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  • View author's info posted on Apr 14, 2006 23:18


    TallBlonde50 write:

    cutiepie01 write:
    I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

    Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick wit.


    I can't stand IM's. If I have the option, I shut it down the minute I log on. I can't stand empty conversation, especially with someone you KNOW is IM-ing with others as well. There's that long delay between responses and the only reason is either they're trying to balance several chats at once or they're stupid. lol

    Another thing I loathe is the "lurker." That's when you log onto a site and instantly you're baraged with IM invitations. They're online 24/7 and watch the log-ons to see if they're female and then pounce! They aren't interested in you because they've read your profile and think you might have something in common with them ... they just want to talk to a chick.

    I find, with these kinds, if the conversation does take on a positive thread, they try to keep it going, sometimes for weeks and months, because they have no intention of asking you out. They're just satisfying their need for attention and mistake online chatting for female attention.

    There are a lot of sorry, lonely people out there. But I'm looking for a confident, self-assured man.
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  • View author's info posted on Apr 14, 2006 19:52


    TallBlonde50 write:

    cutiepie01 write:
    I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

    Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick.
    Well dont leave us hanging Tomi a quick wicked what, left hook as per your other thread, you've even forgotten what a bit of action feels like, this is getting real sad, you need a good 'reminding'
  • View author's info posted on Apr 13, 2006 11:23


    Chatting is the easiest thing on earth,for those that have a brain and a command of the English language and an understanding of the opposite sex, it comes so easy to some they go undercover and become G-men, that way i can follow my Corps motto 'Ubique' and appear in all manner of unlikely places
    Happy Easter to all Romans
  • View author's info posted on Apr 09, 2006 05:41


    robtest write:
    Well, we could talk about sex, but you told us not too... :o( LOL

    It is kinda hard to get started though sometimes. But I do agree with you that if someone initiates the conversation, they should accept the responsibility to carry it!

    Sometimes I will get a popup and wonder what they are gonna say, and they just don't... But I guess if we were all that outgoing and not shy, we would be picking up people at the grocery store instead of playing online. I find it very odd at times trying to date at this age in my life...

    lol, rob. my guess is that you would have no problem carrying your share of a conversation.

    When I had IM capabilities, I would find myself in similiar position. For the most part, I didn't mind and even in a face-to-face meeting/date, I don't mind. I think those of us who are better at the art of conversation (or just more outgoing) will manage to bring something out in the more shy person. But there is a point where you do have to say enough's enough. If someone doesn't have anything to say after many opportunities, then it's probably not a good match anyway.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 08, 2006 18:36


    Oh Robtest, if you find it odd to date at 45 , how little you've learned , all that hindsight, all that experience, that huge acquired statistical knowledge, have you been learning the wrong stuff, got your knickers in a twist. Get with it sunshine , go in blazing, you'll find a girl that amazin'
  • View author's info posted on Apr 08, 2006 18:07


    watcha got in mind little lady like how about a few Scammers names , that hots things up , but don't be worried I'm just kidding, us G-men know a few things you know, nudge , nudge , wink , wink.
    If your going to chat up the birds , unsnaggle them and feed them some good seed
  • View author's info posted on Apr 06, 2006 21:38


    Well, we could talk about sex, but you told us not too... :o( LOL

    It is kinda hard to get started though sometimes. But I do agree with you that if someone initiates the conversation, they should accept the responsibility to carry it!

    Sometimes I will get a popup and wonder what they are gonna say, and they just don't... But I guess if we were all that outgoing and not shy, we would be picking up people at the grocery store instead of playing online. I find it very odd at times trying to date at this age in my life...
  • View author's info posted on Apr 06, 2006 21:30


    cutiepie01 write:
    Okay my idea is that if someone starts chatting with you in IM, then they should have something to say. I mean why is it so often I feel like Im the one expected to carry the conversation and make it interesting? when i didnt start it in the first place. If i start chatting with someone, then I make damn sure I have something fun to talk about. but this
    Hi
    hello how are you?
    good and you?
    im great, what are you up to tonite?
    nothing...you?
    soooo you do a blah blah blah, huh?
    yea...
    Pleeeease if i didnt start the conversation, then perhaps I wasnt the one that was interested. So if the other person is interested, then they should make themselves INTERESTING>
    does that make any sense? hehehe.

    what do you want to chat abouti like your jeans and shirt you wear cuite hahahaahhahahahahaa
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