Well, I just wanted to share my experiences here with everyone.
I went out on a date last weekend with a female (Classy Lady) whom I met on this site and had a very good time also with Miss Gigi. She is a fun person and very nice also. We have spoken several times since and are trying to go out again and spend more time together to see where it takes us. She is just so sweet, and down to earth. I know we will have a good friendship from this point on too. We have so much in common and we really had a good time enjoying each others company for the hours we spent together.
I have a dinner date tonight with a second lady (Miss Sandy) I met on this site too. I can not give any specifics yet as I have not met her yet. I will keep you posted as to the outcome on that later.
I have also been in phone and email conversation with a third lady (Miss Carmen) and we will be meeting next weekend for lunch or brunch from this site too. I will keep you posted as to the outcome on that one also.
There seem to be quite a few individuals on this site who appear to be genuine. So for anyone wondering if this site works and has good morals people, I can say this- I definately believe it does. I will know more by next weekend when I have had the first hand experience of dating three individuals from this site to base my decisions on.
So keep up the hope, someone out there is right for you and waiting. But, be aware that there can still be evil and crazy/bad people preying on others!
I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving Day, and are enjoying there Holiday Weekend. ttyl!
A_Lady write: Hi Everyone, I opened this thread hoping to find lots of success stories and hopefully some words of advice. I am happy for those of you who have found fun dates or, even better, a sweetie. Finding so few pages and posts reflects my experience on MM. So far I am batting zero. At the age of 62 I often wonder if it is age. Maybe 2007 will be better.
You are so classy and beautiful it has to work!! Keep up the positive attitude and remember love finds YOU when you least expect it.
I met someone wonderful that I am still seeing from this site and have dated quite a few others that were genuine, so there ARE some good people. You just have to make sure and 'weed' them out properly! :-)
Hi A Lady,
I feel for you. Maybe we can pray for eachother. I am batting zero too.
I am new here, but batting zero in life.
37, never married and for some reason it is hitting me very hard this year.
I have had TERRIBLE luck in dating. Granted, I only date about once a year or every other year. I have had a couple of scarey run-ins and I find it easier to just keep raising my daughter.
In the meantime, the years are ticking by and my heart is breaking.
I find it helpful to vent here, but this serves to make me look even more pathetic and then possibly someone will try and prey on my exposure.
Well, I have learned my lesson there, I am no dummy, just a lonely lady.
One thing that scared me from dating, or reaching out at all for 2years was when this charmer, (affluent and known in the community) tried to blind me by sweeping me off my feet.
Red-flags went up left and right, he was trying "too hard" and come to find out - GET THIS - the dog has
priors in 8 other states, a CHILD PORNOGRAPHER!
He was after my daughter!
I am sad, lonely and scared, but my heart keeps telling me some man is out there that will love me and my daughter unconditionally, true, forever and respect God.
Shut me up - I have rambled :-) Can you see me crying ;-)
I opened this thread hoping to find lots of success stories and hopefully some words of advice. I am happy for those of you who have found fun dates or, even better, a sweetie. Finding so few pages and posts reflects my experience on MM. So far I am batting zero. At the age of 62 I often wonder if it is age. Maybe 2007 will be better.
Next time you are in Los Angeles try renting a cadilliac or continental! That should cushion the bumps and pot holes, lol. Or you could put a pillow your cute little back side too darling. He-He lil lady. Talk to you soon dear!
Now that I have seen your neck of the woods and left my son in Woodland Hills,almost your backyard..lol how coincidental is THAT...negotiating I-405 and 101 remain a nightmare for me.
HOw you guys could tolerate the heat and the traffic is a mystery for me.The sort of heat that scorches your hands when u touch your steering wheel of the car!
So your dating all these women would involve alot of zipping in and out of horrendous LA traffic..what a lot of devotion..no wonder there is a petrol crisis out there in LA...just imagining you zipping up and down 405..lol
Thanks for the long chat on every aspect of US life. See you next round. :)
I am laughing so hard from your comment Gigi my lil sweetie. You are so funny too. You are right about the dating thing though about me. I seem to have so much more fun just being friend's with the MM ladies I have met and spent time out with as friend's. When a person dates, they are in different situations that certain conditions are expected of them. As friend's I can go with the flow and be myself more. I have much more fun just being a gentleman and enjoying the company as it develops as friend's do. You have to agree that when we go out, we have such a fun time just enjoying good times with good friend's. Friendships can last a lifetime! Here is a pic for you and Billy Bob about friends. The traditional Redneck Bachelor Party, lol.
Thanks for the site info. Maayan finally got back to me, lol. I am on the site as (What Else), BlondeLightning. Look me up and send me an e-mail to let me know your handle there. I found Maayan there already. Nice site too! Talk to you soon darling.
I have not talked with Maayan lately, so I do not know which site to go to, lol. Have you one in particular you would like me to venture out on? Let me know, you can e-mail it to me later. I will join you two asian peaches there and stalk you in stead of you stalking me Ha-Ha, lol. BTW- I have always liked rice better than potato's, especially Asian brown long grain wild rice, lol. Talk to you soon honey.
I remember last year about the discussion about Asian women, and also the one about your mom, children and you too, remember, lol? I will also ask Maayan about those Asian sites and go check them out, He-He! Talk to you soon.
Where are you habibity? I have been searching for you all over Hollywood and I can't find you. I best check under the pyramid's to see if you are off vacationing again, lol. So get off your teeze and call me later sweetie, shukran. Yalla Bye Habibity.
Hi habibity Maayan,
You been shaken away in KL with the earthquake, or running from the volcano erupting? I have not heard from you lately either cutie. So where you at? Talk to you soon. Yalla Bye Habibity
My hands are tied, my lips are sealed, *wink and giggles* How could I spill any bean when I no longer remember anything. LMAO ... you had practically made me drink all the wine, and all I remember was a great fun time. Wait now I remember, I don't even drink ... ha ha ha. OK I think BillZ is laughing at me as well. Darn!
Now about having a hard time keeping up with me darling, you sure it was not your age catching up with you Blondie love? We have to talk about it more in private you know, may be I could give you a hand? What friends are for ... anyway, ha ha ha. I've to prime you good before you meet Bonnie ... see I've a reputation only hanging out with the best, lol lol, and you are!!!
Seriously ladies Blondie is really fun to be with, and always a gentleman. Enjoy him when you have the opportunity. Truth .. all true ha ha ha, I'm not even sending him my diamonds bills.
You are just too cute my darling! And in answer to your question, you best not share our little secrets either dear, lol. Remember that I am a true gentleman that does not pillow talk or kiss and tell. BTW- You really are a wonderful kisser sweetie and more! So- as a classy lady, I will hold you to the same standards as a true gentleman lives by, LMAO! As for the cats out of the bag in other threads, I did not say anything about us, did you spill the beans, lol? We really need to keep our secrets a secret between us, ok my lil Malasyan beauty! It truely was an unforgettable time we had huh? Don't kiss and tell either, lol. The other ladies will have to find out for them selves as you did about this blondie, LMAO! But it was such a blast hanging with you while you were here, you have to agree too- huh? One thing I did find out, I had a "HARD" time keeping up with you. It is true that Asian women are dynamite as Bonnie told me to be aware about, thanks Bonnie for giving me a "HEAD"'s up about that, WOW darling you were right on the money about that! Now I just can't wait to meet you too. Maayan said the pictures of you that she showed me do not do justice of you either. I can HARD-ly wait until we meet, Ooh La La honey! WOW again.
Ok Maayan, I will call you later tonight/tomorrow- our/your time my lil babe. Such a great lady you are too! Oh ya, I will reply to the several emails you sent me soon too, thanks! I had a great time also, He-He! You know what I mean darling. Friendships truely are better than relationships as you said, definately LMAO about that too!
Bob, Georgia Peach, Rich, Good Life, Blonde Indian, Sonny Girl, Bill, Catz Back, Amolclous, Last One, and you too Sexay Daph. Did I miss anyone here? If so, Happy Holiday's to you also.
I hope everyone has a wonderful new year in 2006. You are nice friends, so just stay the way you all are. I really enjoy talking with all of you, hopefully I will be able to meet each of you sometime in the future for some fun times. That would be so nice for me! Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you are thinking, lol.
I was in Beverly Hills for a week two years ago and stayed in this hotel I will never forget...it was really expensive and the room was unbelievable...the bathroom was the size of my bedroom. It was a very small hotel, in the middle of a rich neighborhood. I don't remember the name, but supposedly it was where the movie stars would put guests up that weren't close enough to stay in their homes.
Well, if you could make a little room in your trunk for me that would be nice. I have a business partner in Hollywood who is about to become a multi millionaire thanks to my hard work so I'm sure I'll be out that way again.
Hey Bob, I am still lol about your comment about riding in the trunk. Sorry my friend, the trunk is full of shopping bags from our outting, LMAO. I think if we re-pack the back seat we could squeeze you in, lol. If you are ever in Hollyweird, let me know. We could have a blast just sight seeing and visiting the local shops and such. The people there are another story though, lol. Red, Green, Yellow, Purple, and other multiple colored hair do's- Mohawks, Spikes, Ratted, Statue of Liberty Do's and so much more, not to mention the different types of dress just to mention a few out of the ordinary types. I saw an Elvis look a like and a Marlyn Monroe look a like last time there walking their dogs, the dogs looked more normal than they did, lol. I just had to ask them if he was James Dean, and she was Madonna for joking around. You do not want to know what my answer was in return either, still lol. But the most interesting is all the bus loads of Asian tourist and their cameras posing and snapping pictures of everything they can. But that is why I call it Hollyweird, lol.