I hate that this is coming off negative because I am not a negative person. However I feel that after being on a few millionaire dating sites
I might as well have my profile read:
I am looking to meet a man who is dishonest, never says what is on his mind, Has a picture on his profile that looks NOTHING like him. Or, every picture he has does not show his teeth. Why? Because they are yellow and/or growing all different ways except straight. Someone who wants to talk for hours on the phone for days. Than when it comes to meeting, makes plans and cancels more than one time.
I want to meet a man who says he is in good shape but he is really over weight. I want to meet a man who wants a woman who is in excellent shape but he can be a skinny crack head or fat bastard.
To some it up....I believe If I post an ad saying that I am looking to meet a man who has no intention on ever meeting a nice girl. A man who wants nothing more than to play on the computer and jerk woman around. I guarantee I would receive a letter from every man who reads my ad. I do not get it. I refuse to believe that men get cold feet after talking, laughing and having intellectual conversations for a few days on the phone. I refuse to believe the intimidation story. If a man can laugh with me for days, the intimidation fear should be gone.
Someone, please lend me some incite to this horrific circle I am in and cannot seem to get out.
i have been on several sites and meet a few guys they just all seem the same. i dont have sex with strangers , or friends. but i have had to spend quite a bit of money to get back , taxis, babysitters , hotels the whole nine yards. i think many people have too much wishful thinking, i pay to meet someone obviously successful, well spoken and compassionate but i always find the worst , or maybe they are all bad, i dont know , but i am nice and nice looking, semi educated and not stupid, honestly i most have talked to about 100 guys on the phone in the last 6 months and just either they cant communicate, think i am a 1900 number or are just negative. i think many lie about finances because they are jerks, and this is even men that are verified. they just use there homes. i talked to one he finally admitted he was unemployed so he just used his old tax forms, that shows me at least some of them are good at painting the wrong pictures. i have dated a few well off men in the real world and they never had me foot the bill, and were offended when i bought my own coffee... i am so done with the sites, i have yet to find one descent guy.
Well all I can say is im a real man, this is my stance on life. I am honest and loyal with a heart filled with love for someone that is worthy of the kind of heart i posses. I have 2 daughters Hope is 8 and Joy is 7 they are the reasoon im the loveing soul the love so dearly. I as thier father needs to lead by example on how they need to be treated and loved. so Im looking for the woman that wants to be part of that example. so look me up if this catches your attention.
i can only say this from my own personal experience ... i have met a couple of guys in this site ... and yes you fine the respectful and mature guy ... which i love those kind of men. But yes you can find the total ass&%#@ !! i so dont want to say the word but yes there are some jerks here ! but hey its all good !! and ive never met a married man here !1 lucky me lol .. oh my the way i read here a girl saying here she doesnt give her name or number for what ever the reason she has.. hey hun if you are going to be all suspicious and private then why date online?? doesnt make any sense .. i mean they just want to know if you are for real..cause there are creepy women in this site so i heaard !! and they play games.. so girl suck it up !! lol ...
well i have been here for quite sometime and the reason somemen arent replin is simply the r married. yeah i met a few of them. i would like to say that we are all grown adults and miles apart y do they think they have to lie we can't see them were just cyber friends wanting more its not everyone are million years and some of them lie about there income but that don;t intrested me one way r the other i am 23year old business woman living in jamaica and there are alot of things going on here i'm just tryin to hook up with some1 that can take my mind somewhere else apart from that. i think these men r just boys i am too mature for game and also men tricks r 4 kids i'm too old for that. i see women runnin down men on here y do it i've view your profile and think you'll are beautiful and intresting don't settle for less than what you worth i am a sofisticated beatiful smart young that vowed that nothin bellow "best" i not settling for. i know good life and is use to good thing and i don't want less than that i must admit that some woman alway look for men to be romantic NO we can too i took out my previous man and i spoiled him rotten also i bought him think he never taught that he'll ever get for a woman that just element of suprise. so men when holling please come clean and good better r best
I have to agree. One man who contacted me said I was too mysterious because I would not give out my real name and phone number before meeting with him. Sorry but this is the internet and you have to be careful. Another one emailed and called and then I never heard from him again. Go figure! I get lots of interest from men outside of my area which I have no desire to get involved with.
It does seem that some men on here are delusional when it comes to themselves. Many appear to have over-inflated opinions about their appearance and personalities. However, there are men who appear to be pretty decent. You just have to weed out the bad from the good...I know, I know...not always an easy task!!
brainsandlooks write: Also, I wish men would pay attention to age ranges on here. I've gotten email from men who fall out of my age range (always on the older side). Now, I wouldn't mind meeting a man who is 10 years older, or so, but I draw the line at 15 to 20 years. I already have a father, I am NOT looking for another one!! What are these men thinking? What could we possibly have in common?
Well, if you think you are attractive, that would probably be one thing!!! And commonality of thinking is of great desire for men. :o)
Also, another anomaly I will share with you, is about this age, women start rounding down, as the men do tend to "wish" for younger women. I have met several women face to face who were several years younger in profile age, only to find out that they were actually several years older than me. Now their age was not really the issue, but the "lack of truth" was for me. But they explained that in order to find men more their age, they had to "lie" on their profiles so that they would come up on the gentleman's searches.
BTW, how tall are you? The MM spellchecker wants to replace your name with beanstalks. LOL
Also, I wish men would pay attention to age ranges on here. I've gotten email from men who fall out of my age range (always on the older side). Now, I wouldn't mind meeting a man who is 10 years older, or so, but I draw the line at 15 to 20 years. I already have a father, I am NOT looking for another one!! What are these men thinking? What could we possibly have in common?