What do you do if you get winks from women??? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Dec 16, 2005 08:15


    Ok, I love getting on here and reading my emails and see who viewed or winked at me. BUT!!!!!!!!..what do you do when there are women winking at you and sending you pictures of body parts????. I like women but I am not inclined to have have an affair with one. I also do not want to be rude!!!!
    I do not look at other women profiles because I am not interested in them. That's not why I am here. So, how should I politely respond to them?????
    Ok,,Ok,,If she is Super rich..I may consider it...JUST KIDDING!!!!

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  • View author's info posted on Apr 06, 2006 15:06


    Angyson write:
    Think of them as compliments and ignore them.

    Wow you are such a nice guy, is that how you treat all the woman????
  • View author's info posted on Feb 04, 2006 07:23


    rajuncajun1 write:
    jamajap write:
    Ok, I love getting on here and reading my emails and see who viewed or winked at me. BUT!!!!!!!!..what do you do when there are women winking at you and sending you pictures of body parts????. I like women but I am not inclined to have have an affair with one. I also do not want to be rude!!!!
    I do not look at other women profiles because I am not interested in them. That's not why I am here. So, how should I politely respond to them?????
    Ok,,Ok,,If she is Super rich..I may consider it...JUST KIDDING!!!!

    it ould be kinda weird i guess for a woman to wink at a woman, nice photos jamajap

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 02, 2006 17:22


    jamajap write:
    Ok, I love getting on here and reading my emails and see who viewed or winked at me. BUT!!!!!!!!..what do you do when there are women winking at you and sending you pictures of body parts????. I like women but I am not inclined to have have an affair with one. I also do not want to be rude!!!!
    I do not look at other women profiles because I am not interested in them. That's not why I am here. So, how should I politely respond to them?????
    Ok,,Ok,,If she is Super rich..I may consider it...JUST KIDDING!!!!

    it ould be kinda weird i guess for a woman to wink at a woman, nice photos jamajap
  • View author's info posted on Jan 26, 2006 11:42


    jamajap write:
    hondo1952 write:
    jamajap write:

    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK



    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well


    Hey at least you are getting winked at. Don't complain until it stops altogether. I'm complaining.

    Hondo check your mail there is a wink on it's way!!!!!
    from the
    "JAMAJAP"

    wow,janet jackson,lmao....
  • View author's info posted on Jan 25, 2006 15:13


    hondo1952 write:
    jamajap write:

    hondo1952 write:
    jamajap write:

    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK



    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well


    Hey at least you are getting winked at. Don't complain until it stops altogether. I'm complaining.


    Hondo check your mail there is a wink on it's way!!!!!
    from the
    "JAMAJAP"


    [speechless]

    Jamajap that was great....Hondo everyone likes you you know that!!!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 22, 2006 20:22


    jamajap write:

    hondo1952 write:
    jamajap write:

    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK



    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well


    Hey at least you are getting winked at. Don't complain until it stops altogether. I'm complaining.


    Hondo check your mail there is a wink on it's way!!!!!
    from the
    "JAMAJAP"


    [speechless]
  • View author's info posted on Jan 22, 2006 18:44


    hondo1952 write:
    jamajap write:

    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK



    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well


    Hey at least you are getting winked at. Don't complain until it stops altogether. I'm complaining.

    Hondo check your mail there is a wink on it's way!!!!!
    from the
    "JAMAJAP"

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 20, 2006 21:16


    jamajap write:

    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK



    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well


    Hey at least you are getting winked at. Don't complain until it stops altogether. I'm complaining.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 20, 2006 20:48


    unsnaggedeagle write:
    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK


    Thanks Unsnagg,
    My profile now reflects just that.
    Good Luck to you as well

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 17, 2006 23:45


    JAM TELL THANKS BUT NO THANKS AND THAT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO INTO DETAIL, WOMAN LOOK AT MY PROFILE ALL THE TIME AND THAT DOES NOT BOTHER ME AND I HAD SEVERAL WINKS JUST NOT WHAT I'M INTO TO ... BE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT THEY WANT... GOOD LUCK
  • View author's info posted on Jan 09, 2006 12:39


    robtest write:
    So what do you do when you get a wink from a couple ??? Good Lord...

    ROFLMAO

    LMAO ROB,
    My Dear, did that happen to you????/
    I guess I would try to figure out whom di I "get" in the threesome...LMAO
    And of course tell them I don;t "roll" like that!!lol

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  • View author's info posted on Jan 09, 2006 08:07


    So what do you do when you get a wink from a couple ??? Good Lord...

    ROFLMAO
  • View author's info posted on Jan 08, 2006 09:31


    BlondeLightning write:
    Hi Everyone!

    Oh Miss Jamajap,

    As for the winks from other women, may I make a suggestion here?

    RUN, and don't look back, lol. No JK!

    Write them back and tell them you are not interested, but you know of some alternate life sytle ones in the Los Angeles and San Francisco areas of California that like same sex relationships, lol. Then let me know, I can put them in touch with them directly, LMAO. L.A. and S. F. have a very large populations of those types in case you were not aware of it, still lol.

    Blonde thanks for the advice,
    However, If a beautiful woman c**ontacts me. I do respond and tell her she is beautiful, but, i am not interested.
    There are some very beautiful women, If ONLY I "rolled" like that....LOL
  • View author's info posted on Jan 07, 2006 21:23


    For me, I simply say that I am not interested. When they get too aggressive and make sexual remarks, then I get rude. Most of the time, they go away. If they compliment you, and u reply with a "thank you" or something, they tend think that u are semi interested.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 04, 2006 07:58


    I do sometimes check out
    other female profiles...It's not that I want a relationship with them....{that Bi-sexual} part of my life is over...I am just curious..........NMNL....If however they take to sending me photos of private
    body parts...well.......that's another whole can of worms right there.....

    fortunately, the latter has not happened......YET...



    I have gotten WINKS from other women though....
  • View author's info posted on Dec 31, 2005 04:15


    GeminiDi write:
    Thank you, BQ. :-)



    Sharon, the last 17 people who have viewed my profile have been women. It makes me wonder why so many and all at once. Must've been something I said. lol

    Gem


    Welcome Gem,

    As I have looked at the ladies profile who check me out, I have noticed some are married,some are looking for friends and pen pal, so it seems the interest is not only finding this special person but a network of friendship for other individuals; as olaronke made a point about it in her post.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Dec 29, 2005 11:41


    GeminiDi write:
    BQ write:
    GeminiDi write:
    I dislike when people use "Christianity" as a crutch when it suits them but conveniently forget it when they're wanting to do/say something mean. I don't "judge" whether they are or not who they say they are; their words/actions do.

    What I find discouraging about the whole idea of organized religion is that people seem to be able to put it on and discard it at will. Isn't it a "lifestyle?" Either you are or aren't???

    Correct me if I'm wrong; I'm no religious authority, but I think someone who uses "Jesus" in threads should show his love, his compassion, and his humility. I'm not seeing that in what I read.

    I know, I know. Religion, sports, and politics are touchy subjects. Can anyone answer, though? I'd appreciate it.

    Gem


    Gem.

    Some Christians see black and white, some see black,white and grey, some it is only grey..depending on the nature of their spiritual growth you will see conflicting personality traits...in the Bible they call it c arnal or living in the flesh. It is a subject which is not easily understood unless you dedicate your whole life to study and find its meaning and truth.

    BQ

    P.S,
    Heard the little boy is doing much better...I am happy for you everything is coming good.


    Thank you, BQ! He's such a sweetie.

    Aren't being "c.a.r.n.a.l" and "living in the flesh" different from using Jesus's name in posts as a defense when you really HAVE NO defense and then posting hatred and vicious attacks against people simply because [this person] disagrees with others (and even at other times merely because the other poster is attractive)?

    I expect people who throw Jesus's name into public conversations such as those on these forums to actually display some of his characteristics.

    Or am I just naive?
    Gem


    Gem,

    Living Fleshly is a person who has not gained self control and achieved spiritual maturity..now don't get me wrong we all stumble period, an example has been Jimmy Swaggart but repentence has led him back to the pulpit; it is a deep subject and not easily understood.

    Yes, I am aware some posters use Jesus name in an unworthy manner, I would assume a spiritual person use scriptures to edify people but not using it against people...but perception can be either + or -, some will take it as an enlightment while another person would take it as a personal attack and swing back...so it varies with each individual.

    As for "from using Jesus's name in posts as a defense when you really HAVE NO defense and then posting hatred and vicious attacks against people simply because [this person] disagrees with others (and even at other times merely because the other poster is attractive)?"

    I expect people who throw Jesus's name into public conversations such as those on these forums to actually display some of his characteristics. "

    It is wrong to do it but it is like I shared with you before it depends on the spiritual maturity of the person. Some live a c arnal life all there days, some to a degree others in highly spiritual relationship with God. I am not perfect that is for sure but forgiven for my sins..but it does not give me permission to to exploit my forgiveness to walk in sin as the Bible says.. it is from our own doing if we do.

    God gave us that choice..remember Genesis man and woman had the choice of freely eating the fruit of the Tree of Life or the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil..I don't have to go in details as to what the choice was but it was Free Will which God gave us this Free Will to exercise in our life here and it has ever been present with us since that time. We still have this free choice either we eat of the Tree of Life which is The Word of God and try to walk in a worthy spiritual way or we choose to walk between Good and Evil which is the mixture of good deeds mixed with bad one.

    Jesus made very clear it was so...the reason is men fallen nature..it cannot be repaired period because the Bible says we will receive a new body at Jesus coming. If it could have been salvaged God would have not sent us to the grave in the first place at the end of our life, what could be salvaged was his spirit as it clearly states in the Bible...so this is the whole issue about spirituality and c arnality. Also it all boils down as to how much effort you put in developping your relationship with God to help you see these weakness otherwise there is not much possibility you will see it.

    Many can call themselves Christian and not live like one at all, I have met many and helped many to realize deep truths..some have listened and some walked away...you can't beat it into them; God must open their eyes. It is the only way Gem.

    I was a group leader in our church for many years and believe me I saw some sad things but everyone has his own life to develop and nobody can do it for them..they must do their " Due Deligence " it is clearly stated in the Bible we must do so.

    The whole Christian walk is one of transformation like anybody who wants to become something...let say for example a person wants to be an engineer in the future, he or she has to make a decision to become one..it all boils down to decisions then they study to become one, the transformation starts from decision to being a student and gradually becoming a professional with practical experience. The longer you are at it the more seasoned you become...Christianity and becoming a highly spiritual developped person is no different. You have good and bad engineer but they are all classified as engineer regarless the quality. Christians are no different.

    I am happy your grandson is doing well..makes my heart glad. Nice to have you back also as you always add a touch of gentleness to these thread.

    BQ
  • View author's info posted on Dec 28, 2005 12:36


    robtest write:
    jamajap write:
    I STILL AM GETTING A LOT OF WINKS FROM WOMEN. AND I AM FLATTERED. ACTUALLY, A VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN SENT ME A WINK YESTERDAY..WOW11...SHE WAS HOT!!!!I WAS FLATTERED..IF ONLY I WERE TO GO BOTH WAYSSSS..I DID FORWARD HER SOME PROFILES OF PREVIOUS WOMEN THAT WINKED AT ME.

    BOB...DO YOU WANT HER NAME???



    Perhaps you could start a clearing house... LOL... Just start a little section in the bottom of your profile called Jamajap's girls and list them all so that they can intercommunicate. Perhaps it will become fashionable to wink at you to make the list!

    Rob!!!
    I was sent a wink form a GORGEOus woman from South Africa....Want to start that link for me.....C'mon..I could be making some money here...lmao..
    Sharon

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  • View author's info posted on Dec 28, 2005 11:15


    beautynbrains4u write:
    Hi Jam,
    I have a lot of women looking at my profile, no winks. I sometimes look at womens profiles out of curiosity as do many women. Especially if they post on the forums...just like to know a bit about the people I might be responding to. If you clearly state in your profile...looking for a man and a woman winks, I wouldn't feel offended, but nor would I respond.


    I agree with u! I look at women's profiles, just out of curiousity. It's not that I want to hook up with them, it's just some are so interesting, and some people on the forum, I feel that I could be friends with! If women are emailing you body parts, that's a little extreme, I would take it as a compliment, and move on.
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