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Posted on Wed, Mar 29, 2006 21:07

It's very hard to be successful and work the hours I do and have the time to look for a partner. Any suggestions ladies?
I have about 2 years left of these hours and then it's retirement at 40 for me....



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Posted on Thu, Jul 24, 2008 00:50

hi, after reading the replys here, I realised ur 2 years are up. Did things change? did it all work out?



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Posted on Thu, Feb 14, 2008 19:57

Yes just wait two more years, or go through a lot of bad relationships. If your not ready then your not into this yet. Just relax and enjoy your life now this time will not be back.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 14, 2008 02:37

Not sure I would take a woman's advice anyhow (just kidding ladies!)... lonelycali, don't even think about looking for a partner until you can find the time for her!

For Starly... retirement doesn't necessarily equate to boredom... been retired 5 years now and can honestly say I've not yet had a moment of boredom... couldn't say that about my working life before that though... its all a question of attitude, and I personally have "learned to be still" :)



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Posted on Wed, Feb 13, 2008 10:52

Lucky you! Only one year lefts. Retirement must be at 25! Though...I would die of boredom



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Posted on Tue, Oct 30, 2007 13:42

lonelycali write:
It's very hard to be successful and work the hours I do and have the time to look for a partner. Any suggestions ladies?
I have about 2 years left of these hours and then it's retirement at 40 for me....
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My, impressive then. Retirement at 40, wow! U asked how to search for a partner when you are too busy? Well, you really can't. You need to find the time off, allocate the time if you wish, make a list of the qualities you are searching for in a lady partner and your subconscious will start looking for her even during office hours.

Now, do tell me how U did it, retiring at 40. :-)

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Posted on Sun, Aug 26, 2007 23:38

i never thought of that... so making $$ is not all what life is about,,, LIFE IS ABOUT BEING HAPPY,,, AND LOVING SOMEONE WITH U...



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Posted on Mon, Jul 02, 2007 23:04

Id say just dont waste time! think for a moment what is everything you want /dont want? write it down, keep it...when your serching profiles dont settle ! start at the top and work your way down. As y go though this process youll see that what you thught you want isint so important and what you thought you didnt want isisnt so bad...i for one realized that i shouldnt write off me outside of canada...becouse as i get closer to graduation in 6 mo i dont even plan to stay in canada! any how bottom line? one you know exactly what you want it gets easyer...and dont forget to visualze and belive! see her smel her go to bed knowing shes on her way...and before you know it shell be in your arms:)

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Posted on Sat, Mar 17, 2007 20:21

Maybe you should date a woman that has a similar lifestyle like yourself. There are still some women, who have just as successful careers, and would want to have a mate/companion to do fun things with while getting to really know each other. Just do the things you enjoy doing and if you see a potential lady then start light, like inviting her for coffee or ice cream. Don't try to create or force the "relationship thing", just have fun and be up front. If she is to even be a consideration, then she will understand.



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Posted on Tue, Mar 13, 2007 15:14

Well if you going to retire in 2 years, and you try to find a woman who his independent is going to be hard after you do retire. Because guess who is going to be the dependent one. It won't be her. Then you will appear needy to the woman. So my suggestion to you is to find time for someone you truely care about.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 04:09

Yes. Find an independent woman who doesn't need constant attention.
I have many interests and would hate a relationship in which I had to give too much of my time to a man, I think there are many women like me in this respect.
P.S- This is not an advert! (I always find it difficult in this kind of discussion not to make it sound so)



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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 19:40

IMHO, Busy shall never be an excuse. When you truely love someone, regardless how busy you are, you never forget to let them know that you care and love, unless u are off on a highly confidential job, that is different and it will be a mutual agreement, understanding between the two... also, compromisation, and never take for granted that 'you know I am busy'... Trust as well, bottom line.. never forget to express your feelings and affections. If you are able to find someone compatible with you, it is all right, otherwise, better wait then...



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Posted on Fri, Jan 12, 2007 12:58

Ojai, is a beautiful place.

Why not just focus on your career for the next two years and when you're done, have one long vacation, then focus on having a stable relationship. If you are seeking to find a woman while focused on your career, then it's kind of hard to really be committed to that woman completely.

Retiring at 40 gives you the chance to still enjoy life and find love. You are still young.

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Posted on Tue, Jan 09, 2007 22:16

lonely call i got hair man hahahahahaha



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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 03:18

it is hard to get a balance in life. but i agree with most of the women who have advised creating a priority of a relationship over work.

U cannot always have your cake and eat it!

The ball is in your court.



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Posted on Tue, Jan 02, 2007 10:55

well from experience.. i met a man on the site .. we fell in love. He told me he was retiring to spend more time with me. It never happened. I accepted this is who he is. He may love me, but does not show it. He has been alone so long its his life. I think women would understand and be more patient if the answer to this question was always yes. If you had a choice... would you rather be in my arms? If the answer is always yes...your question should now be.. what is my priority? You can lose your money overnight...a good woman in your corner can help you get it back. You just may realize with the love of a good woman.. its not as important as you thought it once was.

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Posted on Mon, Dec 04, 2006 09:52

I know what you mean, Im 29 and while i do meet girls and have plenty of adventures, its hard to build a relationship as at this stage of my life i have to give my work priority and if that means a few days with no sleep and no reply to sms's etc thats how it has to be. I have messed up a few good opertunities, really would like to find someone



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Posted on Fri, Sep 01, 2006 12:48

when you will met her you will know, she is the one.
problem is, if you will recognize that ?
if you have courage to admit that ?

I met a man who are hard in business, but little cats in personal life.

Question is: long hours, is it excuse for your weakness ? Love takes courage.Love doesn't take time. You always has a nights a/v.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 12, 2006 09:24

hi im kerry-ann

im sorry about your problem ,

finding a good woman is real hard , and no advice in the world will help , if you dont find her im sure she'll find you ,if you like ill be your pal, we can chat and pass time until miss right comes along bye



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Posted on Sat, Aug 05, 2006 18:14

Hello Mister Hardworking Man! When you aren't looking, that's when she'll come along! :) In the meantime, watch the movie "Must Love Dogs!" Her family and friends kept being on the lookout for her! Maybe your friends know a reeeeally nice girl who's in the same boat! Best of luck to you!