Sometimes I find that I have to think awhile before I tell someone how I feel about a conversation, or a situation I'm in, being it good or bad, but I always tell it the way it is, and take whatever comes my way knowing that I can live with the results. Just wondering if most of all people tell it the way it is or soften it so they don't hurt people or just avoid a person, or never say anything. Or say what is on their minds such as I.
Thanks to every one of you for the comments, I do have to agree with Minnie it is how you say it.. I would love to be in a room with all of us, and have someone ask us to tell them like it is, on a subject, would be intresting how we would all answer. I think that all you woman have class.
Sometimes we need to be cruel to be kind. Telling the truth could be cruel but make sure you tell the recipient that it is from the heart.
It takes much courage to tell the truth and to face the truth. But it sure makes it easy to sleep afterwards.
Thanks to all of you on the commments! What I mean about men is that, they will tell you what they want you to hear, not what is to be true. Not all men but I find a lot of men will step around instead of telling it the way it is to avoid conflict. Funny thing is I don't like to fight or argue but will say what needs to be said for the situation and that sometimes pis**ses people off.
this poor woman who happend to ask the freaking mafia chicks- wee scottish mafia - jersey ciaogirl trigger girl
three-omg machine gun and Susan well she will just confuse y a with wisdom and that alont will kill y a
as for men not saying what they mean i dont get it - i personally think more woman do not say what they mean and they put up with shi* men because they cannot say what they mean..
who the hell is Jimmy wee u always talk about Jimmy --
Nice to know that there are woman out there such as I. However want to add to the forum that in some cases men will not tell you the way it is, but tell you what you want to hear, any comments on this???? Maybe will will get a responce from a man lol Thanks NYChick and Knock3times I like what you have to say.
As I see it your right, also when you tell the truth you don't have to back track and try to keep the story right. I find that when you tell it the way it is you get more respect because they can take your word for it, or take it to the bank lol. Thanks so much for your comment Ciaobaby7.