman, then who wants him?

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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 16:30

lexusdriverkj write:
I for one do like arm candy. But that does not mean she has to be 20 y/o. But if she is in her 20's and arm candy, she still has to have all of the qualities you state. Now- let me make an observation. A woman that is on a site called millionaire match should not be throwing stones...why not give the poor guys a chance as well. I am sure there is a gas station attendant that is smart, funny and a good man to be with.

Gee, that's not what your profile says.
I believe it says something about a woman who is your equal, doesn't have to be a "10" and has a dynamic personality.....so which is more accurate?

Your observation is more of an assumption. You assume the women on this site are here for men with lots of money. Granted, there are those for whom that it priority 1. It does not hold, however, for most of the women (at least for those who play on the forum). Successful men often have many other traits that successful women find attractive. And suddenly the question comes to mind: A lot of men throw this assumption out to women and yet are rarely asked why they are on this particular site.

So what say you, lexus, why are you on this particular site?



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 21:36

Mochalioness write:
Hi USendMe2,
Let me say, of course in a non-lesbian way (LOL) that you are STUNNING!! And ladies, we know that as most men age, like women, they begin to lose some of their "youthfulness" also. To compensate for this, they go in search of faster - you know, faster cars, faster women, faster ways to achieve erections, etc. Nonetheless, women like ourselves, (35 ) must believe that there are men out there that are not in search of faster. That there are those that welcome intelligence, natural beauty, grace. We may have to kiss a lot of toads along the way in our search for them, but let's do it with grace, style and intelligence! Because, in the end, once that novelty of having "eye candy" has worn off and the ant bites have healed, it is us they will seek. WOMEN with grace, intelligence, style, etc.

Kisses....

Jada


So Jada, that means we need one other quality! Patience.

Oh ... and no toad allergies. LOL



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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 14:49

Hi USendMe2,
Let me say, of course in a non-lesbian way (LOL) that you are STUNNING!! And ladies, we know that as most men age, like women, they begin to lose some of their "youthfulness" also. To compensate for this, they go in search of faster - you know, faster cars, faster women, faster ways to achieve erections, etc. Nonetheless, women like ourselves, (35 ) must believe that there are men out there that are not in search of faster. That there are those that welcome intelligence, natural beauty, grace. We may have to kiss a lot of toads along the way in our search for them, but let's do it with grace, style and intelligence! Because, in the end, once that novelty of having "eye candy" has worn off and the ant bites have healed, it is us they will seek. WOMEN with grace, intelligence, style, etc.

Kisses....

Jada

  
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Posted on Fri, May 26, 2006 23:28

killian2005 write:
I am the furthest thing from eye candy but even I have gotten a few replies from men on this site. They're not all shallow. However, the amount of men who look at my profile and never contact me is staggering. It is interesting to note, though, that some of the men who have contacted me are very young and very good looking.


killian, is it YOU who's hoggin' all the men?

  


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Posted on Fri, May 26, 2006 05:44

I am the furthest thing from eye candy but even I have gotten a few replies from men on this site. They're not all shallow. However, the amount of men who look at my profile and never contact me is staggering. It is interesting to note, though, that some of the men who have contacted me are very young and very good looking.



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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 21:51

robtest write:
I agree with you BlondeL on the too good looking ones with nothing else! Sometimes it seems they spent their whole budget on that and scrimped on the brains and heart.

Besides, I hate arm candy. It gets so sticky and messy, and you end up having to shave all the hair off your arms. I can't imagine it getting in your eyes...


Ohhhh ... and the ants!



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Posted on Wed, May 24, 2006 06:18

I take care of myself for myself and not to please any man. Like you say, gravity sets in and we all age. It goes beyond where plastic surgery can no longer delay the ageing process.
There is the odd guy that genuinely is looking for someone who isn't miss Model of the year.
Hang on, you look great. In the meanwhile go out and do something for yourself.



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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 16:52

I agree with you BlondeL on the too good looking ones with nothing else! Sometimes it seems they spent their whole budget on that and scrimped on the brains and heart.

Besides, I hate arm candy. It gets so sticky and messy, and you end up having to shave all the hair off your arms. I can't imagine it getting in your eyes...



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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 07:12

Awww, that's the nicest thing someone's said to me in a long time! Are you available later??? (And of couse I mean that in a very non-lesbian way as well! lolol)

Cheers, Ladies. If the men don't come through, I guess there's still the old battery-operated "man"!



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 21:27

USendMe2 write:
Well, I'm relatively discouraged. Are there ANY men alive who are looking for something more substantive than the proverbial eye/arm candy kind of woman? Given that there is no short supply of young, nubile females on this site, I guess I can't blame you all. Why opt for a 47 year old when there are plenty of 20-somethings with bodies that just don't quit. Guess maturity, intelligence, and the ability to articulate two complete sentences in a row just can't compete with great legs.

It's a sad fact, but our eyes all fail, or bosoms don't sit as high and proud, our skin is no longer flawless, and the men -- well apparently they just join MM and start searching for the next youngest age group with a pretty face and still firm body.

My face and body, while certainly not perfect, has the wonderful beauty of real life etched on it, and who I truly am radiates from within with a warm glow.

Pity that seemingly matters not.

Signed,

Former Hard Body Who Had a Few Birthdays and a Couple Children, Worked Too Many Hours, Got Not Enough Sleep, And Ended Up Looking Like This.


Hell, Me2! I think Mother Nature has been more than generous to you over the years then! I'd kill for a face shaped like yours!

(and of course ...................I mean that in a very non-lesbian way.) LOL



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