Why are men eyballing my profile??? Message Board

  • View author's info Author posted on Dec 08, 2005 15:55


    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.
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  • View author's info posted on Dec 25, 2005 07:30


    statuesque4u write:
    Hondo you have just cracked me up..LMAo. I am not sure i have known a man on here that repeatedly gets winks from men. Maybe it's the eyes...LOL

    One of the things i remember doing is looking thru the IM at names. I wondered if they fit their names. I probably looked up hundreds that way. Women as well as men..A curiosity thing ,an interest in what they say in their profiles as many have trouble. But i never sent winks....LOL

    I find that now the gay pop. will approach anyone. It use to be they would stick to like preferences. I have gay friends and have asked those questions many times with the same answer. Nowadays they think everyone has the secret desire to "try it" so they are more non selective. The old saying "It doesn't hurt to ask" takes on a whole new meaning.

    Hondo could it be the smile..............(smile)



    Perhaps in the female homosexual world, it doesn't hurt to try. I don't have any direct experience, but don't think that would be the case with men, and I have never been a big believer in "No pain, no gain"... Atlease not sexually.


    BTW Hondo... Love the new "whatever that is"... Looks like either a two story boathouse or a very, very fancy duck blind. :o)
  • View author's info posted on Dec 24, 2005 09:35


    robtest write:

    hondo1952 write:
    robtest write:
    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.



    You were the one who said you had that "LA Attitude" :o) We had a similar thread a week or so ago. The fishman started a thread, and was called homophobic. The looking at the profile is one thing, the winking and letters is something else... Best thing to do is use the suggestion box and ask for a "non lifestyle preference search/reply block"... I guess that is would be the polite way to put it...


    Come on Rob you are from Georgia. You know the only LA attitude that matters is the true and original LA...Lower Alabama.




    Yes, you and I know that, but unfortunately the majority of the world would have misunderstood when you used the "LA" term... LOL

    I guess I have been lucky thus far. No letters, just winkers. I am not sure how I would respond either. Perhaps a bill might be a good response. Perhaps a "Dear John, Do you have a sister?" letter. I guess you could ask them if they want to go canoe riding in the N. Georgia Mtns! There are some boys up there that love to show boys all about nature. A good Sqquuueeaaall always offers a little deliverance...


    Now there's an idea. That could bring new meaning to the word wink.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 24, 2005 09:34


    GeminiDi write:

    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.



    Isn't it obvious, Lee??? THEY WANT YOU!!!!


    It may be obvious but they aren't plumbed correctly. Even though I have started this thread I continue to get the letters and winks. Obviously they don't check the forums.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 24, 2005 06:38


    hondo1952 write:
    robtest write:
    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.



    You were the one who said you had that "LA Attitude" :o) We had a similar thread a week or so ago. The fishman started a thread, and was called homophobic. The looking at the profile is one thing, the winking and letters is something else... Best thing to do is use the suggestion box and ask for a "non lifestyle preference search/reply block"... I guess that is would be the polite way to put it...


    Come on Rob you are from Georgia. You know the only LA attitude that matters is the true and original LA...Lower Alabama.



    Yes, you and I know that, but unfortunately the majority of the world would have misunderstood when you used the "LA" term... LOL

    I guess I have been lucky thus far. No letters, just winkers. I am not sure how I would respond either. Perhaps a bill might be a good response. Perhaps a "Dear John, Do you have a sister?" letter. I guess you could ask them if they want to go canoe riding in the N. Georgia Mtns! There are some boys up there that love to show boys all about nature. A good Sqquuueeaaall always offers a little deliverance...
  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2005 20:08


    charm22 write:

    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.


    LOL!!! I know they will get the message Hondo.


    No, I got a letter from one today. I'm trying to figure out how to answer him. I answer all my mail. I think I'll send him my gas bill by mistake. Maybe he will pay it.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2005 22:02


    mahoganyangel write:
    I was confused also when I found a lot of women viewing my profile, but then I assumed it was because they had read my post/reply in the forum. I also agree it could be a "check out the competition thing".
    I used to be reluctant to check out the ones who were in my "recently viewed" list, but then I thought, "..what the hell..". I've had some compliments sent via email as well.

    By the way, I'm gonna miss you guys **sigh**


    Just don't leave then. If you have to go, go out smiling and kick up your heals. Whistle a tune and be happy.

    I think there's a song in that mess somewhere.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2005 22:00


    robtest write:
    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.



    You were the one who said you had that "LA Attitude" :o) We had a similar thread a week or so ago. The fishman started a thread, and was called homophobic. The looking at the profile is one thing, the winking and letters is something else... Best thing to do is use the suggestion box and ask for a "non lifestyle preference search/reply block"... I guess that is would be the polite way to put it...


    Come on Rob you are from Georgia. You know the only LA attitude that matters is the true and original LA...Lower Alabama.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2005 21:59


    TICKLESNGIGGLES write:
    When a man see's a note on a woman's profile that they may be interested in, for instance a man posts a note saying this lady is a wonderful person..blah blah blah...then perhaps the man may look up the poster to see what type of man this lady has been interested in in the past. Same as on this forum..I may find a topic interesting, and a specific post I can relate to and I may look up that persons profile just to see what makes her or him tick,,doesn't mean I am interested in them as a future date possibility or that I am gay..just wanted to read the profile..Lighten up...jeesh..this is supposed to be fun...don't you have men friends? I have made some woman friends from this and other sites because I have visited their profiles and we began to chat and exchange stories...and we aren't lesbians...


    I thought I was lightened up. I posted this as something fun. The only serious question I had was about the letters. There are some very good explanations on this thread for looking at same sex profiles, including yours. If I still need to lighten up I'll go to the gym twice a day instead of just once.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 12, 2005 10:39


    I was confused also when I found a lot of women viewing my profile, but then I assumed it was because they had read my post/reply in the forum. I also agree it could be a "check out the competition thing".
    I used to be reluctant to check out the ones who were in my "recently viewed" list, but then I thought, "..what the hell..". I've had some compliments sent via email as well.

    By the way, I'm gonna miss you guys **sigh**
  • View author's info posted on Dec 11, 2005 23:05


    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.



    You were the one who said you had that "LA Attitude" :o) We had a similar thread a week or so ago. The fishman started a thread, and was called homophobic. The looking at the profile is one thing, the winking and letters is something else... Best thing to do is use the suggestion box and ask for a "non lifestyle preference search/reply block"... I guess that is would be the polite way to put it...
  • View author's info posted on Dec 11, 2005 01:47


    snickles...we are lightened up....
    I have made some great woman friends here....I hope you do as well...merry christmas....

    lucky!
  • View author's info posted on Dec 10, 2005 04:22


    Sonnygirlxxx write:
    I guess guys are checking out your profile to het an idea as what they should write on theirs......you know....a kickstart, a bit of inspiration LOL..........i know I have done that....looked to see how other women write as well as WHAT they write, it helps with the competition rofl .............


    I'm sure you are right. I'm also glad you saw the humor that I intended.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 10, 2005 04:21


    luckysolucky write:
    Hondo,

    You are such a hunk a burning love....
    I did have a lesbian once ask me thought I might like to be uhh adventuresome....womem look at me too...I just wish more would just say Hi....I was peeking at you...or something equally silly...
    Julia


    Hunk of burning love??? Me??? Okay how do I get to your house? Better question for you, are you still driving a car? Eyesite like that could caause many accidents. Safety first.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 09, 2005 21:12


    Hondo,

    You are such a hunk a burning love....
    I did have a lesbian once ask me thought I might like to be uhh adventuresome....womem look at me too...I just wish more would just say Hi....I was peeking at you...or something equally silly...
    Julia
  • View author's info posted on Dec 09, 2005 12:33


    LASTONENSTOCK write:

    hondo1952 write:
    TallBlonde50 write:

    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.

    I'm not gay either, but I have just as many women looking at my profile as men. Now that's SCARY!!!


    I probably over reacted but I was on another site before checking my mail here and I had three men message me. Do I have a sign on my head or something today? I went back and checked and I am still interested in ladies only. No idea where this sudden attention is coming from. It's never happened to me before.

    I can understand ladies looking at your profile. you are a lovely lady and you have posted to a lot of threads. Most are probably looking at your background in order to know how to reply to a post.

    (I love tall ladies)



    They could also be checking out their competition, Lee. Relax. I am honored that both women and men take the time to peruse my profile. How would you feel if no one looked?


    Excellent point. I would feel pretty bad if no one looked. I got some letters and that was what really bothered me. The looking is understandable, checking the competition, ideas for your own profile or in my case checking out who is making all these idiotic statements on the forums.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 08, 2005 21:54


    TallBlonde50 write:

    hondo1952 write:
    All of a sudden I'm getting letters and several different men looking at my profile. Just so those of you that have written and looked will know........I AIN'T GAY! Just so you understand..........I AIN'T GAY! In case you were reading to fast and missed it........I AIN'T GAY.

    As Seinfeld said..."not that there is anything wrong with that." But please...go bark up another tree.

    I'm not gay either, but I have just as many women looking at my profile as men. Now that's SCARY!!!


    I probably over reacted but I was on another site before checking my mail here and I had three men message me. Do I have a sign on my head or something today? I went back and checked and I am still interested in ladies only. No idea where this sudden attention is coming from. It's never happened to me before.

    I can understand ladies looking at your profile. you are a lovely lady and you have posted to a lot of threads. Most are probably looking at your background in order to know how to reply to a post.

    (I love tall ladies)
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