I had this discussion w/a very young girl the other night...I was damn mad about some stuff my X was pulling on me. I mean stark raving MAD!!! She has been married just a year...it was struggle at first the fighting mood swings etc being snippie at each other...Then one day it hit her...Her name was Lisa too! Lisa do you want to be right or do you want to be happy. So she chose to be happy and quit sweating the lil stuff. They started communicating...and if one was having a moment they would merely say Im venting...that way the other knew to back off and let the other blow off steam...
I dunno all this crap going on on the board is so silly...I do like being silly acting like a lil 4th grader silly...Im talking about the jealousy, bickering...I know there are those out there that strive on this stuff...Frankly its insane!
Do you want to be right or happy?
A nice stiff drink(betcha though I was gonna say something else). Thighs that are cellulite free. A handsome Latin man wearing a towel around his waist and slick wet black hair serving me breakfast in bed. Time in a bottle. Mocha double-chocolate cake that doesn't go straight to the hips and azz.
Last but not least, if a genie granted me a wish it would be to make the pain go away, to wipe away the tear-stained face(s) and heal the broken hearts. I would wave my magic wand and put Humpty-Dumpty back together again.