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Posted on Wed, Apr 12, 2006 14:48

How come guys can be so mean when you try and start a conversation with them they call you names and think you are pushy All i want to do is start a conversation to get to know someone. I hope all guys aren't like that.

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Posted on Wed, May 20, 2009 01:10

Some people are mean. I don't necessarily know that it is a 'guy' thing. :-/ Lord knows us ladies have our mean moments as well. :)



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Posted on Sun, May 25, 2008 01:29

Men turn mean when they can't find what they're looking for. What they desire, what they want. Its a very sad thing to see. All you should have to say to them is "Grow Up".

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Posted on Fri, Jan 11, 2008 17:54

BarbaraEGallagher write:
Wow! It has not been my experience that guys are mean. Sometimes men are in pain...just like women are too....how sad.

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Posted on Sat, Feb 17, 2007 22:10

lop_ericat_mail write:
youre looking at the wrong guys...
women have told me they feel like a prncess with me, while i give them all of my time, love them with all of my heart, and swoon them with my constant poetry
its not all guys, promise!

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PriNcEsS hah okay!

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Posted on Mon, Nov 06, 2006 18:37

reply to bumpers:

Haha that's like way cute ;) Stay like that!



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Posted on Sat, Nov 04, 2006 13:39

youre looking at the wrong guys...
women have told me they feel like a prncess with me, while i give them all of my time, love them with all of my heart, and swoon them with my constant poetry
its not all guys, promise!



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Posted on Tue, Oct 10, 2006 00:41

i guess its because there insucure about then self i cant see a man being mean especialy with someone you have just meet i would never do that especial with someone you dont no acualy i think im to nice and wemon walk all over me ive not had much exsperence with wemon but i would not ever treat a lady being mean but maybe thats just me i try to love every one if they let me james bye bye dear ,

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Posted on Sat, Oct 07, 2006 11:05

Remember in life your outer reality is a reflection of what is going on inside yourself. Change inside change outside. There is a Law of Attraction.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 05, 2006 15:16

Not all men are like that, T. There are a lot of women around who make me feel as if I have a target on my back and they have the license......



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Posted on Thu, Oct 05, 2006 15:12

Come on, UVA, you can do better than that......



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Posted on Mon, Sep 04, 2006 06:29

I don't want to sterotype ALL men but I do find a common malady anobg many of the men online....they lack common courtesy!

How hard is it to type a few words that you are not interested; you're not my type; thanks; whatever to a woman that has taken the time to show her interest. Dating online gives many a license to be rude and inconsiderate. A man that can't take the time to respond out of courtesy speaks volumes to me.

Oh, don't use the old line "I don't want to hurt her"....please, woman are not fragile and prone to fall apart because of an online rejection from someone they haven't met.

Be a gentlemen she might be the one for you!



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Posted on Fri, Jul 21, 2006 03:45

Why if you take the time to send a man an email, they cant even respond to tell you they are not interested. How selfish dont you think?



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Posted on Thu, Jul 20, 2006 00:45

Hi Classy

I understand where you are coming from. I was married for 27 years and when I joined an Internet dating site and dated a woman a couple of times - she said she thought I was gay because I had not made a sexual pass at her! It is only funny because it can happen both ways! I believe in friend first! You have a nice smile just be true to your self and a good man will snap you up!



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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2006 09:54

I'm new to the online dating venue; have been out of the dating arena for 27 years. Now I find myself thrust back out there to find that online is how it is done now.

I have found similar experiences not that the men are mean but that it's all about casual sex. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the sexual intimacy but would like to find a man that would like to experience other things together.

Also, have found that many of the men begin the conversations talking about walking on the beach, going places together, quite dinner and then the question "So when are you going to sleep with me?"

I'm not sure if this is where dating has evolved or if it's just some of the men online. Are there any men still out there who want a relationship that has substance as well as intimacy?



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Posted on Mon, Jul 03, 2006 10:32

Wow! It has not been my experience that guys are mean. Sometimes men are in pain...just like women are too....how sad.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 18:40

Yes but also, some guys want to have sex with us and maybe thats why we are mean because we just want someone to love us for who we are and not rush into things.
Like i feel like i am a nice person to get to know. But weither its on the net or probably in person because i have had it happen to me. they all want sex. Instead of spending quailty time with a person just for fun. No one can be just friends these days.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 18:34

your right on that. and they also think that if you dont talk there language you aren't for them.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 18:32

I hear you and then sometimes they dont want to give the nice girls a chance like me. :)



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Posted on Mon, Jun 12, 2006 19:25

Honey. Ive never been rude to the fairer sex in my life, but then I'm not breed here either, a gentleman and a squire i do aspire. A true knight a wit but not a shit. I'll chat and quip with any any wit and make a lady feel really fit.



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