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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 16:55

This guy that ive known since he was a teen, works with me. His wife went to rehab a couple months ago and she has been getting distant. the phone calls have stopped. I told him prepare, that she has met someone, people fall in love in rehab (of course for the wrong reasons). I explained that they find a closeness and common ground. So just last week shes going to a halfway house a couple hours from here. I said beware again, she may be going to live with someone else. The story is longer but the pieces I was putting together was that she was in love with someone else. 2 nites ago she called him and said that she had met someone else and the marriage was over. I told him not to fret because these relationships dont last, the feeling of closeness wears off and then they realize that they are just addicts and were confused about what they were feeling. Last nite he went home and she was laying in bed watching TV with her GF. I said, I knew there was someone else but are you telling me shes gay now? He said OMG!! I didnt even realize it but yea I guess she is! How do I compete with that? This is terrible but we just busted out laughing.



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Posted on Tue, Feb 21, 2006 18:38

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What a great opportunity for a threesome.

well Bob I guess its too late for the threesome, she dumped the girl and wants her husband back. He mustve done some good competing after all. LOL



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Posted on Tue, Feb 21, 2006 09:17

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What a great opportunity for a threesome.


Or atleast a good opportunity to watch! ROFLMAO...

He should watch them, film them, dump the wench and then put the video on the internet !!!

I agree with the enabling theory, and also with the "birds of a feather" theory too. The longer your friend stays here, the bigger the hurt he is going to get...



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Posted on Tue, Feb 21, 2006 05:57

What a great opportunity for a threesome.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2006 16:06

Cutiepie As long as he lets her keep on doing these things over and over all he is doing is enabling her... He needs to let her go on, and he needs to get a life, but until he is ready the cycle continues.. Only when he is ready things will happen..I only wish well for him



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Posted on Sun, Feb 19, 2006 08:57

I kept trying to prepare him that there was someone else, it happens all the time in rehab. But that I was not prepared for. Youre right Stat, its common for these people to find one person in that type of program that they relate to and feel close to. They've dug deep into themselves and shared with others and the feeling they have is not love, its a common ground. It isnt long before the euphoria of the whole program wears off, and most times they both end up relapsing. Its called 13th stepping. You do the first couple steps and then pass all the rest and get involved in a new relationship. Big mistake whether its homo or heterosexual, 2 weak people cannot make each other strong. Its like trying to save a drowning person, if you get too close and dont knock them out they will pull you under with them. It is funny tho



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Posted on Sun, Feb 19, 2006 00:13

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This guy that ive known since he was a teen, works with me. His wife went to rehab a couple months ago and she has been getting distant. the phone calls have stopped. I told him prepare, that she has met someone, people fall in love in rehab (of course for the wrong reasons). I explained that they find a closeness and common ground. So just last week shes going to a halfway house a couple hours from here. I said beware again, she may be going to live with someone else. The story is longer but the pieces I was putting together was that she was in love with someone else. 2 nites ago she called him and said that she had met someone else and the marriage was over. I told him not to fret because these relationships dont last, the feeling of closeness wears off and then they realize that they are just addicts and were confused about what they were feeling. Last nite he went home and she was laying in bed watching TV with her GF. I said, I knew there was someone else but are you telling me shes gay now? He said OMG!! I didnt even realize it but yea I guess she is! How do I compete with that? This is terrible but we just busted out laughing.


Half these people that do that are not gay they just do it because it has now become exceptable and "everyones" doing it. She found someone to empathize with her. Another druggie. What a pair. He's better off out of that anyway. Tell him to find someone who is drug free and totally straight.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 22:35

No need to compete. Just kick her to the curb and find a woman who likes men!! LOL



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