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  • View author's info posted on Oct 25, 2005 11:36


    OMG I just read this topic here, NoMoreDrama, and what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I could not agree more with the many comments left by the other members here regarding their dismay at how someone could be so callous and hurtful. God Bless to you and yours.
    OMG I just read this topic here, NoMoreDrama, and what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I could not agree more with the many comments left by the other members here regarding their dismay at how someone could be so callous and hurtful. God Bless to you and yours.
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  • View author's info posted on Oct 25, 2005 07:09


    Cat, of what you just informe us in your last post, that sounds to me you need a lawyer for that lady..related to the fact that she stole personal info in order to harm, plus, she premedetated that for quite a while if it happened last year..and now..(obviously this madness progressed as it was vented on the kid) and in no ways your ex should understand that while being vulnerable mentally (maybe by the separation or something) he got manipulated by her as a result he was the one who acted in her place.(uncounsciously) ..on the kid...while he willing him to harm you i believe...It's a dynamic in chain...I still believe that person should pay the damages...and check the effect of all this on the kids...The father can be empeached to regress if he's asked to repair the harm done to the kid...I hope it can help, or you might e-mail me, i'm not a memeber, if you like!
    Corragio girl!...
    Cat, of what you just informe us in your last post, that sounds to me you need a lawyer for that lady..related to the fact that she stole personal info in order to harm, plus, she premedetated that for quite a while if it happened last year..and now..(obviously this madness progressed as it was vented on the kid) and in no ways your ex should understand that while being vulnerable mentally (maybe by the separation or something) he got manipulated by her as a result he was the one who acted in her place.(uncounsciously) ..on the kid...while he willing him to harm you i believe...It's a dynamic in chain...I still believe that person should pay the damages...and check the effect of all this on the kids...The father can be empeached to regress if he's asked to repair the harm done to the kid...I hope it can help, or you might e-mail me, i'm not a memeber, if you like!
    Corragio girl!...
  • View author's info posted on Oct 24, 2005 14:30


    Hang in there girl, keep you and your daughter safe. You will get pass all this.
    Hang in there girl, keep you and your daughter safe. You will get pass all this.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 21:35


    Cat..I never have or never will forget that feeling of walking on egg shells.You get stronger day by day tho, your a strong gal & will make it. Just remember to keep laffing..so you dont go nuts.LOL
    Cat..I never have or never will forget that feeling of walking on egg shells.You get stronger day by day tho, your a strong gal & will make it. Just remember to keep laffing..so you dont go nuts.LOL
  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 17:35


    Hi Cats. I too am dismayed at your situation. You are far too much of a delightful and kind individual to deserve this. Really nobody deserves it, but you least of all. You have received some generous offers from some very generous people who I think really care about you. Please seriously consider them. I would also like to offer whatever assistance I can to help you in these difficult times. You are a good lady Cats. In my book you rank way up there. You deserve better. Bill
    Hi Cats. I too am dismayed at your situation. You are far too much of a delightful and kind individual to deserve this. Really nobody deserves it, but you least of all. You have received some generous offers from some very generous people who I think really care about you. Please seriously consider them. I would also like to offer whatever assistance I can to help you in these difficult times. You are a good lady Cats. In my book you rank way up there. You deserve better. Bill
  • View author's info posted on Oct 23, 2005 08:20


    Ciaobaby and Sweendog, i completely agree!
    As for the person who did that or those who are tempted to do that, hiding online or in real life..you should think, that you acted on something where a child has been harmed, on a mother whith huge responsabilities has been harmed, especially while dealing with an ex with issues too. You provoked that person to harm a kid, only for your own personal need because you have been frustrated instead to go get help with all your issues. Don't forget that in a way or another, one day or another you will be found, it's only a question of time...and you'll have to pay for your actions! You can count on it!

    But, if you want to grow up, and do something useful, you should search help and try to repair all the harm you did!...Better you do it now, immediately!
    Ciaobaby and Sweendog, i completely agree!
    As for the person who did that or those who are tempted to do that, hiding online or in real life..you should think, that you acted on something where a child has been harmed, on a mother whith huge responsabilities has been harmed, especially while dealing with an ex with issues too. You provoked that person to harm a kid, only for your own personal need because you have been frustrated instead to go get help with all your issues. Don't forget that in a way or another, one day or another you will be found, it's only a question of time...and you'll have to pay for your actions! You can count on it!

    But, if you want to grow up, and do something useful, you should search help and try to repair all the harm you did!...Better you do it now, immediately!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 22, 2005 15:37


    Unbelievable! Wow!
    I'm so sorry your going through this Cat, that's terrbile for you and your daughter to go through!
    I hope you give the names to the police and have the courts contact MM to have these people's name released and charged!
    (Let alone banned from here and any other dating site!)
    I wish we could bring you up north to be safe....prayers are with you!
    1IB

    (why do they keep posting double of what we are writing?? Too werid!
    Unbelievable! Wow!
    I'm so sorry your going through this Cat, that's terrbile for you and your daughter to go through!
    I hope you give the names to the police and have the courts contact MM to have these people's name released and charged!
    (Let alone banned from here and any other dating site!)
    I wish we could bring you up north to be safe....prayers are with you!
    1IB

    (why do they keep posting double of what we are writing?? Too werid!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 22, 2005 08:13


    TheCatsMeow65 write:
    My goodness I just had a thought...do you all remember me talking about that X gf he had off and on 8 yrs? The one that can't seem to keep her nose outta our business? The one that hates me and made my life a living hell? I bet its her and/or her mother...Who wants to bet? They aggrivated the situation to make it look worse than it is...told him one of the guys in the pics is here at this moment yada yada...Its so them!
    My goodness I just had a thought...do you all remember me talking about that X gf he had off and on 8 yrs? The one that can't seem to keep her nose outta our business? The one that hates me and made my life a living hell? I bet its her and/or her mother...Who wants to bet? They aggrivated the situation to make it look worse than it is...told him one of the guys in the pics is here at this moment yada yada...Its so them!


    Yes I remember you mentioning the ex girlfriend in fact you and I joked on the forum about them referring to you as a bipolar ho and we were going to kick their azz.

    I've emailed you. Let me know if I can help in any way Angel.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 22, 2005 07:45


    Cats, Im sorry to hear about your ordeal. You shouldnt have to move or go to a shelter, you did nothing wrong in Columbus. The pics ive seen on here just showed abunch of people dancing and having fun. Your exhusband needs to get a grip before he lands his azz in jail. This sounds like a jealous female is behing sending the pics to him and how did they get his name?
    Men can be difficult but theyre not vicious enough to spend time researching info to destroy another person. I ran a company with 30 women and one male, I can tell you ,its trouble.
    Hang in there and let the authorities deal with him.
    Cats, Im sorry to hear about your ordeal. You shouldnt have to move or go to a shelter, you did nothing wrong in Columbus. The pics ive seen on here just showed abunch of people dancing and having fun. Your exhusband needs to get a grip before he lands his azz in jail. This sounds like a jealous female is behing sending the pics to him and how did they get his name?
    Men can be difficult but theyre not vicious enough to spend time researching info to destroy another person. I ran a company with 30 women and one male, I can tell you ,its trouble.
    Hang in there and let the authorities deal with him.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 22, 2005 05:38


    Thanks aetios, but it made me alot stronger. Cat the systems fails the women & men who are going thru abuse & yes,men do go thru it too..I will say in most cases that protective orders are not worth the paper they are written on, that to a man who controls or abuses a woman physically see's her as his property & how dare her if she attempts to leave or call the law on him.There are ways to get away from this man & a good caseworker at a shelter will or should help you put it into motion.my way is not to rent an apartment in your name, no phone in your name,or going to family he knows of for help.Putting distance between you & him is good too. It's like you do not exist to him anymore.As far as him having anything to do with your daughter,a caseworker can help you set-up visits if you & daughter want to so that you have police protection & are not in harms way of this man.A caseworker will & can set it up miles from where you live. I rented house many miles away from ex, my phone was in another name, I went to another state & got my drivers license, I wasnt the same person anymore.My kids & I were safe.I had lived the life of that movie 'The burning bed' with farrah Faucett..but thankfully, I didnt kill the ex or him kill me.
    Thanks aetios, but it made me alot stronger. Cat the systems fails the women & men who are going thru abuse & yes,men do go thru it too..I will say in most cases that protective orders are not worth the paper they are written on, that to a man who controls or abuses a woman physically see's her as his property & how dare her if she attempts to leave or call the law on him.There are ways to get away from this man & a good caseworker at a shelter will or should help you put it into motion.my way is not to rent an apartment in your name, no phone in your name,or going to family he knows of for help.Putting distance between you & him is good too. It's like you do not exist to him anymore.As far as him having anything to do with your daughter,a caseworker can help you set-up visits if you & daughter want to so that you have police protection & are not in harms way of this man.A caseworker will & can set it up miles from where you live. I rented house many miles away from ex, my phone was in another name, I went to another state & got my drivers license, I wasnt the same person anymore.My kids & I were safe.I had lived the life of that movie 'The burning bed' with farrah Faucett..but thankfully, I didnt kill the ex or him kill me.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 23:10


    Real, my sympathy, im sorry you got through all that hell and im happy all is well now!...
    Hello Cats, remember me? :)...just wanted to encourage you, go girl, don't give up, but careful!...Go get all the help you can, legal, psy, especially for the child..the most important...etc...He has to understand that the game is over or...And, the person who did that to you, has to be found in my opinion and pay the damages! I don't believe that you have to be alone in this!...
    Real, my sympathy, im sorry you got through all that hell and im happy all is well now!...
    Hello Cats, remember me? :)...just wanted to encourage you, go girl, don't give up, but careful!...Go get all the help you can, legal, psy, especially for the child..the most important...etc...He has to understand that the game is over or...And, the person who did that to you, has to be found in my opinion and pay the damages! I don't believe that you have to be alone in this!...
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 20:35


    Cat I moved far away where I knew no one & no one knew me..he would call my brothers & sisters hounding them for the longest. That was reason I didnt go stay with anyone of them, I didnt want them hurt in any way. I will never go thru that he*ll ever again.If that is the case, I will remain alone.Cat...if you want to email me I can probably help, that is if you want my help..
    Cat I moved far away where I knew no one & no one knew me..he would call my brothers & sisters hounding them for the longest. That was reason I didnt go stay with anyone of them, I didnt want them hurt in any way. I will never go thru that he*ll ever again.If that is the case, I will remain alone.Cat...if you want to email me I can probably help, that is if you want my help..
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 20:07


    knock3times write:
    First Mel and now Cat, when will the insanity end?

    There is a psychopath among us. A very dangerous one at that due to the veil of secrecy.

    Woe be to him/her once the truth comes to light. There will be several people standing in line to kick some psycho's azz.


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    Yes, and MM just allows these people to keep posting. They are part of the problem.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 19:56


    Cat, I am sorry to hear that. I went thru hell like that while married too, my ex would sit in front yard & shoot his 22 rifle off at me, he wouldnt let me out of the bedroom till he was thru beating on me.I got away then right after he moved his girlfriend in that he'd been see'ing while we was married (she was one of many)but he would come to my house 2-3 o'clock in morn every night beating on my door wanting me to let him in...he went as far as to chase me down a busy street stop right in front of my car & come at me with a gun.I truely feared that man. He had come over one day to get me to sign insurance papers & next night I found a man crawling thru my window..police think he had a hit on me. This horror went on for over 5 yrs.
    What my kids went thru was terrifing & total he*ll.
    my kids are fine now, but they let any man know up front if they lay a hand on their mom that they will make sure they never do it again to me or another woman.
    To the scum bag who did this to you...they are nothing but a low life maggot munching S.O.B'S..and god does take care of those who deem evil on others.You will get your's & in 3 fold.
    Hugs Cat...you do have friends!
    Cat, I am sorry to hear that. I went thru hell like that while married too, my ex would sit in front yard & shoot his 22 rifle off at me, he wouldnt let me out of the bedroom till he was thru beating on me.I got away then right after he moved his girlfriend in that he'd been see'ing while we was married (she was one of many)but he would come to my house 2-3 o'clock in morn every night beating on my door wanting me to let him in...he went as far as to chase me down a busy street stop right in front of my car & come at me with a gun.I truely feared that man. He had come over one day to get me to sign insurance papers & next night I found a man crawling thru my window..police think he had a hit on me. This horror went on for over 5 yrs.
    What my kids went thru was terrifing & total he*ll.
    my kids are fine now, but they let any man know up front if they lay a hand on their mom that they will make sure they never do it again to me or another woman.
    To the scum bag who did this to you...they are nothing but a low life maggot munching S.O.B'S..and god does take care of those who deem evil on others.You will get your's & in 3 fold.
    Hugs Cat...you do have friends!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 07:11


    Cat I am curious as to how someone got ex's addy to send your pics? What business is it of anyone's to do such a thing? I have learn from this site to be careful of anyone knowing anything bout me now...especially after they got my billing info. It's nutz!
    Cat I am curious as to how someone got ex's addy to send your pics? What business is it of anyone's to do such a thing? I have learn from this site to be careful of anyone knowing anything bout me now...especially after they got my billing info. It's nutz!
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 06:56


    First Mel and now Cat, when will the insanity end?

    There is a psychopath among us. A very dangerous one at that due to the veil of secrecy.

    Woe be to him/her once the truth comes to light. There will be several people standing in line to kick some psycho's azz.
    First Mel and now Cat, when will the insanity end?

    There is a psychopath among us. A very dangerous one at that due to the veil of secrecy.

    Woe be to him/her once the truth comes to light. There will be several people standing in line to kick some psycho's azz.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 06:46


    that is soooooo fked up-- and im sure the person who sent them was someone u had fun with-- apparently he/she lacks the balls to admit it.. dont worry kitty cat life gets better i swear
    that is soooooo fked up-- and im sure the person who sent them was someone u had fun with-- apparently he/she lacks the balls to admit it.. dont worry kitty cat life gets better i swear
  • View author's info posted on Oct 21, 2005 06:45


    Whoever did that was a real jerk..

    That's so uncalled for and took alot of effort to be that sick. Shame on them!
    Whoever did that was a real jerk..

    That's so uncalled for and took alot of effort to be that sick. Shame on them!
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