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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 11:36

OMG I just read this topic here, NoMoreDrama, and what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I could not agree more with the many comments left by the other members here regarding their dismay at how someone could be so callous and hurtful. God Bless to you and yours.
OMG I just read this topic here, NoMoreDrama, and what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I could not agree more with the many comments left by the other members here regarding their dismay at how someone could be so callous and hurtful. God Bless to you and yours.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 25, 2005 07:09

Cat, of what you just informe us in your last post, that sounds to me you need a lawyer for that lady..related to the fact that she stole personal info in order to harm, plus, she premedetated that for quite a while if it happened last year..and now..(obviously this madness progressed as it was vented on the kid) and in no ways your ex should understand that while being vulnerable mentally (maybe by the separation or something) he got manipulated by her as a result he was the one who acted in her place.(uncounsciously) ..on the kid...while he willing him to harm you i believe...It's a dynamic in chain...I still believe that person should pay the damages...and check the effect of all this on the kids...The father can be empeached to regress if he's asked to repair the harm done to the kid...I hope it can help, or you might e-mail me, i'm not a memeber, if you like!
Corragio girl!...
Cat, of what you just informe us in your last post, that sounds to me you need a lawyer for that lady..related to the fact that she stole personal info in order to harm, plus, she premedetated that for quite a while if it happened last year..and now..(obviously this madness progressed as it was vented on the kid) and in no ways your ex should understand that while being vulnerable mentally (maybe by the separation or something) he got manipulated by her as a result he was the one who acted in her place.(uncounsciously) ..on the kid...while he willing him to harm you i believe...It's a dynamic in chain...I still believe that person should pay the damages...and check the effect of all this on the kids...The father can be empeached to regress if he's asked to repair the harm done to the kid...I hope it can help, or you might e-mail me, i'm not a memeber, if you like!
Corragio girl!...



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 14:30

Hang in there girl, keep you and your daughter safe. You will get pass all this.
Hang in there girl, keep you and your daughter safe. You will get pass all this.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 24, 2005 12:23

Cat
I'm so sorry to hear about your delema and who ever is responsable for this is SICK and WRONG, I'm sorry he/she put you and your daughter in danger,
I be praying for you.

Sincerely Me
Cat
I'm so sorry to hear about your delema and who ever is responsable for this is SICK and WRONG, I'm sorry he/she put you and your daughter in danger,
I be praying for you.

Sincerely Me



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 21:35

Cat..I never have or never will forget that feeling of walking on egg shells.You get stronger day by day tho, your a strong gal & will make it. Just remember to keep laffing..so you dont go nuts.LOL
Cat..I never have or never will forget that feeling of walking on egg shells.You get stronger day by day tho, your a strong gal & will make it. Just remember to keep laffing..so you dont go nuts.LOL



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 20:57

I'm sitting here with my jaw hanging open and my heart hurting for you and your daughter. On behalf of all the decent men in the world ... please accept my apoligy. We're not all like your ex-husband.

Relocate to the South ... Atlanta is a wonderful city.

Steve
I'm sitting here with my jaw hanging open and my heart hurting for you and your daughter. On behalf of all the decent men in the world ... please accept my apoligy. We're not all like your ex-husband.

Relocate to the South ... Atlanta is a wonderful city.

Steve



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 17:35

Hi Cats. I too am dismayed at your situation. You are far too much of a delightful and kind individual to deserve this. Really nobody deserves it, but you least of all. You have received some generous offers from some very generous people who I think really care about you. Please seriously consider them. I would also like to offer whatever assistance I can to help you in these difficult times. You are a good lady Cats. In my book you rank way up there. You deserve better. Bill
Hi Cats. I too am dismayed at your situation. You are far too much of a delightful and kind individual to deserve this. Really nobody deserves it, but you least of all. You have received some generous offers from some very generous people who I think really care about you. Please seriously consider them. I would also like to offer whatever assistance I can to help you in these difficult times. You are a good lady Cats. In my book you rank way up there. You deserve better. Bill



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 09:51

Ok Lisa,

Just so you know, I talked with a lawyer friend of mine last night. She has her own Harley, and we get together every so often and ride together. She has her practice up in San Francisco. She is a Family Practice Lawyer there and she deals with domestic violence cases amoung other family related things - Divorce, Restraining Orders, etc. She has some good suggestions she expressed to me for you. She also has a place she puts her client up in (Protective Custoday) for just such cases. So if you need the help, I am there for you. See lil lady, having wealth can be a good thing when used wisely and for good causes other than just the materialistic toyz things too, lol. But the toyz give back something also- enjoyment, and lasting fun memories, still lol. You know how to reach me if you need to.
Ok Lisa,

Just so you know, I talked with a lawyer friend of mine last night. She has her own Harley, and we get together every so often and ride together. She has her practice up in San Francisco. She is a Family Practice Lawyer there and she deals with domestic violence cases amoung other family related things - Divorce, Restraining Orders, etc. She has some good suggestions she expressed to me for you. She also has a place she puts her client up in (Protective Custoday) for just such cases. So if you need the help, I am there for you. See lil lady, having wealth can be a good thing when used wisely and for good causes other than just the materialistic toyz things too, lol. But the toyz give back something also- enjoyment, and lasting fun memories, still lol. You know how to reach me if you need to.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 08:20

Ciaobaby and Sweendog, i completely agree!
As for the person who did that or those who are tempted to do that, hiding online or in real life..you should think, that you acted on something where a child has been harmed, on a mother whith huge responsabilities has been harmed, especially while dealing with an ex with issues too. You provoked that person to harm a kid, only for your own personal need because you have been frustrated instead to go get help with all your issues. Don't forget that in a way or another, one day or another you will be found, it's only a question of time...and you'll have to pay for your actions! You can count on it!

But, if you want to grow up, and do something useful, you should search help and try to repair all the harm you did!...Better you do it now, immediately!
Ciaobaby and Sweendog, i completely agree!
As for the person who did that or those who are tempted to do that, hiding online or in real life..you should think, that you acted on something where a child has been harmed, on a mother whith huge responsabilities has been harmed, especially while dealing with an ex with issues too. You provoked that person to harm a kid, only for your own personal need because you have been frustrated instead to go get help with all your issues. Don't forget that in a way or another, one day or another you will be found, it's only a question of time...and you'll have to pay for your actions! You can count on it!

But, if you want to grow up, and do something useful, you should search help and try to repair all the harm you did!...Better you do it now, immediately!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 20:34

OMG Lisa Sweetie,

This is terrible. I am sorry to hear about this. What a sleeze ball this person is he or she. Have you any ideas yet of who it is? You have some slueth work to do to figure out who it is. If you need any help, please let me know if I can be of any assistance. Here is my personal email address so you can contact me directly- BlondeLightning at juno dott kom. drop me a few lines to let me know how it is going lil lady. And try to keep your head up too. BTW- I have a younger sister in San Francisco near you. I can call her and ask her if it would be ok to host you and your daughter with her so you can have a hide out to lay low for a while if you need it, just ask me is all you have to do. Talk to you soon darling, and I have missed you here in the forums just so you know. I am sure everyone else has missed you also. Take care and be careful too!
OMG Lisa Sweetie,

This is terrible. I am sorry to hear about this. What a sleeze ball this person is he or she. Have you any ideas yet of who it is? You have some slueth work to do to figure out who it is. If you need any help, please let me know if I can be of any assistance. Here is my personal email address so you can contact me directly- BlondeLightning at juno dott kom. drop me a few lines to let me know how it is going lil lady. And try to keep your head up too. BTW- I have a younger sister in San Francisco near you. I can call her and ask her if it would be ok to host you and your daughter with her so you can have a hide out to lay low for a while if you need it, just ask me is all you have to do. Talk to you soon darling, and I have missed you here in the forums just so you know. I am sure everyone else has missed you also. Take care and be careful too!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 18:54

Cats i have missed this as i have not been on in 3/4 days. I am sorry this is happening to you. The most important thing is to be safe. I am sure you know what can happen and i am sure you know the statistics..Whomever did that to you should be taken out and hung in the hot sun Naked...People who are so vindictive do not take the time to see what domino effect their vindictiveness will have. They are only satisfied with their own gratitfication. We have seen those types of people and they are dangerous. So please just be very careful. Jolene can give you some good pointers and advice. Remember you can get transferred and go to school anywhere in the country. You just need to find a stopping place. Men like that have a fuse that can blow anytime. And you never know when it will blow. I wish you well and please keep us informed as you can and maybe one day you can leave there and move to a place where you can be happy. We love you.

S4U..................
Cats i have missed this as i have not been on in 3/4 days. I am sorry this is happening to you. The most important thing is to be safe. I am sure you know what can happen and i am sure you know the statistics..Whomever did that to you should be taken out and hung in the hot sun Naked...People who are so vindictive do not take the time to see what domino effect their vindictiveness will have. They are only satisfied with their own gratitfication. We have seen those types of people and they are dangerous. So please just be very careful. Jolene can give you some good pointers and advice. Remember you can get transferred and go to school anywhere in the country. You just need to find a stopping place. Men like that have a fuse that can blow anytime. And you never know when it will blow. I wish you well and please keep us informed as you can and maybe one day you can leave there and move to a place where you can be happy. We love you.

S4U..................

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 15:37

Unbelievable! Wow!
I'm so sorry your going through this Cat, that's terrbile for you and your daughter to go through!
I hope you give the names to the police and have the courts contact MM to have these people's name released and charged!
(Let alone banned from here and any other dating site!)
I wish we could bring you up north to be safe....prayers are with you!
1IB

(why do they keep posting double of what we are writing?? Too werid!
Unbelievable! Wow!
I'm so sorry your going through this Cat, that's terrbile for you and your daughter to go through!
I hope you give the names to the police and have the courts contact MM to have these people's name released and charged!
(Let alone banned from here and any other dating site!)
I wish we could bring you up north to be safe....prayers are with you!
1IB

(why do they keep posting double of what we are writing?? Too werid!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 08:13

TheCatsMeow65 write:
My goodness I just had a thought...do you all remember me talking about that X gf he had off and on 8 yrs? The one that can't seem to keep her nose outta our business? The one that hates me and made my life a living hell? I bet its her and/or her mother...Who wants to bet? They aggrivated the situation to make it look worse than it is...told him one of the guys in the pics is here at this moment yada yada...Its so them!
My goodness I just had a thought...do you all remember me talking about that X gf he had off and on 8 yrs? The one that can't seem to keep her nose outta our business? The one that hates me and made my life a living hell? I bet its her and/or her mother...Who wants to bet? They aggrivated the situation to make it look worse than it is...told him one of the guys in the pics is here at this moment yada yada...Its so them!


Yes I remember you mentioning the ex girlfriend in fact you and I joked on the forum about them referring to you as a bipolar ho and we were going to kick their azz.

I've emailed you. Let me know if I can help in any way Angel.

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 07:45

Cats, Im sorry to hear about your ordeal. You shouldnt have to move or go to a shelter, you did nothing wrong in Columbus. The pics ive seen on here just showed abunch of people dancing and having fun. Your exhusband needs to get a grip before he lands his azz in jail. This sounds like a jealous female is behing sending the pics to him and how did they get his name?
Men can be difficult but theyre not vicious enough to spend time researching info to destroy another person. I ran a company with 30 women and one male, I can tell you ,its trouble.
Hang in there and let the authorities deal with him.
Cats, Im sorry to hear about your ordeal. You shouldnt have to move or go to a shelter, you did nothing wrong in Columbus. The pics ive seen on here just showed abunch of people dancing and having fun. Your exhusband needs to get a grip before he lands his azz in jail. This sounds like a jealous female is behing sending the pics to him and how did they get his name?
Men can be difficult but theyre not vicious enough to spend time researching info to destroy another person. I ran a company with 30 women and one male, I can tell you ,its trouble.
Hang in there and let the authorities deal with him.



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 05:38

Thanks aetios, but it made me alot stronger. Cat the systems fails the women & men who are going thru abuse & yes,men do go thru it too..I will say in most cases that protective orders are not worth the paper they are written on, that to a man who controls or abuses a woman physically see's her as his property & how dare her if she attempts to leave or call the law on him.There are ways to get away from this man & a good caseworker at a shelter will or should help you put it into motion.my way is not to rent an apartment in your name, no phone in your name,or going to family he knows of for help.Putting distance between you & him is good too. It's like you do not exist to him anymore.As far as him having anything to do with your daughter,a caseworker can help you set-up visits if you & daughter want to so that you have police protection & are not in harms way of this man.A caseworker will & can set it up miles from where you live. I rented house many miles away from ex, my phone was in another name, I went to another state & got my drivers license, I wasnt the same person anymore.My kids & I were safe.I had lived the life of that movie 'The burning bed' with farrah Faucett..but thankfully, I didnt kill the ex or him kill me.
Thanks aetios, but it made me alot stronger. Cat the systems fails the women & men who are going thru abuse & yes,men do go thru it too..I will say in most cases that protective orders are not worth the paper they are written on, that to a man who controls or abuses a woman physically see's her as his property & how dare her if she attempts to leave or call the law on him.There are ways to get away from this man & a good caseworker at a shelter will or should help you put it into motion.my way is not to rent an apartment in your name, no phone in your name,or going to family he knows of for help.Putting distance between you & him is good too. It's like you do not exist to him anymore.As far as him having anything to do with your daughter,a caseworker can help you set-up visits if you & daughter want to so that you have police protection & are not in harms way of this man.A caseworker will & can set it up miles from where you live. I rented house many miles away from ex, my phone was in another name, I went to another state & got my drivers license, I wasnt the same person anymore.My kids & I were safe.I had lived the life of that movie 'The burning bed' with farrah Faucett..but thankfully, I didnt kill the ex or him kill me.

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 05:14

So sorry to hear that..That is rather psychotic for ANYONE to take that much time to make someone else's life a living hell.Especially when there are children involved....That def calls for an azz whippin'!!
So sorry to hear that..That is rather psychotic for ANYONE to take that much time to make someone else's life a living hell.Especially when there are children involved....That def calls for an azz whippin'!!



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Posted on Sat, Oct 22, 2005 04:47

Cats,
You have some wonderful support on here...Real would be a great one to talk to, also....stay safe!
Cats,
You have some wonderful support on here...Real would be a great one to talk to, also....stay safe!



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Posted on Fri, Oct 21, 2005 23:10

Real, my sympathy, im sorry you got through all that hell and im happy all is well now!...
Hello Cats, remember me? :)...just wanted to encourage you, go girl, don't give up, but careful!...Go get all the help you can, legal, psy, especially for the child..the most important...etc...He has to understand that the game is over or...And, the person who did that to you, has to be found in my opinion and pay the damages! I don't believe that you have to be alone in this!...
Real, my sympathy, im sorry you got through all that hell and im happy all is well now!...
Hello Cats, remember me? :)...just wanted to encourage you, go girl, don't give up, but careful!...Go get all the help you can, legal, psy, especially for the child..the most important...etc...He has to understand that the game is over or...And, the person who did that to you, has to be found in my opinion and pay the damages! I don't believe that you have to be alone in this!...

  


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Posted on Fri, Oct 21, 2005 20:35

Cat I moved far away where I knew no one & no one knew me..he would call my brothers & sisters hounding them for the longest. That was reason I didnt go stay with anyone of them, I didnt want them hurt in any way. I will never go thru that he*ll ever again.If that is the case, I will remain alone.Cat...if you want to email me I can probably help, that is if you want my help..
Cat I moved far away where I knew no one & no one knew me..he would call my brothers & sisters hounding them for the longest. That was reason I didnt go stay with anyone of them, I didnt want them hurt in any way. I will never go thru that he*ll ever again.If that is the case, I will remain alone.Cat...if you want to email me I can probably help, that is if you want my help..



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Posted on Fri, Oct 21, 2005 20:07

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First Mel and now Cat, when will the insanity end?

There is a psychopath among us. A very dangerous one at that due to the veil of secrecy.

Woe be to him/her once the truth comes to light. There will be several people standing in line to kick some psycho's azz.


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Yes, and MM just allows these people to keep posting. They are part of the problem.



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