How come guys can be so mean when you try and start a conversation with them they call you names and think you are pushy All i want to do is start a conversation to get to know someone. I hope all guys aren't like that.
angelface33 write: How come guys can be so mean when you try and start a conversation with them they call you names and think you are pushy All i want to do is start a conversation to get to know someone. I hope all guys aren't like that.
Angelface and all:
Yeah, some guys are mean, rude and/or baldface liars. So what's new? But not all are and I suspect most are not (I could be wrong on that). Drop 'em, move on and forget 'em forever. If they don't respond to your thoughtful emails, forget 'em and move on... you didn't need 'em.
Guess what, some gals aren't all we want them to be, too. So what? Keep the rest of your life going in a positive direction and it will be fine. Seek online friends and some will show possibilities of being more at some point. Isn't that they way it's worked since we were kids? Not everyone has what we want for being friends and some are mean, or bullies. Nothing new there. Move on.
Fact is, none of us has time to be friends with everyone and sometimes we have to say "thanks, but I don't have enough time for this right now". OK, move on... it wasn't to be. Work on making the rest of your life better and you'll be much more attractive to others! That applies to all of us.
Wishing us all happiness and success. But we CAN be happy, regardless. Up to us.
lop_ericat_mail write: youre looking at the wrong guys... women have told me they feel like a prncess with me, while i give them all of my time, love them with all of my heart, and swoon them with my constant poetry its not all guys, promise!
youre looking at the wrong guys...
women have told me they feel like a prncess with me, while i give them all of my time, love them with all of my heart, and swoon them with my constant poetry
its not all guys, promise!
i guess its because there insucure about then self i cant see a man being mean especialy with someone you have just meet i would never do that especial with someone you dont no acualy i think im to nice and wemon walk all over me ive not had much exsperence with wemon but i would not ever treat a lady being mean but maybe thats just me i try to love every one if they let me james bye bye dear ,
I don't want to sterotype ALL men but I do find a common malady anobg many of the men online....they lack common courtesy!
How hard is it to type a few words that you are not interested; you're not my type; thanks; whatever to a woman that has taken the time to show her interest. Dating online gives many a license to be rude and inconsiderate. A man that can't take the time to respond out of courtesy speaks volumes to me.
Oh, don't use the old line "I don't want to hurt her"....please, woman are not fragile and prone to fall apart because of an online rejection from someone they haven't met.
I understand where you are coming from. I was married for 27 years and when I joined an Internet dating site and dated a woman a couple of times - she said she thought I was gay because I had not made a sexual pass at her! It is only funny because it can happen both ways! I believe in friend first! You have a nice smile just be true to your self and a good man will snap you up!
I'm new to the online dating venue; have been out of the dating arena for 27 years. Now I find myself thrust back out there to find that online is how it is done now.
I have found similar experiences not that the men are mean but that it's all about casual sex. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the sexual intimacy but would like to find a man that would like to experience other things together.
Also, have found that many of the men begin the conversations talking about walking on the beach, going places together, quite dinner and then the question "So when are you going to sleep with me?"
I'm not sure if this is where dating has evolved or if it's just some of the men online. Are there any men still out there who want a relationship that has substance as well as intimacy?
Yes but also, some guys want to have sex with us and maybe thats why we are mean because we just want someone to love us for who we are and not rush into things.
Like i feel like i am a nice person to get to know. But weither its on the net or probably in person because i have had it happen to me. they all want sex. Instead of spending quailty time with a person just for fun. No one can be just friends these days.