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Posted on Mon, Dec 26, 2005 20:13

Ive been on this site for about 2 weeks. I think I'm pretty but every guy I email doesnt respond and I only get emails from much older men.... What am I doing wrong? I'm starting to think this site is a fake and some men put on here are not real, has anyone really had a date from this site?

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Posted on Wed, Oct 20, 2010 17:08

Maybe the problem is you. "much older men?" Depends what you like. Have you dated a "much older man"? Perhaps you should? They tend to pack the confidence that women really dig. They are in their game, know what they desire.

Do not knock it until you try it. And, yes, it is about exposure....NOT the skin type either (pull your heads outta the gutter you men)

-K



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Posted on Sun, Aug 01, 2010 06:47

If you think you are having trouble getting anywhere give a thought to this poor old 57 year old ... I have no chance!! I think Thai, Russian and Eastern European sites should be banned! Not really bitter Haha ! Dont know what happened there Katie is my niece she is also on the site...

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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 20:17

I completely agree w/you. I have received emails from much older men as well,  but "unfortunately", the majority of my views are from women also, and I'm not sure why.

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Posted on Thu, Feb 11, 2010 06:48

GIVE ME A SHOT



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Posted on Wed, Jan 16, 2008 20:34

Wow- this forum opens up so many areas of discussion. As for a 1% return or someone that can't get anyone to respond...I would have to say you must a what I call in business a "quote and hope". I bet you don't read their profiles to see what "they" are looking for. Not what you are looking for. And greeneye- the fact of life on this site is that men are usually looking for younger women them themself. A man around your age will be looking for someone younger. Not all and I am not talking for everyone but we all know that it is the majority. I actually have found this site to be more real then many of the others. You just can't assume that everyone you like is going to like you.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 01, 2006 10:11

Rob, Yes 1%. I did a test this morning just to prove my theory again. I never wink at a lady first. When I initiate contact I always write a short email.

I sent 12 winks to those that I would be interested in talking to. (So if you read this post I am interested, you made the list, you were first on it by the way!)

I will report back within 3 days the results. Why don't we get all the guys to run the same test!



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Posted on Tue, Jan 31, 2006 16:21

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So Zeus how is the search going?



Yes, that is a good question. Looking at her profile, she has been active in 3 days, but still has the picture up with her BF??? I guess NYC is so far back in the woods they ain't got no digicams yet...

And btw Devoted, since it is hard to tell with the mangled quote marks whose comment was whose, Do you really only get a 1% return rate on winks??? To be honest, I can't really tell a difference between winks and long typing excercises in email from the return rates, except for the occassional "thanks for writing but I am currently seeing someone" replies I get. Odd that those come from women who are active on a site every day (atleast when you start to notice after they send you that email... LOL) !!!


Now don't misinterpret me from a "lack of showing" interest perspective. As you can probably tell from many of my posts, I tend to be a bit verbose. When I am writing paragraphs and getting words/sentences in response, with gapping wholes in conversations from questions asked, I tend to drop the conversation...

But I do consider a wink a great timesaver... If you have interest, wink, if they have interest, they wink back, then you can write each other novels...



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Posted on Mon, Jan 30, 2006 17:52

So Zeus how is the search going?



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Posted on Sat, Jan 07, 2006 15:45

well as soon as I'm done posting I'll send you a wink ;o) I don't know what to you tell you, but you are very worthy and deserving of great young guys attention. I have a friend who I was incredibly in love with, she's totally stunning, funny and intelligent, but she had a problem with getting a lot of attention from old men - lol - I guess perhaps you could take it as a compliment coming from men who've been around the block and know what to really look for in a great woman? ;o)



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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 22:22

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Oh come on Devoted...this is a 2-way street here...you don't think a woman likes to know she was 'chosen'??? Duh!


Sharp, I agree with you a woman likes to know she was 'chosen'. If a lady winks first and the man doesn't know how to pursue her (make her feel like she was chosen) that is DUH!

I don't think it is a two way street. I have found ladies will respond to a wink maybe 1 out of 100 times. I am not the only man that has said they appreciate a lady winking. Yes, when I initiate contact with a lady it is always by email first.

So why is not a good idea for a lady to wink first? Any ladies care to enlighten us.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 11:35

Actually, I tend to agree... I've been on the site a short time and it seems only that older men will e-mail me. The few guys around my age haven't returned winks, although I have yet to e-mail one.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 03:00

sharp1 write:
Devoted2FindingU write:
Hey Zeus, listen to these guys they are right. There are three additional things that will get you more responses
1) Post on the Bullentin Boards
2) Stay logged onto the Instant Messenger, more people will see you
3) Send a wink or IM if you are interested in someone. Guys like to know they were chosen.

Good luck in your search and we'll be talking to you on the BB.

Oh come on Devoted...this is a 2-way street here...you don't think a woman likes to know she was 'chosen'??? Duh!

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.


Good point Sharp1, boy, am I learning the raw thoughts from women here...you are all a gift to my education. Love your imputs Sharp1 and others.

BQ



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 21:13

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niceguylooking write:

sharp1 write:

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.



OK, so woman aren't supposed to wink, got it. But what if he hasn't seen her profile yet ?


Z, if you see a profile you like, wink
and see how it goes from there. Theres no harm in that. I think if you wink and the guy responds, you will be able to tell alot once you both start writing.

and change the first picture. Because with your name and that picture, it looks like your a couple.


Wait a minute! I'm being misinterpreted here. I didn't say a woman shouldn't wink, nor that a man shouldn't wink. Yes a wink received by some people will draw them to review your profile, but not always. I usually receive winks from people who are non-paying members. So I could peruse their profile and wink back at them, but usually they attach a message that indicates they want to chat with me, contact them. I simply ignore them. If they're that interested, don't you think they will pay the meager $20/month membership fee? If they can't be bothered, neither can I. It's like they are trying to initiate communication with me on my nickle! How cheap? lol This is MM, right?


Well, that is quite a bit different than "A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going..."

I just didn't think a wink had that much "foreshadowing" !!! :o)



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 17:35

niceguylooking write:

sharp1 write:

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.



OK, so woman aren't supposed to wink, got it. But what if he hasn't seen her profile yet ?


Z, if you see a profile you like, wink
and see how it goes from there. Theres no harm in that. I think if you wink and the guy responds, you will be able to tell alot once you both start writing.

and change the first picture. Because with your name and that picture, it looks like your a couple.

Wait a minute! I'm being misinterpreted here. I didn't say a woman shouldn't wink, nor that a man shouldn't wink. Yes a wink received by some people will draw them to review your profile, but not always. I usually receive winks from people who are non-paying members. So I could peruse their profile and wink back at them, but usually they attach a message that indicates they want to chat with me, contact them. I simply ignore them. If they're that interested, don't you think they will pay the meager $20/month membership fee? If they can't be bothered, neither can I. It's like they are trying to initiate communication with me on my nickle! How cheap? lol This is MM, right?



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 14:02

sharp1 write:

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.


OK, so woman aren't supposed to wink, got it. But what if he hasn't seen her profile yet ?


Z, if you see a profile you like, wink
and see how it goes from there. Theres no harm in that. I think if you wink and the guy responds, you will be able to tell alot once you both start writing.

and change the first picture. Because with your name and that picture, it looks like your a couple.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 13:33

Z, kind of hard to answer your question without seeing the guys you're emailing. But if they're too young and too good looking (or just think they are...which is a common affliction of folks on dating sites), they may be chasing younger and better looking. Or...given the name of this website, older and wealthier... ;-). Let me add that yes Z, you are an attractive woman :^). But whether we're shopping for a car, or "shopping for a mate" (I know that sounds crass...)...everyone wants a bargain....



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 12:55

sharp1 write:

Devoted2FindingU write:
Hey Zeus, listen to these guys they are right. There are three additional things that will get you more responses
1) Post on the Bullentin Boards
2) Stay logged onto the Instant Messenger, more people will see you
3) Send a wink or IM if you are interested in someone. Guys like to know they were chosen.

Good luck in your search and we'll be talking to you on the BB.


Oh come on Devoted...this is a 2-way street here...you don't think a woman likes to know she was 'chosen'??? Duh!

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.


good lord woman... were you tormented by a wink as a child? Or perhaps the "balls" comment was to indicate you would prefer that women not wink at you???

On the subject of winking, I like them. "Goo gle" wink and find the link to the definition on the match_d_t_com site. It provides a more middle road approach to winking... ;o)



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 12:38

Devoted2FindingU write:
Hey Zeus, listen to these guys they are right. There are three additional things that will get you more responses
1) Post on the Bullentin Boards
2) Stay logged onto the Instant Messenger, more people will see you
3) Send a wink or IM if you are interested in someone. Guys like to know they were chosen.

Good luck in your search and we'll be talking to you on the BB.

Oh come on Devoted...this is a 2-way street here...you don't think a woman likes to know she was 'chosen'??? Duh!

Zeus...what's a wink? If the guy is a preferred member he should have the 'balls' to send you an email if he is really interested. Otherwise...it's looking like he wants you to do all the work, that he initiated! A sign you may be doing all the work keeping the relationship going...do you want that? Sheesh...don't think so! If a man is really interested...he'll let you know.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 10:23

Hey Zeus, listen to these guys they are right. There are three additional things that will get you more responses
1) Post on the Bullentin Boards
2) Stay logged onto the Instant Messenger, more people will see you
3) Send a wink or IM if you are interested in someone. Guys like to know they were chosen.

Good luck in your search and we'll be talking to you on the BB.