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Posted on Thu, Oct 20, 2005 20:17

Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.
Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 11, 2008 22:18

I only date black women. You know "Once you go black......" Sorry but white women bore me.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 13, 2007 14:05

Are you black? You don't look like it.
I mean, i'm not trying to be rude



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Posted on Wed, Mar 01, 2006 20:27

There is no such things like a right race. There is only feelings from people in question. With whom will you do this and that. What is acceptable for you and your circle of friends. I have never dated a black or coloured girl, but I have chatted a bit. Strange, but in the beginning I thought that black girls had a fantastic warm mind and much fealing. But, the black women I turned into were really cold ones. Anyway, there is not only good or bad people within a race. There is much here that we do not know anything about. Anyway, I do not think that the whitest women are the most attractive neither. It is the total personality that counts.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 15, 2006 12:43

I seem to be having a hard time meeting men that are interested in black women. And I am looking for something serious. Those that actually show interest only want to have sex or play weird sex games.

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Posted on Tue, Jan 03, 2006 09:19

Girl, when the make up comes off, I am not sure if some of us are human! I have seen some boogar wolves when the war paint comes off! hahahaha Always offering my humor.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 25, 2005 19:08

I can agree on some of the comments. I get a few responses from men saying that they never have been with a black woman. We then automatically think that we are not wanting to be the guinea pig for this person. It is not always like that, perhaps they have never come across a blk woman that they are compatiable with. It is just a preference for me to date white men. We seem to get along better. I know who I am, and about my culture. I feel that because of the way that we raise our sons make them treat women diff. I am sure there are bad people in all races, but again, I have been treated better by white men time and time again. I am not ruling blk men out, but I just know what I am attracted to.

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Posted on Sun, Dec 18, 2005 17:50

Sexaydaph18 write:
hondo1952 write:
waaay kewl dude im an ARMY BRAT also!!!lol




wish i could stay in one place,,i move every 3 years but im goin to college now so i can stay where i want!



I know that feeling Daph. We used to do that moving thing too. I got more of it when I went in. I've been here in one place for 10 years now and my feet are itching to be moving on.

Where are you in school? What is your major?



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Posted on Wed, Dec 14, 2005 13:50

Lexus, well said. CALL ME! lol You look so sexy.
Sorry if that is a bit forward. lol



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Posted on Wed, Dec 14, 2005 09:40

waaay kewl dude im an ARMY BRAT also!!!lol



Then you know exactly what I am talking about. I'm sure it's even better now since I grew up in the 50's and 60's. There were more problems than there are now, but still it was a wonderful way to grow up. Luckily my teenage years were spent in south Alabama where my family is from.

Evey time my dad would come back from Viet Nam he would be stationed at Fort Rucker, which is our home, as a flight instructor. The family cemetary is actually on post there.

Contrary to popular opinion throughout the rest of the world Alabama did not burn in the 60's and there were not problems in the entire state with integration.

Admittedly there were died in the wool racist and still are. Many are still fighting the Civil War. There were many, many more that were good people and always tried to do the right thing. That's something that was never put in print or on television.

This is way off topic but something that always bothered me and I just wanted to throw it out.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 13, 2005 10:42

babydolly write:
Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.
Are there any guys ont he system that are actually looking for African American women? I seem to keep running into guys who have never dated a black girl before, or who claims to have and just looking for that first time. There is a lot more to African American women than just trying to experience them.


Babydoll I'm just looking for a woman that will love me as I will love her. That's pretty simple. In the meantime I will flirt with everyone and attempt to show my sense of humor. Hopefully someone will notice. I'm not partial to green but any other color lady will be fine with me.

In your case you are drop dead gorgeous, sensuous and sexy. What man wouldn't love to be with or marry someone like that? The only experience I ever looked for was with the person. Luckily my parents taught me we are all the same and I grew up in a military environment (Army brat) that only reinforced what I learned from them.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 13, 2005 00:39

i think all of us need to remember one thing.we are all created in gods image,so we need to get past white ,black,red,yellow or what ever you want to call youre selves and remember we are people,we are all preashish in gods eyes and should stop the divishion and come togather as people ,not colors.we all bleed red.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 10, 2005 18:24

Sexaydaph this is for you..
Please by all means don't take this the wrong way. My intentions are to educate and share my insight and wisdom from one sister to another. To say that you prefer white men because black men treated you bad years ago- sounds like bitterness. Move past it.
Maybe you should try to surround yourself with a different cipher of brothas. There are many degrees to relationships and aquaintences and be leary of your company because while you may think that it's all peaches and cream, you're being used. All it takes is the right words the right actions and the right moment. I myself am proud to date a black male or a white male, or indian, or asian or martian if he's genuine, original, respectful, intelligent and full of life.. Don't limit yourself to one particular group or race for that matter. In time you will mature and by the way honey--we are black "women" NOT black "girls".. We have some growing to do.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 07, 2005 18:01

I don't date caucasusians because of all the things i've read in history, made me not to believe in cross breeing. Now, I am not a racist, nor do I hate other races, or think my races are above anyone else's either. I'm just putting in my two cents.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 06, 2005 06:54

Maybe that's how you see it, and of course the way we grow up affects on down the line. But just because a hand full of an ethnic group treats you wrong doesn't mean you turn your back on all of them. I myself have just started talking to white males, and yes I'm being treated right, but some black males treat me right also. You just have to divide a person's personality from their ethnicity. Right now I don't care what kind of skin my man has, as long as he has skin, and knows how to treat me like a queen.



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Posted on Sat, Nov 26, 2005 18:49

Maayan---

I read your profile/poetry and in my humble opinion it should be required reading for anyone with a heartbeat. You really do touch the heart.

You express yourself magnificantly, a rare gift. You have obviously had to deal with a situation that would break many people or cause bitterness.

Your spirit is motivational, thank you for opening up emotionally, again the gift you have is rare and courageous. May you be blessed

  


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Posted on Sat, Nov 26, 2005 16:58

Great advice, Blondey, I couldn't agree more. I can only speak for myself, but I don't think there were any disingenious guys on this thread looking for a quick roll in the hay.

We are not a flock of 18 year olds looking to score at spring break. There are plenty of other websites and/or clubs that cater to such mentality. I think that we all post pictures and comments we are comfortable with. If a remark or a picture is misinterpeted, one has the right to "put it out there", as BD did.

Since you mentioned it, as earlier stated on the thread BD's smile is just as remarkable as everything else about her. It's all part of her undeniable beauty which was pointed out. During my brief time on here, I've learned that great smiles and beautiful, sensual, desirable women are a staple on this website---just look in the mirror.

Plus, this is FUN! And if it can be fun and reassuring to a person who has misgivings about certain things, all the better I say.

And we do agree on one other point (at least) as well, I don't beleive that sleeping with someone should be part of an initial meeting, ever. For example, I can't tell you how much I enjoy brushing a woman's hair. To me, that is such an intimate act. Cuddling, talking caressing.....it's ROMANCE and it is VERY difficult to find. ANYONE can have sex and it is not difficult to find.

So please don't confuse my compliments or in other cases good natured teasing with being "on the prowl". You are somewhat of a tease yourself (with class, of course!) and I honestly think you do it adorably----plus you are funny, which never hurts.

But I digress, by BD's comments, I think she understands where I am coming from. If I, or any of the other guys on this thread made her blush a bit and/or feel better about herself, I ask, where is the harm?

Now, did you get my plane tickets ;-).

  


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Posted on Fri, Nov 25, 2005 10:37

babydolly write:
Thanks Dave for the beautiful comment. I've never gotten a greating like that before. ( BLUSHING ) I don't want to sound like i'm feeling sorry about my experience but I had to put my comment out there to see if there were real men out here. :-) Thank "Slowmotion" for your comment :-) I want that bundle of joy one day.

be very picky, do not settle for nice words or promises that sound to good to be true, and if they like you, test them some, meet them and don't have sex, you will know what they are after. always settle for what you want, look, style, height, personality, if they are full of abuse, or insecure, RUN GURL, there are freaks out there to who love to play with your heart..so, be very careful and just smile and have fun with this, how about a picx with a big smile, im sure you look even more beautiful...these guys are sweet to say these things...

  


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Posted on Wed, Nov 23, 2005 21:46

Trust me, babydolly, the words came easily. You really are incredible.

Sweetest smile, if you don't mind a guy older than you (no kids, never married BTW) and would like to chat please give me a holler.

And tonight, when your sweet head hits the pillow, take a minute to remind yourself what a glorious person you are

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2005 20:14

Thanks Dave for the beautiful comment. I've never gotten a greating like that before. ( BLUSHING ) I don't want to sound like i'm feeling sorry about my experience but I had to put my comment out there to see if there were real men out here. :-) Thank "Slowmotion" for your comment :-) I want that bundle of joy one day.



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