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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 21:22

Well, I'm relatively discouraged. Are there ANY men alive who are looking for something more substantive than the proverbial eye/arm candy kind of woman? Given that there is no short supply of young, nubile females on this site, I guess I can't blame you all. Why opt for a 47 year old when there are plenty of 20-somethings with bodies that just don't quit. Guess maturity, intelligence, and the ability to articulate two complete sentences in a row just can't compete with great legs.

It's a sad fact, but our eyes all fail, or bosoms don't sit as high and proud, our skin is no longer flawless, and the men -- well apparently they just join MM and start searching for the next youngest age group with a pretty face and still firm body.

My face and body, while certainly not perfect, has the wonderful beauty of real life etched on it, and who I truly am radiates from within with a warm glow.

Pity that seemingly matters not.

Signed,

Former Hard Body Who Had a Few Birthdays and a Couple Children, Worked Too Many Hours, Got Not Enough Sleep, And Ended Up Looking Like This.

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Posted on Tue, Jun 17, 2008 14:02

Quoting USendMe2:

Well, I'm relatively discouraged. Are there ANY men alive who are looking for something more substantive than the proverbial eye/arm candy kind of woman? Given that there is no short supply of young, nubile females on this site, I guess I can't blame you all. Why opt for a 47 year old when there are plenty of 20Well-somethings with bodies that just don't quit. Guess maturity, intelligence, and the ability to articulate two complete sentences in a row just can't compete with great legs.
Well Darlin' let me help you out here... looks have absolutely nothing to do with ones ability to string words together.

What you are saying is that because a woman is beautiful she must be stupid and that no more accurate than saying that all ugly women are smart.

There are tons of women older than you who do just fine on this site.

Perhaps... just perhaps it has more to do with your attitude than it does your looks?



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Posted on Fri, Apr 13, 2007 04:26

If you are tired of men treating you like eye candy then stop posting photos of yourself posing AS eye candy...:-)



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Posted on Thu, Aug 24, 2006 17:43

So sorry to hear about you.



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Posted on Wed, Aug 23, 2006 01:19

beaulababes write:
You can never be too old to be eye/arm candy. just look at me at 45. still dating men from 25 to much older. its still pretty easy to make the men turn and look twice!


beaulababes, weren't you from Jakarta. Indonesia a few months ago. When did you move to South Africa??



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Posted on Sat, Jul 29, 2006 19:53

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I can understand the eyecandy thing with men. Some work long ours and at the end of the day their brain is just tired. They dont want to discuss any heavy (highly intelligent) topics just want something nice too look at... we girls have the soap operas to do the trick....lol


Ummmm...I never watch soap operas, and rarely watch TV. Sometimes my days are incredibly busy and filled with just as many stress filled issues that require my attention, leaving me feeling a little brain dead...but business is one thing, and conversation for pleasure is another. I can separate the two. It comes down to personality types. My personality derives energy from interaction with people. Other personality types are drained of their energy when they must converse with people all day, hence want to sit in silence at the end of the day.

I don't know any women that watches soaps!



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Posted on Sat, Jul 29, 2006 19:53

yourgrue write:
I can understand the eyecandy thing with men. Some work long ours and at the end of the day their brain is just tired. They dont want to discuss any heavy (highly intelligent) topics just want something nice too look at... we girls have the soap operas to do the trick....lol


Ummmm...I never watch soap operas, and rarely watch TV. Sometimes my days are incredibly busy and filled with just as many stress filled issues that require my attention, leaving me feeling a little brain dead...but business is one thing, and conversation for pleasure is another. I can separate the two. It comes down to personality types. My personality derives energy from interaction with people. Other personality types are drained of their energy when they must converse with people all day, hence want to sit in silence at the end of the day.

I don't know any women that watches soaps!



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Posted on Sat, Jul 29, 2006 09:04

In view of the fact that all the Scots lassies who come to visit me are family I will refrain from comment except to say they are all interesting conversationalists, well read, well traveled, keep immaculate homes and boy are their husbands lucky.

I have met many beautiful older women of many races and ethnic backgrounds that 20 year olds would cry to have their body.

You miss the main point regarding beauty and that is that outer beauty may fade (if you let it) but inner beauty lasts a lifetime.

Anyone can improve outer beauty at the plastic surgeon or gym but inner beauty is the real you and that is what a real man is searching for.

Funny thing though I have always found that women with inner beauty have no problem attracting men to them for the long term.Eye candy however normally, though not always, has a problem keeping their men long term.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 28, 2006 02:55

Young lassie from Edinburgh, never bring business home, and if i want something nice to look at I'll hang up some pictures. I want to come home to someone who looks good but has the brains to know how to relax and unwind her man, who can converse in a witty , knowledgeable way, knows her way round her kitchen, and yes i enjoy helping in that department, cooking can be quite good fun. and knows her way around the boudoir to.But then i like a sharing caring relationship where both partners are equal, why should a man expect to be pampered when he gets home , his girl might feel like a bit of pampering to. So kick the kids out and pamper the hell out of each other.



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Posted on Tue, Jul 25, 2006 03:11

Your smile proves my point on beauty beaulababes!



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Posted on Mon, Jul 24, 2006 15:30

If I had an easier time dating I wouldn't be on this web site. Actually I'm tired of men treating me like eye candy just because of the way I look. I just hope I don't go around bashing beautiful women when I'm 47. Assuming they are all beautiful empty shells.
Thanks, You have proven my point.

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Posted on Sun, Jul 23, 2006 07:18

The terms eye candy or arm candy are very negative portrayls of women in general. I have dated women that stop traffic and others you would walk past unnoticed in the grocery store.

What is important to me is the smile on her face each time we meet and greet each other. The thought process of others is of no interest to me. If a lady is beautiful it is demeaning to call her eye candy. However if she or he is a gold digger then call a spade a spade.



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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 17:18

Lombard cracks me up.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 16, 2006 22:24

don't worry about it. i'm total arm/eye candy & i'm just as single



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Posted on Wed, Jul 12, 2006 19:55

About the eye candy subject.

Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder. What is eye candy to one may be a eyesore to another.

It doesn't matter what your age, size, shape, etc. is, just find the person who likes what you have. Beauty is only a fleeting superficial thing anyway, and while it may attract, it will never keep anyone around long unless there is substance behind it.

Substance definition used

That which is solid and practical in character, quality, or importance



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Posted on Wed, Jul 12, 2006 19:24

sharp1 write:
wwww123456 write:
sharp1 write:
DanDaring write:
And further more Rob us Brits go out with Ladies, vocalization , good grief, a lady never speaks with her mouthful, just mumbles a bit


Then chokes on her food, right? At that point you step in to perform the Heinlichen (sp???) Maneuvre? lol


The last time I licked the hinnie of a strange woman, she slapped the $#@%& out of me. lol

Well, one did give me a tip.

lol


What kind of tip 4w's... "Never to lick the hinnie of a lady?" We are talking LADIES here ya know! LOL


"ladies" like hinnielicks as much as anyone else.

Besides, I was just trying to save their lives. Geeee did you want me to just let then die??



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Posted on Tue, Jun 27, 2006 08:16

wwww123456 write:
sharp1 write:
DanDaring write:
And further more Rob us Brits go out with Ladies, vocalization , good grief, a lady never speaks with her mouthful, just mumbles a bit


Then chokes on her food, right? At that point you step in to perform the Heinlichen (sp???) Maneuvre? lol


The last time I licked the hinnie of a strange woman, she slapped the $#@%& out of me. lol

Well, one did give me a tip.

lol


What kind of tip 4w's... "Never to lick the hinnie of a lady?" We are talking LADIES here ya know! LOL



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Posted on Sat, Jun 24, 2006 08:26

wwww123456 write:
sharp1 write:
DanDaring write:
And further more Rob us Brits go out with Ladies, vocalization , good grief, a lady never speaks with her mouthful, just mumbles a bit


Then chokes on her food, right? At that point you step in to perform the Heinlichen (sp???) Maneuvre? lol


The last time I licked the hinnie of a strange woman, she slapped the $#@%& out of me. lol

Well, one did give me a tip.

lol


Yes, those hinnie-licks are precarious things. One must be careful though. Sometimes when you save their life, they are just not grateful at all. Always include the tip in the bill...



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Posted on Fri, Jun 23, 2006 13:40

sharp1 write:
DanDaring write:
And further more Rob us Brits go out with Ladies, vocalization , good grief, a lady never speaks with her mouthful, just mumbles a bit


Then chokes on her food, right? At that point you step in to perform the Heinlichen (sp???) Maneuvre? lol


The last time I licked the hinnie of a strange woman, she slapped the $#@%& out of me. lol

Well, one did give me a tip.

lol



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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 20:33

DanDaring write:
I think eye candy is for they young American guy, he wants to impress his friends with a shapely dolly who musn't open her mouth.
But as one gets older and wiser this requirement fades, one needs a supportive . cooperative wife, whose going to be good in bed and around the discussion table.
then as retirement looms, one realizes that one wants an equal partner a sharer, an explorer, a lover, a whore. a companion. a friend , an equal, a true loving woman
the real clever guys are the ones that realize this when they marry the first one



Not true. Many men of every age who are single, especially those who are wealthy want the eye candy. The difference is real men who live everday lives are realistic to what women are. Those who are wealthy are usually arrogant and expect the eye candy because they can buy it. They can't buy love though and are some of the most emotionally starved I have ever seen. I have many who I work with and who are friends and they have the eye candy who takes every dime they can and neither has any feelings for the other except financial. But to say it's young guys is highly inaccurate in every way whether they will admit it or not! Even the wealthy men who are not that attractive sport their candy cane because they buy it. Otherwise, you know the women would have nothing to do with them. I came to this site because I expected it to have more educated people and it appeared to be safer then others. Sadly, a piece of paper does not make them intelligent and I have received several offers from men ages 36-67 who want to buy my affection and how beneficial it would be for me. It's all they know how to do. Not really love someone...



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