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Posted on Thu, Apr 06, 2006 19:03

Okay my idea is that if someone starts chatting with you in IM, then they should have something to say. I mean why is it so often I feel like Im the one expected to carry the conversation and make it interesting? when i didnt start it in the first place. If i start chatting with someone, then I make damn sure I have something fun to talk about. but this
Hi
hello how are you?
good and you?
im great, what are you up to tonite?
nothing...you?
soooo you do a blah blah blah, huh?
yea...
Pleeeease if i didnt start the conversation, then perhaps I wasnt the one that was interested. So if the other person is interested, then they should make themselves INTERESTING>
does that make any sense? hehehe.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 17, 2006 07:34

katiegrl write:
TallBlonde50 write:

cutiepie01 write:
I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick wit.


I can't stand IM's. If I have the option, I shut it down the minute I log on. I can't stand empty conversation, especially with someone you KNOW is IM-ing with others as well. There's that long delay between responses and the only reason is either they're trying to balance several chats at once or they're stupid. lol

Another thing I loathe is the "lurker." That's when you log onto a site and instantly you're baraged with IM invitations. They're online 24/7 and watch the log-ons to see if they're female and then pounce! They aren't interested in you because they've read your profile and think you might have something in common with them ... they just want to talk to a chick.

I find, with these kinds, if the conversation does take on a positive thread, they try to keep it going, sometimes for weeks and months, because they have no intention of asking you out. They're just satisfying their need for attention and mistake online chatting for female attention.

There are a lot of sorry, lonely people out there. But I'm looking for a confident, self-assured man.

I agree Katie there are alot of stinky the time wasters out there! But I have met some guys that I enjoy talking to, that have alot to say and can hold a stimulating conversation. Now the ones that attack when I first sign on, if they just say "Hello" and nothing else, then I know they usually end up being the ones that want you to do all the talking.
And the ones that say "are you alone?" OMG! give me 5 minutes before you expect me to tell you my sexual desires. LMAO!



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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 23:18

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cutiepie01 write:
I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick wit.


I can't stand IM's. If I have the option, I shut it down the minute I log on. I can't stand empty conversation, especially with someone you KNOW is IM-ing with others as well. There's that long delay between responses and the only reason is either they're trying to balance several chats at once or they're stupid. lol

Another thing I loathe is the "lurker." That's when you log onto a site and instantly you're baraged with IM invitations. They're online 24/7 and watch the log-ons to see if they're female and then pounce! They aren't interested in you because they've read your profile and think you might have something in common with them ... they just want to talk to a chick.

I find, with these kinds, if the conversation does take on a positive thread, they try to keep it going, sometimes for weeks and months, because they have no intention of asking you out. They're just satisfying their need for attention and mistake online chatting for female attention.

There are a lot of sorry, lonely people out there. But I'm looking for a confident, self-assured man.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 20:31

cutiepie01 write:
I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick wit.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 19:52

TallBlonde50 write:

cutiepie01 write:
I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.

Same here Wendy, but I find it easier to coax someone who has a wicked/quick.
Well dont leave us hanging Tomi a quick wicked what, left hook as per your other thread, you've even forgotten what a bit of action feels like, this is getting real sad, you need a good 'reminding'



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Posted on Fri, Apr 14, 2006 16:01

I prefer that a man has the ability to carry the conversation if he is the one that started it. however if i am the one that starts it, then i will coax him along.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 13, 2006 11:23

Chatting is the easiest thing on earth,for those that have a brain and a command of the English language and an understanding of the opposite sex, it comes so easy to some they go undercover and become G-men, that way i can follow my Corps motto 'Ubique' and appear in all manner of unlikely places
Happy Easter to all Romans



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Posted on Sun, Apr 09, 2006 22:55

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cutiepie01 write:
Okay my idea is that if someone starts chatting with you in IM, then they should have something to say. I mean why is it so often I feel like Im the one expected to carry the conversation and make it interesting? when i didnt start it in the first place. If i start chatting with someone, then I make damn sure I have something fun to talk about. but this
Hi
hello how are you?
good and you?
im great, what are you up to tonite?
nothing...you?
soooo you do a blah blah blah, huh?
yea...
Pleeeease if i didnt start the conversation, then perhaps I wasnt the one that was interested. So if the other person is interested, then they should make themselves INTERESTING>
does that make any sense? hehehe.

what do you want to chat abouti like your jeans and shirt you wear cuite hahahaahhahahahahaa


Cutie you will have to overlook our Bobby. He teds to have a one tracked mind.

Bobby how are you doing down there in Houma? Bobby honey Cutie is talking about finding interesting things to talk about besides the weather or How's it going. With you we could talk about the gators and the politics in Houma. I bet you could tell us alot. Hope you have recovered from the hurricane by now...

  


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Posted on Sun, Apr 09, 2006 15:06

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cutiepie01 write:
Okay my idea is that if someone starts chatting with you in IM, then they should have something to say. I mean why is it so often I feel like Im the one expected to carry the conversation and make it interesting? when i didnt start it in the first place. If i start chatting with someone, then I make damn sure I have something fun to talk about. but this
Hi
hello how are you?
good and you?
im great, what are you up to tonite?
nothing...you?
soooo you do a blah blah blah, huh?
yea...
Pleeeease if i didnt start the conversation, then perhaps I wasnt the one that was interested. So if the other person is interested, then they should make themselves INTERESTING>
does that make any sense? hehehe.

what do you want to chat abouti like your jeans and shirt you wear cuite hahahaahhahahahahaa

Oh Rajun, my dear boy, you dont even know how to use your tongue, how could i expect to carry on a conversation about something other than my jeans? You just arent getting it, are you?



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Posted on Sun, Apr 09, 2006 09:31

Gman2006 write:
watcha got in mind little lady like how about a few Scammers names , that hots things up , but don't be worried I'm just kidding, us G-men know a few things you know, nudge , nudge , wink , wink.
If your going to chat up the birds , unsnaggle them and feed them some good seed

I have one scammer too many right now. And what exactly do you know that I know? Are you my notorious scammer with a new profile? why no photo? have you already used up the ones on focushawaii?



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Posted on Sun, Apr 09, 2006 05:41

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Well, we could talk about sex, but you told us not too... :o( LOL

It is kinda hard to get started though sometimes. But I do agree with you that if someone initiates the conversation, they should accept the responsibility to carry it!

Sometimes I will get a popup and wonder what they are gonna say, and they just don't... But I guess if we were all that outgoing and not shy, we would be picking up people at the grocery store instead of playing online. I find it very odd at times trying to date at this age in my life...

lol, rob. my guess is that you would have no problem carrying your share of a conversation.

When I had IM capabilities, I would find myself in similiar position. For the most part, I didn't mind and even in a face-to-face meeting/date, I don't mind. I think those of us who are better at the art of conversation (or just more outgoing) will manage to bring something out in the more shy person. But there is a point where you do have to say enough's enough. If someone doesn't have anything to say after many opportunities, then it's probably not a good match anyway.



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Posted on Sat, Apr 08, 2006 21:06

TallBlonde50 write:
The ones that get me are those who DON'T say Good Bye. They just disappear into thin air, because they can't think of anything else to say, and yes, Rob, you are correct. When someone initiates chat with me, the first question they ask better not be (and I have gotten asked this a time or 2) Do you have big nipples?? Now how's THAT for a startup question!!!


HAHAHA!! Tomi that is so funny because if they ever say that to you be brave...LOL and just say do you have a big di*ck and if you do show me. Chances are you will run them off with that one. You can even go one length more and tell them you need it measured so pull out the ruler.

Now i know this is not the norm but idiots begets the full treatment of turning the tables. Those people think they are going to surprise,embarrass you and when you turn the tables they have nothing else to play with.. Of course other then themselves....

If they were ever stupid enough to send you something just send it back with a sorry you didn't measure right. It isn't big enough......LOL

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 08, 2006 18:36

Oh Robtest, if you find it odd to date at 45 , how little you've learned , all that hindsight, all that experience, that huge acquired statistical knowledge, have you been learning the wrong stuff, got your knickers in a twist. Get with it sunshine , go in blazing, you'll find a girl that amazin'



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Posted on Sat, Apr 08, 2006 18:07

watcha got in mind little lady like how about a few Scammers names , that hots things up , but don't be worried I'm just kidding, us G-men know a few things you know, nudge , nudge , wink , wink.
If your going to chat up the birds , unsnaggle them and feed them some good seed



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Posted on Fri, Apr 07, 2006 21:10


Devoted2FindingU write:
Hi Cutie,
How are ya?

Uh I uhh.


cutiepie01 write:
Do you mean DUH???



You are good at carrying the conversation. Yeah DUH.... lol



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Posted on Fri, Apr 07, 2006 14:11

The ones that get me are those who DON'T say Good Bye. They just disappear into thin air, because they can't think of anything else to say, and yes, Rob, you are correct. When someone initiates chat with me, the first question they ask better not be (and I have gotten asked this a time or 2) Do you have big nipples?? Now how's THAT for a startup question!!!



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Posted on Fri, Apr 07, 2006 11:37

Devoted2FindingU write:
Hi Cutie,
How are ya?

Uh I uhh.

Do you mean DUH???

  


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Posted on Fri, Apr 07, 2006 06:27

Hi Cutie,
How are ya?

Uh I uhh.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 07, 2006 05:23

robtest write:
Well, we could talk about sex, but you told us not too... :o( LOL

It is kinda hard to get started though sometimes. But I do agree with you that if someone initiates the conversation, they should accept the responsibility to carry it!

Sometimes I will get a popup and wonder what they are gonna say, and they just don't... But I guess if we were all that outgoing and not shy, we would be picking up people at the grocery store instead of playing online. I find it very odd at times trying to date at this age in my life...

yea I get those wordless popups sometimes too. i dont get that, what did they send? a blank space? dont you have to enter something? well all im asking is that if you initiate conversation, please try to follow through or say goodbye if its too overwhelming for you.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 06, 2006 21:38

Well, we could talk about sex, but you told us not too... :o( LOL

It is kinda hard to get started though sometimes. But I do agree with you that if someone initiates the conversation, they should accept the responsibility to carry it!

Sometimes I will get a popup and wonder what they are gonna say, and they just don't... But I guess if we were all that outgoing and not shy, we would be picking up people at the grocery store instead of playing online. I find it very odd at times trying to date at this age in my life...



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