"Suni; thats what i cant understand,,if he was your soulmate ,,then why are you two not able to work it out,,a soulmate should be in sync to you,,and you in him,,so why would it be a problem? Maybe you are not soulmates after all?"
He and I are in sync with one another...doesn't mean we have to be married. We love each other tremendously...we just aren't in love. He and I are old souls just as my female friend and I are.
Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to a particular person...be it female or male?
One of my best friends is a male. We dated for a while several years ago but things just didn't work out between us romantically. He and I have such a connection to one another that when we are together people really wonder why we aren't married to each other. He and I are so much alike that sometimes it is hard to distinguish where I end and he begins...it just flows that naturally. Is he my soul mate?...yes.
My other best friend is female. She and I think alike and can finish each other's sentences. We do not see one another much but when we are together it is like we were not apart. As with my male best friend...it is hard to distinguish where I end and she begins. Is she my soul mate?...yes.
Is my soul split more than once?...I believe so. Does this explain a lot about me?...yes.
When you meet your soul mate, this person will have an immediate affect on you. A Soul Mate is someone who makes your knees go weak and you will want to catch your breath. With a single glance they lessen your burden and a smile warms your heart. You will feel a connection with this person. They will touch you so deeply on so many levels, you will want to share your inner most secrets. Once you have met your Soul Mate your life will never be the same. The one thing, which makes this unique, is the sense of a significant spiritual experience.
Normally it is several months, weeks or days before physical intimacy occurs. But when you meet your Soul Mate something happens. The pull, the drive to become physically intimate overwhelms many and one finds it happening in the initial meeting. There's a sense of security with this person. You knowingly let go of your defenses as an empathic bond is formed. Unlike other relationships in the past, there will be no game playing or hidden agendas, which plagued you in the past. There is something about the passion that you share with your Soul Mate. Its breadth goes beyond just "body parts". For a moment in time you two are the only ones who exist in the universe.
Hearts beating in rhythm as your souls have entwined themselves becoming one. Your personal energies meld and you feel the flame of creation move through you like a wave of the ocean on a hot summers day. Soon you begin to lose track of where you begin and your partner ends. From within the depths of your raw passionate union, your Soul Mate will know how and where to touch you. It will be different, intense and more gratifying than lovers of your past.
They will look into your eyes and you will feel your soul open wide. For some people there is a rush. All the love, all the passion, all the need, will surge forth from your soul like captives from a prison. At this moment you will know what it means to get lost within someone's eyes. You will experience a touch you have never felt before and your passion will rise to new levels. Your soul mate will be able to make love with you in ways no one else will ever be able to match.
Most of us know the basic meaning of the words Soul Mate and some even know the myth...I don't remember the full story but it basically goes that at one time in history, souls were neither male nor female but a combined spirit, completely happy and fulfilled. The part I don't remember is why but due to someone or thing's jealousy, these souls were split into male and female. After the separation, both parts of the soul realized that they weren't as happy and fulfilled after the separation and so went in search of their other half. This search is repeated over many lifetimes and sometimes the two halves do not find each other. When they do find each other the result is true love.