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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 03:28

Hi All,
What do you think about people being able to post the names and stories of their experience with people who lie on their profile about wanting a serious reationship but they are serial internet daters. You may be dating one of these people, thinking you are the only one they are dating ( because they tell you so )but they are sleeping with many women at the same time.

I would love to know what you think?
Hi All,
What do you think about people being able to post the names and stories of their experience with people who lie on their profile about wanting a serious reationship but they are serial internet daters. You may be dating one of these people, thinking you are the only one they are dating ( because they tell you so )but they are sleeping with many women at the same time.

I would love to know what you think?



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Posted on Wed, Jul 07, 2010 13:52

i had met a man on here (from va) who lied for 6 months, until i did research and found he was married...do not go there...if your gut tells you something is off, run like hell...i waited a year after that for his promises to "get divorced" because i was already in love...rip yourself away from toxic people, b/c we're better than that, and pathological liars don't change ever...

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Posted on Wed, Jul 07, 2010 13:49

i had met a man on here (from va) who lied for 6 months, until i did research and found he was married...do not go there...if your gut tells you something is off, run like hell...i waited a year after that for his promises to "get divorced" because i was already in love...rip yourself away from toxic people, b/c we're better than that, and pathological liars don't change ever...



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Posted on Fri, Jun 04, 2010 17:51

Quoting webmaster:

Thank you for your kind words.



"Thank you for your kind words?"

 

Clearly, MM, you are not listening.

 

Pat



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Posted on Fri, Jan 29, 2010 14:00

There are liars everywhere and scammers. I just refuse to scoop down to that level because I know who I am and what I want and what I don't.

I am tired of these tedious games, since nobody is gaining anything and I often made the mistake expecting people I was talking to to have the same standards as me...big mistake and I just got disappointed. Best not to expect much and if it happens then the better....

...and trying not to give up hope! I know I am honest, so there got to be someone like me out there x



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Posted on Sun, Jan 24, 2010 12:08

There are a lot of dishonest men on this site that will lie and say they are something they are not just to get a free piece of a$$.

There are a lot of dishonest men on every site... and a lot of dishonest women too.

As for the free piece of a$$, you and you alone are responsible for when your legs get spread. Dont blame someone for using you when you allow it to happen.

At one point I had met every nutcase out there and I had to back up and ask myself why I was meeting these people because I was the only common denominator. When I was honest and fixed my own issues, I started meeting really great, smart, attractive and kind people.

If you're not meeting the kind of people you want to meet, you have two choices: 1) Blame the site; 2) Go on believing all wo/men are bad; 3) take a look inside and fix yourself.

Pathetic. Then they get mad and call you names/try to make you feel bad for calling there bluff. There has to be a few decent ones on here.
Be thankful they are getting mad and calling you names. That just means they have shown their true colors and saved you the time, effort and heartache of finding out the hard way!



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Posted on Sat, Jan 23, 2010 08:21

Quoting YIMTexas78259:

Well here is my POV...

New on MM but the sites all seem to be the same time and time again. Just like bars...maybe it's a different establishment but same crowd only they do not even have to spring for a drink when they approach.

1.) Many Nigerian scammers
2.) Old men seeking youth....hooker, call girl, gold digger whatever title they go by these days...basically a trade sex/youth for money and a nice life style not intended for long term or unconditional love
3.) WOAH...liars BIG TIME...clever deceitful profiles and pic from 10 yrs ago when they had more hair on head than in ears and nose.
4.) Blue collar pretending or hoping to bait a gal by pretending he is wealthy
5.) Broke dudes looking for a female to support them
6.) My favorite...seeking "LONG TERM-MARRIAGE" my a**! Is that the new term for BOOTIE CALL and nobody let the cat out of the bag to us ladies? WoW what bait. Tell um what they want to hear.
7.) Pen pals
8.) Phone sex
9.) Guys hitting on females that are way out of their league

OK that's about it. And men wonder why women turn into lesbians.

Alrighty ladies.....any of this sound familiar?

And guys...please PROVE ME WRONG...I honestly do want to maintain some shred of hope and formulate a better opinion of the masculine gender.



[quote]OK that's about it. And men wonder why women turn into lesbians[/quote]

That shows the level that you are. That is a dumb and stupid remark . You are tremedously ingorant. I am gay and NO i am not gay because bad experiences with men. Can you not compreghend that their is aLOT of women who are lesbians because they love and wanna spend their lives with women? Then again i dont expect someone with the intelligence of a dwarf to understand that. Keep on with your bigotry comments . I will guarantee you will have a line of people wanting to date you



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Posted on Fri, Jan 22, 2010 20:04

Quoting YIMTexas78259:

Well here is my POV...

New on MM but the sites all seem to be the same time and time again. Just like bars...maybe it's a different establishment but same crowd only they do not even have to spring for a drink when they approach.

1.) Many Nigerian scammers
2.) Old men seeking youth....hooker, call girl, gold digger whatever title they go by these days...basically a trade sex/youth for money and a nice life style not intended for long term or unconditional love
3.) WOAH...liars BIG TIME...clever deceitful profiles and pic from 10 yrs ago when they had more hair on head than in ears and nose.
4.) Blue collar pretending or hoping to bait a gal by pretending he is wealthy
5.) Broke dudes looking for a female to support them
6.) My favorite...seeking "LONG TERM-MARRIAGE" my a**! Is that the new term for BOOTIE CALL and nobody let the cat out of the bag to us ladies? WoW what bait. Tell um what they want to hear.
7.) Pen pals
8.) Phone sex
9.) Guys hitting on females that are way out of their league

OK that's about it. And men wonder why women turn into lesbians.

Alrighty ladies.....any of this sound familiar?

And guys...please PROVE ME WRONG...I honestly do want to maintain some shred of hope and formulate a better opinion of the masculine gender.



I have met nothing but great women on this site and compared to other sites... well, there is no comparison.

I will also say your comments are extremely negative and if thats your attitude you are probably running all the great and honest guys off.

It may be time to take a year or so off and get right with yourself and the world because only when those two things happen will you meet the great guys.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 19, 2009 06:59

I find it very disheartening to see men do that. If you aren't interested in a long, term relationship or marriage, you should say so up front. But then, the lying bit is part of their game. Unfortunately, it leaves a lot of women jaded to the point that they miss the good ones. I suppose its something that we all have to deal with. Certainly not ideal.

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Posted on Mon, Oct 05, 2009 11:38

Now the best is the winks, which I totally will not go there.¿ If I can afford a membership and guy who is serious is also going to have a membership. I love I am not a member at this time but e-mail.¿ Guess what you will be waiting for that e-mail for a very long time.¿ That tells me exactly how much work you would put into a relationship.¿ Then there are those with the logo on there photos.¿ Hello! Guess what you have been on here forever and I wish you alot of luck because obviously no woman will ever be good enough.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 28, 2009 17:21

wow .. thanks for the warnings.. i am sure there are many of those on here!!



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Posted on Mon, Sep 28, 2009 01:13

LOOK tonyslove...he says he has 49 and uppss...finally he has 61!!



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Posted on Thu, Sep 24, 2009 00:44

HOW DO YOU KNOW THOSE YOU CARE ABOUT YOU AND TRULY WANT A RELATIONSGIP?
COS AM CONFUSE NOW



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Posted on Fri, Sep 11, 2009 00:49

Well I learned my lesson on here the first week.¿ It was a mistake joining, thought I would meet possibly a normal, educated man.¿ Gentlemen from Las Vegas contacted me immediately we conversed with several e-mails.¿ All I heard is how much he wanted to meet me in person.¿ He was getting things settle in Vegas so we could meet asap.¿ I was a fool and gave him my number we talked for 6 hours about everything.¿ Then somehow the conversation got twisted into phone sex. I told him I am not going down that road.¿ The next day he called and asked me if I had any pictures by my pool.¿ So I sent him a couple while we were on the phone again it turned into phone sex. I could here his voice change. Every time he called, then finally because I would not play he stopped.¿ I wrote him to delete my photos, even though there was nothing sent that I was ashamed of. He could not understand why I would wrote that but said he was sorry.¿ Then 3 days later he called me in the morning I was not even up.¿ He told me he had to be in Scottsdale but still wanted to meet me when he got back to Vegas.¿ Then asked me what I was doing, I said I was still sleeping.¿ He asked what I was wearing, I told him I was not going there he really got pushy and then told me the minute he gets back to Vegas he was going to call and we would make plans to meet.¿ If it was not for the caller ID I would not believe a word he said. I never heard from him again but I will never, ever¿give my number out til I meet someone face to face especially when we are that close. Less than 2 hours away.¿ What 274 men have check my profile, 5 emails in a month and were from men on the other side of the country telling they wished they lived closer.¿A friend told me men with money and I have date many and never had this experience want control no matter what. My last relationship was with a major contractor in Vegas, he never, ever crossed that line even when we were serious.¿ We would talk on the phone til we were both in bed it never did it turn into phone sex and I was having sex with him. He had to much respect for me. No I did not meet him on here. It was last summer at a resort here, He came up to order his daughter who I thought was his girl friend a drink and sat next to me and took one look into my eyes and said I am in love.¿ I laughed and said do not let your girl friend hear you, he said thats my daughter. Then he got my attention.¿ I seriously think dating sites are a thing of the past, men like to look and that is it. I am here for 2 more months and that is it.

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Posted on Tue, Sep 08, 2009 13:09

Just watch out for 1CalifDreamin. He lies, and he's 50.



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Posted on Tue, Jun 09, 2009 15:50

Quoting onegoodgirl:

don't sleep with them..the good ones will wait.



Amen. That's so profound, it deserves repeating.



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Posted on Tue, May 12, 2009 16:27

Hi Sweet! Thanks for opening such an important topic here. I wonder why there are only few people who left the comments. Well this site for me is good phychological practise and because I have warm heart and kind nature I wanna share the information with other girls. Today I chatted with a guy, he had a comment on his page of one girl. Guy wasnt a gold member and either girl, so she wrote to him how much she is in fond of him on his "Comment's board". I saw that and first thing I asked that guy was "So you are with that sweet girl now,she sounds like she is really into you" and that guy, who has such a perfect description of himself that told how sincer and nice and serious this guy is and that he is only looking for serious relationships and wanna have only one girl in life, told me next: "Well, I am not with her, we only had 1 night of crazy sex". I asked him, is that what she wanted? He answered -
No, its what I wanted" then I asked him "And what about those "so sincer and honest things" you wrote in your profile. Is it for fooling naive people. He told me, yes, if you wanna know the truth".
So, as you can see, magority of guys are looking for sex here. So my advice is:DONT TRUST ANYONE. You wont beilive but majority of guys here are actually looking for "hanging out on girl's account - about 10% of young ones I would say and about 95% - are looking for free sex here. Among 20% of those 95 are really dont mind having a serious relationships with some "superstar" and only 3% are truelly mean what they say in their profiles and actually look for love and relationships, kids and marriage. Thats the truth.
And I would want every girl to know that and allways keep in mind.
I hope this info was helpful.
With the best wishes to all girls here.



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Posted on Tue, Jan 22, 2008 23:51

don't sleep with them..the good ones will wait.



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Posted on Fri, Nov 04, 2005 11:55

blondeindian write:
it is a song, called, i don't want no scrubbs,it is about a very unsavory man,lol....


Not heard of that one, but I do know "Someones's Pinched Me Winkles"... about some unsavory seafood

  


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Posted on Thu, Nov 03, 2005 14:38

it is a song, called, i don't want no scrubbs,it is about a very unsavory man,lol....



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