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Posted on Wed, Aug 24, 2005 09:06

I was in a reflective mood and got thinking....Lots of people write about how they want to find a 'soulmate' but do we really know what a soulmate is and would you recognise ur soulmate when you met him/her?
I think most people think soulmate is someone with whom the journey of love is smoother than a non-soulmate relationship. On the contrary...sometimes it's more difficult. With your soulmate you learn true humility...there's no ego...have you ever thought what it might feel like to know that someone else has your heart in their hands? It's scary...and I wonder how many people are trully ready to experience the power of a soulmate relationship. It goes beyond the physical...a binding of the heart, body and soul...


SOULMATES

Do you remember?
That apple tree
We were young
We were wild
Children climbing free
We let the world go by
Without a care inside
Do you remember?
Do you remember me?

Do you remember?
Seventeen
When we said our goodbyes
Wiping tears from our eyes
Gazing up at the night
Making love in the moonlight
Do you remember?
Do you remember me?

Do you remember?
You set me free
You took my hand
In your hand
And whispered to me
With this ring that I give
Take my heart when you leave
Will you remember?
Will you remember me?

Do you remember?
Finding me
Waiting for you
Underneath the apple tree
Many years had gone
I was so afraid
You'd moved on
But you remembered
You remembered me

Do you remember?
Leaving me
Your soul returned to the divine
To save a place there for mine
Even in death,
You said
With your last breath
I'll remember
And you'll remember me

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 02, 2005 09:03

Hi everyone,

I'm back from a week long holiday...happy, refreshed and ready to conquer the world :-)

Glad to see there have been some thoughts going round about soulmates. I guess people get confused because there are different kinds of soulmates and all have a close 'knowing' feeling to us. The ones that end in lots of heartache, almost like unfinished business, are karmic soulmates.
And then you've got twin souls the most powerful of all. Basically your twin soul is the male/female half of your soul.

If twin souls find each other in a single lifetime when the both of them are actually alive...they may separate because one or both of them can't handle the power of the union, but they will most certainly find each other again. This is the 'true' soulmate relationship, because there's no karma between them, bad feelings, revenge etc that goes with karmic soulmate relationships.

I was in a karmic soulmate relationship and boy am I glad I got out of it. Hopefully we're done with it and I won't be seeing him again in the next lifetime

  


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Posted on Sun, Aug 28, 2005 01:21

soulmate...

souls that mate
confounding DNA
expounding fate
make hay
while sunshines
but how we pay
that which love defines



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 18:12


Suni2005 write:
awwww Butter...some men are just horn dogs no matter how much sex they get at home. For some it is the thrill of it all.

yes..you are right about that Suni..

  


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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 16:39

awwww Butter...some men are just horn dogs no matter how much sex they get at home. For some it is the thrill of it all.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 16:14

well I guess i get it..i dont know,,relationships can be really confusing.....
The one I was speaking of,,was supposedly so in Love with me..that he cheated on me six months into our mariage..it took a lot to get past that one..all my friends were stunned as much as I was..he was the guy that everyone said would never hurt or decieve me..he was my everything..then he swept the rug out from under my feet..you never know...I did get past that..and we did stay together..it was very hard..but I did end it 6 years later..I cant understand why that happens..and there was never any lack of se*x in our relationship..in fact that was never a problem..he said he just needed someone to talk to.
.some soulmate he turned out to be..lol
we are still very good friends and he claims that he still Loves me..Im, thinking he must have a different defination of the word LOVE.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 14:27

Butter...you typed

"Suni; thats what i cant understand,,if he was your soulmate ,,then why are you two not able to work it out,,a soulmate should be in sync to you,,and you in him,,so why would it be a problem? Maybe you are not soulmates after all?"

He and I are in sync with one another...doesn't mean we have to be married. We love each other tremendously...we just aren't in love. He and I are old souls just as my female friend and I are.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 14:00

Suni Writes:
Butter:

Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to a particular person...be it female or male?

One of my best friends is a male. We dated for a while several years ago but things just didn't work out between us romantically. He and I have such a connection to one another that when we are together people really wonder why we aren't married to each other. He and I are so much alike that sometimes it is hard to distinguish where I end and he begins...it just flows that naturally. Is he my soul mate?...yes.


Suni; thats what i cant understand,,if he was your soulmate ,,then why are you two not able to work it out,,a soulmate should be in sync to you,,and you in him,,so why would it be a problem? Maybe you are not soulmates after all?

The whole idea of a soulmate has always baffeled me..not sure if I believe in that or not,,but I do believe in Love at first site.
I also have friends like that..my best friend and i are like that,,we know that even if we dont hear from each other for a few days,,that we will always be friends..I know when she is hurting and I always know when she is happy,,we have shgared the best times together..omg..like no other friend,,our girls night outtings..oh boy..not going there..but you know, im sure how us girls get when we are having fun.
I have befriended a few on here also..we have clicked immediately and knew that we could be good friends..but i cant call that a soulmate..still not sure of the meaning of a true soulmate..or even if i believe in one.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 11:56

Butter:

Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to a particular person...be it female or male?

One of my best friends is a male. We dated for a while several years ago but things just didn't work out between us romantically. He and I have such a connection to one another that when we are together people really wonder why we aren't married to each other. He and I are so much alike that sometimes it is hard to distinguish where I end and he begins...it just flows that naturally. Is he my soul mate?...yes.

My other best friend is female. She and I think alike and can finish each other's sentences. We do not see one another much but when we are together it is like we were not apart. As with my male best friend...it is hard to distinguish where I end and she begins. Is she my soul mate?...yes.

Is my soul split more than once?...I believe so. Does this explain a lot about me?...yes.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 11:02

Suni....wow,,that was an absolutely beautiful description of what a soulmate is... However..i have had that experience..2 times in my life..so my question is this..if they or he was my soulmate..then why am i not still with him?
I think that a lot of what you write is true..to a point..but it can also be lust what you describe..when one cant wait for the sexual passion, then lust must surely take over,,dont ya think?
That passion and first meeting that you have described in your post..I have lived that exactley as you describes,,it was a truely incredible experience..it lasted for about 6 years,,then I dont know what happened..but it was an awesome feeling.
I think that makes it harder to find what you are searching for the next time..almost like a drug user..can you ever get that feeling ever again? Like you search and search..only to find the rollercoaster ride of hurts and disapointments in life....
I have had that feeling of pure Love in my life..and seems harder to find that again,,or maybe its because I am looking this time..the last time it took me by complete supprise..



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 10:47

Someone sent this to me a couple of years ago.

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When you meet your soul mate, this person will have an immediate affect on you. A Soul Mate is someone who makes your knees go weak and you will want to catch your breath. With a single glance they lessen your burden and a smile warms your heart. You will feel a connection with this person. They will touch you so deeply on so many levels, you will want to share your inner most secrets. Once you have met your Soul Mate your life will never be the same. The one thing, which makes this unique, is the sense of a significant spiritual experience.

Normally it is several months, weeks or days before physical intimacy occurs. But when you meet your Soul Mate something happens. The pull, the drive to become physically intimate overwhelms many and one finds it happening in the initial meeting. There's a sense of security with this person. You knowingly let go of your defenses as an empathic bond is formed. Unlike other relationships in the past, there will be no game playing or hidden agendas, which plagued you in the past. There is something about the passion that you share with your Soul Mate. Its breadth goes beyond just "body parts". For a moment in time you two are the only ones who exist in the universe.

Hearts beating in rhythm as your souls have entwined themselves becoming one. Your personal energies meld and you feel the flame of creation move through you like a wave of the ocean on a hot summers day. Soon you begin to lose track of where you begin and your partner ends. From within the depths of your raw passionate union, your Soul Mate will know how and where to touch you. It will be different, intense and more gratifying than lovers of your past.

They will look into your eyes and you will feel your soul open wide. For some people there is a rush. All the love, all the passion, all the need, will surge forth from your soul like captives from a prison. At this moment you will know what it means to get lost within someone's eyes. You will experience a touch you have never felt before and your passion will rise to new levels. Your soul mate will be able to make love with you in ways no one else will ever be able to match.

Most of us know the basic meaning of the words Soul Mate and some even know the myth...I don't remember the full story but it basically goes that at one time in history, souls were neither male nor female but a combined spirit, completely happy and fulfilled. The part I don't remember is why but due to someone or thing's jealousy, these souls were split into male and female. After the separation, both parts of the soul realized that they weren't as happy and fulfilled after the separation and so went in search of their other half. This search is repeated over many lifetimes and sometimes the two halves do not find each other. When they do find each other the result is true love.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 09:43

Mimi..your poem is beautiful...it gave me goosebumps!



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