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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2005 16:03

We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.

  
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Posted on Fri, Mar 17, 2006 21:49

GlennaB write:
hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:

redhead524 write:
hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

Ditto... I don't start with someone earning my trust - it's a given. It is only when a trust, however small, is broken, does question of trust become an issue.


Red and Hondo. I always used to say the VERY EXACT words Hondo said. I have never been cheated by anyone in my life. I have had people try. I have found myself in a position that won't allow me to even consider trust first. That would be like putting my life in someones hands that I don't know. I think that could be why I feel this way. But the bottom line is I am more trusting then anyone could imagine. It might not seem like it, but I'm sure Hondo knows it.


Indeed I do know it. I have seen a side of Glenna no one else here has probably seen. She doesn't want anyone to know but she's really got a heart of gold and is a real sweetheart.

This is my third attempt to post, maybe it will get through.

It looks like some my true colors are showing after all. Thank You Lee.


No thanks required. You are a sweetheart and it is my honor to have you as a friend.



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Posted on Tue, Mar 07, 2006 09:56

GlennaB write:

redhead524 write:
hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

Ditto... I don't start with someone earning my trust - it's a given. It is only when a trust, however small, is broken, does question of trust become an issue.


Red and Hondo. I always used to say the VERY EXACT words Hondo said. I have never been cheated by anyone in my life. I have had people try. I have found myself in a position that won't allow me to even consider trust first. That would be like putting my life in someones hands that I don't know. I think that could be why I feel this way. But the bottom line is I am more trusting then anyone could imagine. It might not seem like it, but I'm sure Hondo knows it.


Indeed I do know it. I have seen a side of Glenna no one else here has probably seen. She doesn't want anyone to know but she's really got a heart of gold and is a real sweetheart.

This is my third attempt to post, maybe it will get through.



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2006 17:28

hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

Ditto... I don't start with someone earning my trust - it's a given. It is only when a trust, however small, is broken, does question of trust become an issue.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 31, 2005 16:24


larrye2001 write:
Trust,
I remember a joke from an old Bob Newhart tape:
A married woman was having an affair, her lover kept asking about her husband finding out and she repeated over and over that her husband trusted her 100%, trying to stop his concern over her husband she said: IF he did not trust me so much I could not have this affair with you!

I'm much older than most of you, that does not mean I wiser or smarter.

I have been in several businesses with basically honest people, until the money comes into the bank, I never know who they will turn into regardless of the controls. New conditions creates new people.
You are not the same person today as you were five years ago, you will not be the same person in 5 years as you are today.

People do not divorce because they have problems, they divorce because one or both lied when they got married and never intended to stay married.

If you found a millionaire and married, then your mate lost all the money because they were honest,when if they would steal they could save their money,would you stay married if your life style was reduced to food stamps?

How can love exist if it is based on stuff.

Having stuff is important,so is money, are we living with the same idea..
who dies with the most stuff "WINS"???

Maybe the answer is "there is so much candy







LARRYE2001<<<<<<<<<<<<<




If that's the 'rule' then my Ex and I are the exception....

We married solely for "Love" and we divorced, NOT because we never intended to stay married.....but because he got mean........
I felt like the next step in that meanness would be physical...
So I stepped....

Time changes people...there was NOTHING in the cards to imply that my Ex would turn out the way he did.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 31, 2005 15:46

hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.



HONDO<<<<Hardened I am not...
Personally, I feel like that's just a sad way to live....



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Posted on Mon, Dec 26, 2005 10:05

GlennaB write:

DaveForYou write:
blondeindian write:
hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

I GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE...

And everyone who is on to you would like you to remove any photos of yourself-----Paaaaaukkke.

kewl, lol, i, i, i, me, me, i, me, wink i me i me Kewl, 4 degrees, wink, lollollooo


Who are you talking about? If it is Blondeindian, you have got to be joking.
My men friends that are sitting by me right now, know she is a georgous woman. As far as I'm concerned I don't care because I know am. You really can't see me, it's the car. Oh, I've got to get my old white one on here that I owned for MANY MOONS. We want specifics Dave.


Not sure what all that is about. To a casual observer, it seems an odd form of infatuation, but borderline beligerance. He seems to be practicing and honing his trolling skills. Being home with my family, it kinda reminds me of my 6 year old nephew when he doesn't get what he wants. But perhaps, we are missing the fact that he is trying to stay on-topic and hook her and reel her in! LOL... Spell checker suggests "defray" for Dave and "blindsiding" for BlondeIndian...



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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 22:49

I've fished often in Mexico, I have a friend who has a farms in El Pescador,Mexico. Were not into sail fishing, Sailfish looks like work to me..........
I like Mexico's surf fishing (I broke line and surf poles several times,even burned up a big Penn Reel) and going out of the old Castro camp in the dory boats.... Picture this 6 men in a dory boat about 15 miles out with a non English speaking Mexican guide,we were catching fish like crazy and a big shark starts swimming around the boat.The Mexican guide starts running the length of the boat trying to grab the sharks tail and bring him into the boat,before he could grab the tail one of the guys grabbed him and through sign language, made it clear if the shark came into the boat he was swimming back to shore.... then eating lobster on the beach, and going to the clubs at night was a treat.......... Were your pictures taken near Baja? Once we were at Baja, there were 40-50 big sail fish on the dock,one over 12 feet...............I cut my Col.Sanders picture out of another picture and used my graphic program to eliminate the background, it turned my hair white in the picture, my natural color is light brown turning gray(er)...most of the time I fly or ultra light for bass and trout but going to Alaska is my dream trip, more to catch Salmon than Halibut... On a trip to TJ street market I bought my daughters an exotic looking hand embossed leather purse, when we got home , both had a paper inside that said: made and inspected in China.Your bring up old memories, Thanks.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 22, 2005 22:29

blondeindian write:
hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

I GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE...

And everyone who is on to you would like you to remove any photos of yourself-----Paaaaaukkke.

kewl, lol, i, i, i, me, me, i, me, wink i me i me Kewl, 4 degrees, wink, lollollooo



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Posted on Thu, Dec 22, 2005 14:50

hondo1952 writes:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.




I was raised the same, and it has caused much pain. :o) But still I don't stop. You have to look for the good in people to find it,,, of course if you look for the bad long enough, you will find that too. Or perhaps you might find too much goodness which might be bad too...

Trust is a very hard thing. Much of me wants to be less trusting, it is much safer that way. But some of my best adventures have come from my being more trusting than I should and not getting burned, and that outweighs the times I have been burned...


GlennaB writes:
I will post more photos later. My white vette needs some attention. Of course I am standing beside it. Mabe I can get some environentalists on me, about my mink coats. hmmmmm. new e-mails. They would have to take the state of Alaska on though, I know they would love the polar bear rug... lol and so true.


Does that mean the red one is gone? I love those chrome wheels, and thought of getting some similar on my t/a...

Hmmmmmm... Polar Bear Rug? Do tell...



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Posted on Tue, Dec 20, 2005 01:13

GlennaB,
Are you asking me about my photo? I've been into the holidays, when I finally turned on my computer I didn't understand your comment, but I didn't forget what you said, it took almost a week before I understood,that was really cute, you have an active mind.. Does your mother read my post? Nice boat in your second picture.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 19, 2005 08:46

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Trust,
People do not divorce because they have problems, they divorce because one or both lied when they got married and never intended to stay married.

If you found a millionaire and married, then your mate lost all the money because they were honest,when if they would steal they could save their money,would you stay married if your life style was reduced to food stamps?

How can love exist if it is based on stuff.

Having stuff is important,so is money, are we living with the same idea..
who dies with the most stuff "WINS"???

People don't stay married because they see divorce as an option. In order to stay married you have to be committed to not use the divorce option. That is what our parents did. Perhaps because there was more social pressures against divorce than there is today.

We have become a selfish society. We don't want to give anymore than we feel we are getting or what we feel we deserve.

The funniest thing is we end up with the same person we divorce but just in another relationship with another name.

If I'm unhappy with this pretty/handsome face there is more out there. If I can't control this wife or husband there is someone out there from a different country I can control.

We have too many options (or candy) why should we settle for one that we know is sweet when there might be another that is even sweeter.

In hind sight, we find the divorce mate wasn't "so" bad after all, but by God we have the "right" to divorce him/her if we want to.

America, where the grass is "always" greener on the other side of the fence. We call that green grass "not settling." When what it really is, is not settling for current set of problems, but settling for an entire new set of problems.

Pathetic.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 18, 2005 13:20

Trust,
I remember a joke from an old Bob Newhart tape:
A married woman was having an affair, her lover kept asking about her husband finding out and she repeated over and over that her husband trusted her 100%, trying to stop his concern over her husband she said: IF he did not trust me so much I could not have this affair with you!

I'm much older than most of you, that does not mean I wiser or smarter.

I have been in several businesses with basically honest people, until the money comes into the bank, I never know who they will turn into regardless of the controls. New conditions creates new people.
You are not the same person today as you were five years ago, you will not be the same person in 5 years as you are today.

People do not divorce because they have problems, they divorce because one or both lied when they got married and never intended to stay married.

If you found a millionaire and married, then your mate lost all the money because they were honest,when if they would steal they could save their money,would you stay married if your life style was reduced to food stamps?

How can love exist if it is based on stuff.

Having stuff is important,so is money, are we living with the same idea..
who dies with the most stuff "WINS"???

Maybe the answer is "there is so much candy to chose from" there is a need to check out the next piece because it might be better.

There will always be some that appears lessor and greater that you,me,us,we.

At the same time there is nothing wrong with going after the best possible life for you.

Is life an Oxymoron..........

  


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Posted on Thu, Dec 15, 2005 14:34

Growing up, I was taught that trust is earned. That's why we teach our children not to get into strange cars or unlock the door for strangers.

Trust has nothing to do with life's baggage. To expect women to imediately "trust" would increase the rate of crimes aganist women and murders. This is all rudimentary information, why is it even being discussed?

Anyone who says a person should imediately trust another should first teach that to their daughters and grand daughters and all the females they love in their lives. If it works for them, I'll be happy to try it.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 12, 2005 01:36

Glenna, One word for you Bravura! Mark

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Posted on Fri, Dec 09, 2005 21:50

Gosh,

It is hard to trust. But you know, I am so afraid of the alternative, never having anyone to trust....

I am ok by myself...but the thought of passing up the best relationship yet
to come because of the crippling fear...is worse than the fear of trust.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 08, 2005 19:56

hondo1952 write:
GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.

I GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE...



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Posted on Wed, Dec 07, 2005 17:39

GlennaB write:
larrye2001 write:
We all expirenced greed,competition,abuse,tricks; violation of trust,ethics ,morals and games that havecould hardened us.

How do you trust today, , when you want to enter what was called love.

PS:be careful of the answer you post,it may be used against you later.



First of all I'm not hardened, but I am a lot smarter.

Second of all trust is something that takes time to build, wether in buss, love etc. I would say the real question is what did you build the trust on? NOTHING is a 100% sure deal.

Third and last, If you can use that against me. I won't trust you at all.


Maybe I'm just naive but I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. It must have something to do with your prior life experiences as to whether to trust or not.



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