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Posted on Thu, Apr 20, 2006 11:21

Can somebody please tell me? Because I can not comprehend!

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 02:32

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I don't think it is about being a bad-girl so much as it is being in tune sexually with ourselves. A woman can act like a whore in the bedroom, but unless she is passionate about the rest of her life how attractive is she really? I am not afraid to tell a man what I want in the bedroom but does that make me bad? I wear low cut blouses because I like how i look. Does that make me bad? I can change a tire, love to ride a motorcycle, dance with abandon at the drop of a hat, and don't have any qualms about stopping a man in his tracks just to tell him how hot/handsome he is. Does that make me bad. So what IS bad anyway?


Good post, Smiley's!

I think in addition to being self-aware, inquisitive with their partner and willing to stray from the missionary position, women also have to be contemporary in their sexual knowledge. We don't actually have to have experience with bondage, role-playing, different positions, etc. but you can bet men know all about that stuff and, if they're intrigued by it, they've certainly fantasized about it if not actually tried it. (cheeky monkeys) LOL

And knowledge of edible underwear, chocolate genitalia and "toys" doesn't mean we have to approve of them and try them all ... but a bit of education and adventure can make a relationship more spicey, that's for sure.

There's a ton of stuff on the Net. If we familiarize ourselves with some of it, then our men won't shock the hell out of us when their trying to coax the "bad girl" out of us. LOL

If men are attracted to bad girls, they need to know, many of us have a bad girl hidden inside ... waiting to be seduced out!

Purrrrrrrr...



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Posted on Sat, Jul 01, 2006 14:10

I don't think it is about being a bad-girl so much as it is being in tune sexually with ourselves. A woman can act like a whore in the bedroom, but unless she is passionate about the rest of her life how attractive is she really? I am not afraid to tell a man what I want in the bedroom but does that make me bad? I wear low cut blouses because I like how i look. Does that make me bad? I can change a tire, love to ride a motorcycle, dance with abandon at the drop of a hat, and don't have any qualms about stopping a man in his tracks just to tell him how hot/handsome he is. Does that make me bad. So what IS bad anyway?



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 22:19

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Well J that doesn't just extend to you guys. One of the biggest thing about most women is they are attracted to the "bad boys" It takes them a little out of their norm. It reeks of excitement. It takes you sometimes to places just for the thrill. Bad Boys are just that bad boys. They are not good for long term but while you have them it can be one hell of a ride...LOL

Dawn ,thats why you pursued me,huh?


LMAo in your dreams Steve. You're the one with the hijacked poems and you so love virtual flowers. I can't remember ever getting as many as you sent me!!!!!!


I'm sorry but that is beyond hysterical! Send through some virtual movies and you can pull up a seat and have a "drive in" view. Oh, lord! What is the world coming to. That just cracked me up. No pun intended really, just found it funny. I am assuming by hijacked poems you mean ones plagerized from poetry sites? Hey, you gotta give the man credit for trying. Maybe he really sucks at writing or expressing himself. I don't know. Take heart you two. You got to know each other, it didn't work, but that only means you have learned from each other things about yourself and about others for future reference and at one point those moments of getting along brought you a smile, so not all was a loss! Find the positives and smile on those and let the other fade away like it should.

As for the bad girls, well, who knows. It's the sex appeal for most men. I have been dubbed that after the two men I had relationships with got me behind closed doors, but I would never be the type that is stereotypical. And the other girl is right that it's okay to talk about be open about sex. Best to be open then up with HIV or anything else dangerous to you! Bad girls are like bad boys that we women are attracted to. It's the rebel in them and the spice!



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 13:29

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Assume.... you know that word I hope... Sexually, my conduct is not any ones business unless that door is open. And I guess My Question to you would be why would anyone assume that my post was all about SEX:::
I mentioned that I was not afraid to talk about sex, Not that I slept with anyone that wanted it. (And that is what i got from your post.)
I do think that my post was stating, That women tend to have a problem with talking to men about the mans interests and expecting things from men that they, women, are not willing to do themselves.
I got my BAD-GIRL title due to the fact that I would rather hang out with the guys than the girls. I don't fit in with women, for a number of reasons. (if two guys go out on a Harley they are just friends but if a woman goes she is a whore) I am so sorry but I am not that shallow or that desperate.
My point is, any girl is a bad-girl if she does not conform to society and its expectations. I like to know facts, and society states that an assumption is all you need to be judgmental. If that is the case, would you not say that any man and or woman on an Internet dating site is a whore. they chat with more people in 1 day about sex (assumption) and arouse each other (assumption) possibly to satisfaction whore or no.
i just say this Read what is written and don't assume.

You go girl!!!



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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 09:22

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Hey Rob, of course you Mum knew , you silly lad, fancy going home wearing a french maids costume, didn't the fishnets make the hairs on your legs tickle. But I'll bet you looked real cute. Did you say your a 'redneck' or was it 'redlips'


Mom was used to the french maid outfit. Where do you think I learned that? Well, from dear old Dad of course... But none of the lipstick stuff. Good Lord. I might be a lesbian stuck in a man's body, but I am certainly not gay! Just teasing, it is all in fun.

"Not that there is anything wrong with that" as Jerry Seinfield would say...

BTW, best wishes on National Gay and Lesbian Pride Month to all those that do choose that alternative lifestyle...

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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 12:29

Hey Rob, of course you Mum knew , you silly lad, fancy going home wearing a french maids costume, didn't the fishnets make the hairs on your legs tickle. But I'll bet you looked real cute. Did you say your a 'redneck' or was it 'redlips'

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 10:24

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Wow you got a good memory Rob, all the way back to your 20's, but i do agree. its like the girl who says I'm a lady in the lounge , but a whore in the bedroom.
Men love the thought of that, so it would seem that girls like similar in a man. Nothing nicer than a big hunk of Daring . lol


It is not quite as far back for me as it is for you! :o) But then again, you do have a faster car to make that trip down memory lane... LOL

Yes, the Ho in the bedroom, dressing the the little school girl outfit, as the librarian, or maybe the french maid. But must always mind their manners when they go home to meet your folks. Of course, Mom knows by the look in her baby's eye what goes on regardless of what is said or not said...



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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 08:38

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Well J that doesn't just extend to you guys. One of the biggest thing about most women is they are attracted to the "bad boys" It takes them a little out of their norm. It reeks of excitement. It takes you sometimes to places just for the thrill. Bad Boys are just that bad boys. They are not good for long term but while you have them it can be one hell of a ride...LOL

Dawn ,thats why you pursued me,huh?


LMAo in your dreams Steve. You're the one with the hijacked poems and you so love virtual flowers. I can't remember ever getting as many as you sent me!!!!!!



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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 19:50

statuesque4u write:
Well J that doesn't just extend to you guys. One of the biggest thing about most women is they are attracted to the "bad boys" It takes them a little out of their norm. It reeks of excitement. It takes you sometimes to places just for the thrill. Bad Boys are just that bad boys. They are not good for long term but while you have them it can be one hell of a ride...LOL

Dawn ,thats why you pursued me,huh?



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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 11:08

Wow you got a good memory Rob, all the way back to your 20's, but i do agree. its like the girl who says I'm a lady in the lounge , but a whore in the bedroom.
Men love the thought of that, so it would seem that girls like similar in a man. Nothing nicer than a big hunk of Daring . lol



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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 10:01

I guess a definition of a bad girl or bad boy would be needed. Like CandyMan, I enjoy finding a woman who is secure in herself and open with her sexuality, but I don't define that as a "bad girl". To me "bad girl/boy" is arrogant and cocky, selfish and narcisstic. Now some degree of confidence is attractive, IMHO a bad g/b is not worth the time of day. Of course, they were highly desirable in my 20's!!! But time and age do bring a degree of learning...



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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 05:49

statuesque4u write:
Well J that doesn't just extend to you guys. One of the biggest thing about most women is they are attracted to the "bad boys" It takes them a little out of their norm. It reeks of excitement. It takes you sometimes to places just for the thrill. Bad Boys are just that bad boys. They are not good for long term but while you have them it can be one hell of a ride...LOL

You are absolutely right! We do learn to appreciate the good, after having the bad though.



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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 01:18

Well J that doesn't just extend to you guys. One of the biggest thing about most women is they are attracted to the "bad boys" It takes them a little out of their norm. It reeks of excitement. It takes you sometimes to places just for the thrill. Bad Boys are just that bad boys. They are not good for long term but while you have them it can be one hell of a ride...LOL



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Posted on Mon, Jun 12, 2006 08:15

Ok Angel. You are partly right. Men always seem to be "attracted" to the "bad girls", however for a reason you clearly are unaware of.

Being male, I have to admit that it is a "turn-on" to have a girl be completely open to any...how can I say this...sexual situation. That said, in the back of my mind, and I am sure most men would agree, we wonder how often you have offered yourself to a man in the same manner. Which makes it very difficult to take you, or girls like you seriously.

While it "IS" fun, and I admit to that, I much prefer to have a woman who hasn't had the "experience" so to speak. If I love her, we can work it out together.

Both men and women can find "sex" anywhere. It's the connection that two people share that counts.



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Posted on Fri, May 26, 2006 11:26

What type of "bad" are you talking about?



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Posted on Fri, Apr 21, 2006 11:22

Hmm mm I guess I will never know. are you guys afraid to comment or is it a well kept secret?



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