Cutiepie As long as he lets her keep on doing these things over and over all he is doing is enabling her... He needs to let her go on, and he needs to get a life, but until he is ready the cycle continues.. Only when he is ready things will happen..I only wish well for him
cutiepie01 write: This guy that ive known since he was a teen, works with me. His wife went to rehab a couple months ago and she has been getting distant. the phone calls have stopped. I told him prepare, that she has met someone, people fall in love in rehab (of course for the wrong reasons). I explained that they find a closeness and common ground. So just last week shes going to a halfway house a couple hours from here. I said beware again, she may be going to live with someone else. The story is longer but the pieces I was putting together was that she was in love with someone else. 2 nites ago she called him and said that she had met someone else and the marriage was over. I told him not to fret because these relationships dont last, the feeling of closeness wears off and then they realize that they are just addicts and were confused about what they were feeling. Last nite he went home and she was laying in bed watching TV with her GF. I said, I knew there was someone else but are you telling me shes gay now? He said OMG!! I didnt even realize it but yea I guess she is! How do I compete with that? This is terrible but we just busted out laughing.
Half these people that do that are not gay they just do it because it has now become exceptable and "everyones" doing it. She found someone to empathize with her. Another druggie. What a pair. He's better off out of that anyway. Tell him to find someone who is drug free and totally straight.