have dated Caucasian gentlemen since I was 9years old when the first boy I kiss was my neighbor who was a young Caucasian boy. Now mind you at that time people against inter-racial relationships was still a ta bu and many African Americans still harbor ill feelings and my family was hard press about me dating out side our race but as long as I like the gentlemen and they treated me right they could not say much. Well that was many years ago now one of those same uncles married a Caucasian woman and I have others in my family including my mother also are dating out of our race as she so nicely put it one time (SMILE) this is the international house lol. But what is race really there are so many of us including myself that has so many different race with in ourselves even those who think other wise. I believe if you really trace your family tree back far enough you will find that you more then likely yourself are of an inter-racial family of some sort. What are we anyway are we a color or just the human race with different shades. As long as you and your partner are happy then all else will soon fall in place and think about it real love is not found easily. So are you going too let your possible soul mate or best friend the person when all else goes wrong and everyone else turns on you they are the person that will always be by your side. Even when your family is not talking too you they are there for you and so are you really willing too let them go because of what others think. Are you willing to give up your happiness just because someone else is trying too push their hatred and closed minded issues upon you. I am not willing to be lonely for someone else who probably has some one and more then likely are miserable and just want me too miserable to.
Others are followers because they are afraid too lead I myself prefer too be a head of the pack not behind. Most of those people criticizing us secretly wish they had the courage to go where do to leap out and grab their happiness instead of settling for less.