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  • View author's info Author posted on Feb 12, 2006 17:55


    So I was driving to the gym, and there driving next to me was a beautiful Ferrari,

    So me being a Ferrari lover I always checkout.. But This was different, Long story shot..

    The guy I'm dating is driving the car with a blond that looks about my age and looks kinda like me,, He's suppose to be out of town, and wont be around for the 14th...

    Why do guys cheat? even when there caught they still lie and try to out the blame on me,, So now my Valentines day will be of me eating ice cream watching sad movies and crying..
    Why do you guys have to hurt the women that actually love you,, I dedicated my time and energy to making a relationship work wile I go out and reach my dreams to..
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  • View author's info posted on Feb 28, 2006 13:28


    Miss Jordan ...

    I've been on the other side of that little scenario ;)
    Speaking only for myself , my take is simply this ....
    "boys" cheat .
    A Man that is honest with himself first, and knows what he wants and expects from life and a Partner does not :)
    And " little boys " come in all ages Cutie ;)
    Hope today's been a Much Better Day For Ya :)
  • View author's info posted on Feb 24, 2006 11:54


    MissJordan81 write:
    weelassi1

    as a matter of fact yes he has said he LOVED me, he said it first 1 1/2 after we were together,, and YES i do love myself,, know one will love you better then yourself,, and if if were about the MONEY AND CAR I think I would of staid with him for that,,l sh*t get my piece of the pie at least,, but I'm not about money and material things,, cause I have a heart I LOVE myself,, only a selfish person who's done that thinks of those things,, oops did I let the cat out of the bag,, and no I don't call him,, or answer his calls BTW "" he keeps calling me"" now!!

    Ok first of all nobody is jealous. Now let's stick to the subject a bit please. AGAIN,You are doing the right thing by not answering the phone. If you ever wanted to punish him , that's the best way. You just sit back and know that while the phone is ringing... his heart is beating and he is upset. If it would help you, do what I do, turn off the phone.Make sure you let your voicemail fill up so he can't leave any messages. Just pretend like you don't even have a phone. Go out with your friends, have loads of fun, try to stay very busy. before you know it you won't even want him anymore... watch and see. I just went through a similar situation. He actually broke up with his 2 year girlfriend because he wanted to see me. Well after a few months he started cheating on me. I could'nt actually pinpoint that, but my instincts were going crazy. I trust in my instincts 100%. I caught him in one lie, I did'nt see him with a girl but I knew that is where he was. Anyhow he told me to wait for him at his house, I said whatever you say... I don't want to see you anymore. And that was it. He still calls me. It's been a few months since I broke it off from him. I won't sleep with him and he still comes around... He told me just yesterday that he can't believe I am doing him like this lol. I feel he deserves everything he get's and so does your guy. Besides I don't feel that this guy I had been seeing is the ONE for me, that makes it real easy lol..Remember keep your chin up , don't answer, don't look at him and Party On Girl!!!

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 24, 2006 08:44


    cutiepie01 write:
    now look what you did jordan, you made Gem show off her cute little tushy for the whole forum to see. Gem you have some beautiful new pics. So I guess all of us over 40+ women are going to have to show off our stuff to show that we have nothing to be jealous of? I agree with Stat, an over 40 beautiful body is way more sexy than a 20 something body. Man now im gonna have to get some sexy pics taken. i hate when that happens


    WOW ! Yeah, that's the spirit! Thank goodness for that guy running off with another chick in his Ferrari - now we get to see some smoking hot bods ....
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 14:49


    GeminiDi write:
    MissJordan81 write:
    Dr. ROB

    Do you think those girls are jealous cause they have watched me or know there boyfriends or now EX boyfriends have watched me,, Can I help it if I'm in shape, and I love being a sex symbol,,
    I'm 24 and have my hole life ahead of me,, Does that make it wrong to judge others by what they do?
    Dr. Rob please tell me what to say cause I don't care that they don't like what I do I work for PLAY BOY and Make more money then them, that if I stop working today I'll never work again, wont have to.. I'm an open minded individual, and can think outside of the box,, But at least I look good in my size 3 pants and Bikini


    I'm jealous of no one; however, I'd like to point out that I am PROUD of the fact that, not only can I still manage to wear a size 3 pair of jeans AND a thong bikini, but I also have an EDUCATION, take care of myself and my children (despite the fact that two of them are married), and have my home nearly paid for!!! Yes, life is good!

    And MissJordan, when a man tells you that quickly that he loves you, you might want to question his motives. It's highly doubtful that he's thinking with his UPPER head. Words are cheap and easy.

    Furthermore, why would ANYONE be jealous of someone in the "adult" industry? It's not like it requires any major skill that no one else possesses! LMAO!!!

    Gem

    You Rock Gem

    Hey MissJ I may not be able to fit in my size 1 anymore but am lucky to fit this wee arse sometimes in a 3 or 5....lol

    P.S No one has a better arse them Gem

    Putting that all side I could care less about ones pettiness. I care more about ones spirit. A truly brilliant person does not gloat about how tiny they are. A true kindred soul may be chubby and or skinny. But have a bigger heart then you.

    Something you lack...lol....Hey how did your offer to the other Man in the Adult Entertainment business pan out?....Did you obtain a position?....lol
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 14:41


    GeminiDi write:

    MissJordan81 write:
    I agree there are much more beautiful then me,,

    my comment was going to the women or 2 women who made snide comments, it wasnt directed to the rest of you,, I dont think women should be jealous of other women..

    Well have a good day



    No one should be jealous of another person. We should be proud of who we are and the good that we have accomplished in our lives, seeking to be even better, imo.

    Your writing style reminds me SOOOO much of someone else, btw. I won't mention whom.

    Gem

    LMAO....Does it remind you of BlondeI or her daughter?....lol
  • View author's info posted on Feb 23, 2006 12:03


    I agree there are much more beautiful then me,,

    my comment was going to the women or 2 women who made snide comments, it wasnt directed to the rest of you,, I dont think women should be jealous of other women..

    Well have a good day
  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 21:48


    All I want to know is what movies are they? Give us a few titles so we can all see what you are talking about, I mean that is why they were made. Thanks,
  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 17:01


    dear thegoodlife

    your right jealous was the wrong words to use My apologies,,,

    I don't judge others by what they do there for others shouldn't judge me,,
    And I was being a smart ass by asking Dr. Rob on what to say,, I really don't listen when a guy tells me what to do or think or say for that matter,,, I am a grown WOMEN but I was returning the catty behavior,,

    all in fun, no harm done, I am my own women leading MY life..
  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 00:23


    Dr. ROB

    Do you think those girls are jealous cause they have watched me or know there boyfriends or now EX boyfriends have watched me,, Can I help it if I'm in shape, and I love being a sex symbol,,
    I'm 24 and have my hole life ahead of me,, Does that make it wrong to judge others by what they do?
    Dr. Rob please tell me what to say cause I don't care that they don't like what I do I work for PLAY BOY and Make more money then them, that if I stop working today I'll never work again, wont have to.. I'm an open minded individual, and can think outside of the box,, But at least I look good in my size 3 pants and Bikini
  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 00:15


    weelassi1

    as a matter of fact yes he has said he LOVED me, he said it first 1 1/2 after we were together,, and YES i do love myself,, know one will love you better then yourself,, and if if were about the MONEY AND CAR I think I would of staid with him for that,,l sh*t get my piece of the pie at least,, but I'm not about money and material things,, cause I have a heart I LOVE myself,, only a selfish person who's done that thinks of those things,, oops did I let the cat out of the bag,, and no I don't call him,, or answer his calls BTW "" he keeps calling me"" now!!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2006 10:43


    robtest write:
    thegoodlife421 write:
    BOIL THE BUNNY!!! Just kidding, poor bunny.

    My advice: Move on quickly! Find a good-looking buddy (platonic, even) and make sure you are seen out and about and laughing gaily, regardless of what you might be feeling inside. Even better, go to a club and dance it off!

    Some men cheat simply because they can. But if you are not married or at least engaged, does it really count as cheating? Sometimes I wonder if "single but committed" is an oxymoron.

    Single men are QUITE cognizant of the fact that THEY ARE STILL SINGLE. Unless they've clearly made promises to you, PRESUME THEY HAVE NOT.

    Meanwhile, we women "emotionally marry" the men we are dating long before we should. Mistake, mistake!!!!!

    My advice to all women: Continue to date multiple men until your favorite one pledges his undying devotion to you and PROVES IT to you on a daily basis by his actions. This is what dating is SUPPOSED TO BE ABOUT!!! This one-man-at-a-time nonsense is just that, nonsense. Don't be cowed by fears of being called a "slut." This kind of name-calling is just psychological warfare that narrows your options, while they keep their own options wide open, often at your expense.


    Taking the Gender Bias out of it, this is good advice for everyone!!!

    I normally operate under the "assumption" that unless my potential partner and I have had a conversation about being monogamous that we are not... Better to assume they are dating other people and be pleasantly surprised that they are not, than to discover the scenario from the opposite point of view...

    I tend to pursue several options until I get to the point of becoming physically intimate. Sleeping with multiple partners was something I gave up long ago in my 20's.

    I guess the bottom line is communication. And hurt feelings on the backend doesn't compensate for poor communication on the front end...

    OK Robtest, I have a question. Ok ... I don't know how to ask this or even how to put the words together. Here I go! Ok people who date each other have "S" with each other, Right/Wrong? Ok should we sleep with every guy we are dating? I mean, I only date one guy at a time, I still party and do whatever I want to. So should I date more than one guy AND sleep with all of them(PROTECTED) or only a couple??? It does'nt seem like the right thing to me.

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2006 08:17


    weelassy1 write:

    Tasha1978 write:

    MissJordan81 write:
    So I was driving to the gym, and there driving next to me was a beautiful Ferrari,

    So me being a Ferrari lover I always checkout.. But This was different, Long story shot..

    The guy I'm dating is driving the car with a blond that looks about my age and looks kinda like me,, He's suppose to be out of town, and wont be around for the 14th...

    Why do guys cheat? even when there caught they still lie and try to out the blame on me,, So now my Valentines day will be of me eating ice cream watching sad movies and crying..
    ,, I dedicated my time and energy to making a relationship work wile I go out and reach my dreams to..

    Oh, there is something that I did not see. You wanted to know why men hurt the one they actually love...when a guy says he loves you it does'nt mean he is telling the truth. ALOT, not all will tell you that because they want to sleep with you. If you really want to know if he loves you, don't give it up so easy, see if he sticks around. Another thing you won't have to MAKE it work, it will fall into place. Don't call and try to force any issues with him, don't try to make him see what he lost, just walk away with your chin up. Get some ice in your veins, swallow your sadness and know it WILL pass, has'nt it always passed somehow? Remember he was'nt your first, and forsure not the last!

    Hey Tasha

    No where did MissJ say he told her he loved her. Her statement or ? to us/them, quote Why do you guys have to hurt the women that actually love you.""

    To be honest she does not need any advice or consoling as she is not hurt. She is having fun to be brutally honest...lol. Hey she may have a future career in adult entertainment with a male member on the forums. If that doesn't work out she also has plans to hook up with a female she is corresponding with...lol And no it's not me...Phew

    The pretty wee blonde is not home basking in her tears eating ice cream..lol. She is too in love with a Ferrari or herself for that matter.

    Hey Wee! I guess that part was edited...But I would never be caught or tell anyone that I cried over a guy. I think it should be done in privacy. Anyhow, Missjordan ask yourself if he is crying over you. You will look back in a couple of months and ask , What Was I Thinking??

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 22:58


    Tasha1978 write:

    MissJordan81 write:
    So I was driving to the gym, and there driving next to me was a beautiful Ferrari,

    So me being a Ferrari lover I always checkout.. But This was different, Long story shot..

    The guy I'm dating is driving the car with a blond that looks about my age and looks kinda like me,, He's suppose to be out of town, and wont be around for the 14th...

    Why do guys cheat? even when there caught they still lie and try to out the blame on me,, So now my Valentines day will be of me eating ice cream watching sad movies and crying..
    ,, I dedicated my time and energy to making a relationship work wile I go out and reach my dreams to..

    Oh, there is something that I did not see. You wanted to know why men hurt the one they actually love...when a guy says he loves you it does'nt mean he is telling the truth. ALOT, not all will tell you that because they want to sleep with you. If you really want to know if he loves you, don't give it up so easy, see if he sticks around. Another thing you won't have to MAKE it work, it will fall into place. Don't call and try to force any issues with him, don't try to make him see what he lost, just walk away with your chin up. Get some ice in your veins, swallow your sadness and know it WILL pass, has'nt it always passed somehow? Remember he was'nt your first, and forsure not the last!

    Hey Tasha

    No where did MissJ say he told her he loved her. Her statement or ? to us/them, quote Why do you guys have to hurt the women that actually love you.""

    To be honest she does not need any advice or consoling as she is not hurt. She is having fun to be brutally honest...lol. Hey she may have a future career in adult entertainment with a male member on the forums. If that doesn't work out she also has plans to hook up with a female she is corresponding with...lol And no it's not me...Phew

    The pretty wee blonde is not home basking in her tears eating ice cream..lol. She is too in love with a Ferrari or herself for that matter.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 10:39


    MissJordan81 write:
    So I was driving to the gym, and there driving next to me was a beautiful Ferrari,

    So me being a Ferrari lover I always checkout.. But This was different, Long story shot..

    The guy I'm dating is driving the car with a blond that looks about my age and looks kinda like me,, He's suppose to be out of town, and wont be around for the 14th...

    Why do guys cheat? even when there caught they still lie and try to out the blame on me,, So now my Valentines day will be of me eating ice cream watching sad movies and crying..
    Why do you guys have to hurt the women that actually love you,, I dedicated my time and energy to making a relationship work wile I go out and reach my dreams to..

    Oh, there is something that I did not see. You wanted to know why men hurt the one they actually love...when a guy says he loves you it does'nt mean he is telling the truth. ALOT, not all will tell you that because they want to sleep with you. If you really want to know if he loves you, don't give it up so easy, see if he sticks around. Another thing you won't have to MAKE it work, it will fall into place. Don't call and try to force any issues with him, don't try to make him see what he lost, just walk away with your chin up. Get some ice in your veins, swallow your sadness and know it WILL pass, has'nt it always passed somehow? Remember he was'nt your first, and forsure not the last!

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 09:27


    Benefactor123 write:
    Jordan, how about we design a little revenge game for him?

    You know where he goes and his social circle. How about I drive over in my fast car with you and we look like love sick puppies. I know you can do better in the looks department but I'm OK and can look real "stinking filthy rich" and that gets to guys like him! For good measure we throw in some big rock to display on your finger (we can go Kobe-size) and if he does not notice it, the woman he is newly with surely will...

    God, having too much time on your hands is a dangerous thing...

    How about just do the normal thing like just MOVE ON... He is'nt the only guy. Benefactor123 it's bad enough that she sit's around and cries, don't tell her to stalk, he will think she is a lunatic and she has problems letting go. Oh by the way, just do the manly thing... If you wanna date with her just say it! Jeez how hard can it be
  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 20:03


    Jordan, how about we design a little revenge game for him?

    You know where he goes and his social circle. How about I drive over in my fast car with you and we look like love sick puppies. I know you can do better in the looks department but I'm OK and can look real "stinking filthy rich" and that gets to guys like him! For good measure we throw in some big rock to display on your finger (we can go Kobe-size) and if he does not notice it, the woman he is newly with surely will...

    God, having too much time on your hands is a dangerous thing...
  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 13:37


    MissJordan81 write:
    So I was driving to the gym, and there driving next to me was a beautiful Ferrari,

    So me being a Ferrari lover I always checkout.. But This was different, Long story shot..

    The guy I'm dating is driving the car with a blond that looks about my age and looks kinda like me,, He's suppose to be out of town, and wont be around for the 14th...

    Why do guys cheat? even when there caught they still lie and try to out the blame on me,, So now my Valentines day will be of me eating ice cream watching sad movies and crying..
    Why do you guys have to hurt the women that actually love you,, I dedicated my time and energy to making a relationship work wile I go out and reach my dreams to..

    He's not the only guy out there... Anyways do you really need a guy to make you happy??? Why not try to live a single life for a while? Ya know it's good not to have anyone to answer to... would'nt you like to do something and not have a man say "where are you going" or "who are you going with" "when are you coming back". It's great! Anyhow don't ever let him see you cry about him! He'll know you are hooked. It's not very attractive to see a woman desperate and crying for a man. Trust me, it's better like that. And one last thing...if that car was gone, would you still want him? What if he were driving a Pinto or a Chevy Chevette?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 15, 2006 18:39


    MissJordan81 write:
    ohh boy oh boy oh boy,,,

    He calls today out of all days,, Screw him I wont answer and man is it hard,,
    Well it will be a long and slow road to recovery,, but darn it all to heck, I'm better then his games, just face it GOD wanted me to know he didn't love me they way I loved him,, better now then If were to of said I do.... Cause when I get married it will be only once that's for darn sure,,

    You guys are helping me I just wanted to say Thank you it means alto


    hang in there, your going to be just fine !
  • View author's info posted on Feb 15, 2006 12:49


    weelassy1 well to say the truth I'm very much bi and well I do have my girlfriends or had them in the past,,

    Don't judge me for what I do in my bedroom cause I'm out in the open with it..
    And not saying that you do so don't take it that way but I don't hide in the closet..

    And yes he told me it an monogamous relationship and it others were to join our bedroom it would be on my terms only,, to bad for him I was going to to start swinging to keep his mind open and allow the sense of sex with another women " as long as I was there "
    Well guess he didn't want me there to see,,, Well I'm planing on going out but I'm wanting to find the right guy to show me around,, and yes what goes around comes around so two wrongs don't make a right, and I don't want to get hurt double time again another time so I'm going at this very careful,, making sure to get over him with no set backs by taking his butt back, or but acting like a child with the games to hurt him,
    One day he'll see me in public and how happy I am or where ever and that's the day he'll know he mad the mistake,
    I'm only 24 I still have a lot to do in life and learn so I might as well take thins time to do so,, ""that's why there's a gym and making myself look better and taking my free time up so I don't think about him,,
    Oh Yoda taught me well""
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