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  • View author's info Author posted on Aug 05, 2005 23:10


    I was going to say nothing about the back-stabber's thread ... drama and all ... screw that! That is, until MM went and deleted the entire thread. I've never seen that before and, finally, I felt compelled to speak up. The thread served a purpose and should not have been taken lightly. Speaking of purpose, some people's purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others. You're reading a post from one of them.

    There is a history on these forums and behind the scenes where several people, two in particular actually, have vaccillated back and forth between being friends and being enemies, usually over infatuations & jealousies regarding members of the same and other sex, one-up-manship over this person posted this and that person posted that, telling secrets that were not kept and should never have been told in the first place. So let us just keep that out in the open here, where it finally was at the end of the other thread.

    I have to keep looking at people's ages to remind myself that this isn't high school when I have heard or read some of this comedy. I have wondered to myself if these individuals have real lives and have even counseled, e.g. talking to a wall, that they allowing their egos to be bruised over such petty and stupid things is pettiness and stupidity in and of itself.

    Where one of us has tired of being the voice of reason, this one has watched and kept quiet during this recent holocaust, tired of trying to be the peacemaker. Now I speak, seeing there is no true peace to be made, and seeing MM has decided to cover it up. Again, screw that!

    When I came to these forums a few months ago, I felt myself encouraged to join MM out of desire to join in by what I thought were people who wanted to have a good time talking intelligent subjects, acting out silly, but harmless charades, and, yes, the flirtation was attractive, even to me.

    The people with the aforementioned history who are saying "who me?" in this comedy are the same ones who have driven a wooden stake, thank you very much, into all that was good for us all here. They are the same ones who will still be here after ones like myself are gone, wondering why there is no one to have fun with. This is not about me disliking these people personally, I actually have no hate in me for that. It's just about what they have wrought in their stupidity. And, though I don't think I care now, I still wonder if they have real lives outside of this MM cyberworld gone mad with hatred, acrimony, selfishness, and spite.

    So, while the original thread which you've all probably read a hundred times due to its caustic title was a bit filled with venom itself, as I said: it served a purpose. And that purpose was to wake us up to the people carelessly destroying what we use the forum for: to have a good time. It's not fun any more and why bother with it now, unless you feed off negative vibes? If that's your trip then, hey, knock yourself out.

    ~URock
    (Moons the audience and exits stage left.)

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 08, 2005 08:43



    Minerva415 write:

    TheCatsMeow65 write:
    Damnit whenever I finally sit down to play you all are sleeping :( Ok I guess I can play barbies by myself :(



    I know Cat!! Don't you just hate this time difference?? Can you imagine if we all lived in the same city - or at least within 1 hour of each other....
    oh boy.... would that be a good idea?
    heck, I'd be happy to live in the same continent!! LOL

    LOL No kidding...but it does truly sound lovely where you are dahlin. OMG if we all lived in the same city...what lil hellions we would be
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 20:26


    Damnit whenever I finally sit down to play you all are sleeping :( Ok I guess I can play barbies by myself :(
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 19:09



    Minerva415 write:

    petiteone39 write:

    TheCatsMeow65 write:

    NYCHICK write:
    well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

    anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

    A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!

    Anything that I have done or Lorrie for that matter does not compare to what you people are doing. Go look in the mirror and grow up people. I have been on this site a year and I have never seen anything like this drama. It makes me sick to my stomach to read this crap. Go have some fun with your lives and quit bashing others. What's done is done. You think you are teaching a couple people a lesson? Are you some kind of gods that you think you are doing others a service? You say Lorrie is ruining the forums....look at you guys? Go do yourselves a favor and move on with your lives.



    MOONRAY has asked me to post this message:


    Cats, everything you hear from one and the other is 95% frickin' hearsay, distortion and misinterpretation. But people STILL go on blaming everyone and rehashing and digging out everything again and bashing again... instead of just minding their own frickin' business! Things happened in the past AND SHOULD REMAIN IN THE PAST. Sure tells a lot about how all the members involved can deal with their own past, doesn't it! I am tired of all of this, it's coming out of my ying-yang! PLEASE people MOVE ON!! If you don't LIKE a person, then DON'T post where he/she is posting... it's SIMPLE!

    By the way when I said l*ick a witch I was poking fun of myself since Im a witch lol
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 19:08



    Minerva415 write:

    petiteone39 write:

    TheCatsMeow65 write:

    NYCHICK write:
    well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

    anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

    A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!

    Anything that I have done or Lorrie for that matter does not compare to what you people are doing. Go look in the mirror and grow up people. I have been on this site a year and I have never seen anything like this drama. It makes me sick to my stomach to read this crap. Go have some fun with your lives and quit bashing others. What's done is done. You think you are teaching a couple people a lesson? Are you some kind of gods that you think you are doing others a service? You say Lorrie is ruining the forums....look at you guys? Go do yourselves a favor and move on with your lives.



    MOONRAY has asked me to post this message:


    Cats, everything you hear from one and the other is 95% frickin' hearsay, distortion and misinterpretation. But people STILL go on blaming everyone and rehashing and digging out everything again and bashing again... instead of just minding their own frickin' business! Things happened in the past AND SHOULD REMAIN IN THE PAST. Sure tells a lot about how all the members involved can deal with their own past, doesn't it! I am tired of all of this, it's coming out of my ying-yang! PLEASE people MOVE ON!! If you don't LIKE a person, then DON'T post where he/she is posting... it's SIMPLE!

    Actually Moonray ya know I luv ya dahlin I dunno bout the rehashing...but some of my lil quirks happened the day I came home! But as far as the rest...it just needs to quit! Lets get back to fun...
    Anyone for Barbies?
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 09:27



    realdealru2 write:

    TheCatsMeow65 write:

    realdealru2 write:
    I'm gonna tell my mommy! And my daddy can whip your daddy too........sheesh! lmao

    No my daddy can whip your daddy...he's a cowboy! HAHAHA

    OH...well my daddy be safe then, he is in another place where no one can whoop him.he is in heaven...

    Im just teasin ya Jo...actually my daddy is the smallest biggest teddy bear
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 09:07


    To all~

    (See also other thread)

    The eloquent words vis-a-vis the First Amendment are not mine, I wish I was indeed that eloquent. ALSO I DIDN'T MAKE EITHER OF THESE POSTS SO THAT EVERYONE COULD PUT THE GLOVES ON AND START DUKING IT OUT AGAIN. I merely wanted them to appear so that, for a time, people could read and remember what ruined the forums at present. MM seemed not to want this known, so I took it upon myself to do what I did.

    To anyone to whom my action seemed to be arrogance, anyone who knows me also knows that I would loathe the idea of being that sort of person, and I humbly apologize for any appearance of such on my part.

    ~URock
    (Humble and ugly as ever)
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 08:37



    TheCatsMeow65 write:

    realdealru2 write:
    I'm gonna tell my mommy! And my daddy can whip your daddy too........sheesh! lmao

    No my daddy can whip your daddy...he's a cowboy! HAHAHA

    OH...well my daddy be safe then, he is in another place where no one can whoop him.he is in heaven...
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 08:05



    realdealru2 write:
    I'm gonna tell my mommy! And my daddy can whip your daddy too........sheesh! lmao

    No my daddy can whip your daddy...he's a cowboy! HAHAHA
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 04:26


    I'm gonna tell my mommy! And my daddy can whip your daddy too........sheesh! lmao
  • View author's info posted on Aug 07, 2005 02:22



    NYCHICK write:
    well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

    anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

    A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 19:11


    well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

    anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 18:12


    Get a taste for religion dahlins....Li*ck a witch!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 18:11



    SpeedDallas write:
    You'll gotta admit, that's pretty funny. She is hangin in there. As someone who has been the villian myself, and not caring much one way or the other about this particular drama, why not just leave it alone. The little I know about last, I doubt, unlike me, she enjoys all the ganging up on her. I got a kick out of winding up Mas, and others and watching everyone get fired up over all the stupidity, but I doubt Last does. So do what you want, but..........And another blast from the past, anybody, male or female that doesn't stop, I will get in a plane, come to your town, Monday at 8:00 pm,in full Karate regalia and kick your azz..........

  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 17:57



    LASTONENSTOCK write:

    LOOKATME2 write:
    I believe your best uniform would be a long flowing black dress, black shoes, and a tall black hat with a point on the top..


    ok



    Lorrie you do not have the class of the witch in the Wizard of Oz..You are just a wannabe
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Aug 06, 2005 16:52


    You'll gotta admit, that's pretty funny. She is hangin in there. As someone who has been the villian myself, and not caring much one way or the other about this particular drama, why not just leave it alone. The little I know about last, I doubt, unlike me, she enjoys all the ganging up on her. I got a kick out of winding up Mas, and others and watching everyone get fired up over all the stupidity, but I doubt Last does. So do what you want, but..........And another blast from the past, anybody, male or female that doesn't stop, I will get in a plane, come to your town, Monday at 8:00 pm,in full Karate regalia and kick your azz..........
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 16:22



    LASTONENSTOCK write:

    sharp1 write:

    uglyrockling write:
    *Sigh*

    My previous post in this thread I started was intended to be my last. However I am bound by chivalry and the fact that I kinda like her to post this quote which Suz requested that I pass along. Pardon me for not having time to have my nails done or do up my hair, which is also the wrong color. Just pretend this is Suz making this post.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


    fun4two write:

    A personal email from Lorrie to Suzan ...

    Here's your explanation:

    In a message dated 8/2/2005 2:25:44 PM Central Daylight Time, LASTONENSTOCK writes:

    "Brian e-mailed me first. We are friends. We were talking about the whole situation that involves other people. If you create anything about me, I will have it removed from MM and you as well."

    ***************************************************

    I have been accused of being a troll by Lorrie ... and have all my posts censored at this point. Prior to two days ago, I had never received a complaint on my MM account ... that's not the case with Lorrie. I suppose that if you call the Customer Service line often enough ... and hit the report abuse button often enough ... you too can prevent anyone from being an active member. I have yet to receive any explanation from MM ...

    Enjoy your lives! Smile, laugh and have fun ~ always have FUN!! It's contagious, you know!!

    ~Smiles





    Hmmmm...That sounds like Lorrie.

    Sharp, mind your own business. When Zack and I met Suzan in Tennessee, Suzan laughed and said that she and Mandalay referred to you as "Dumb 1" instead of Sharp 1, and if you don't believe me, you can write Angie or Zack. So don't think you are referred to in a positive way.

    Lord Susan is so darn quiteeeeeeee that doesn't even sound like something she would have said...I say NO WAY!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 15:16


    I believe your best uniform would be a long flowing black dress, black shoes, and a tall black hat with a point on the top..
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2005 09:02


    There are a few things I would like to address in regards to the entire thread being deleted.

    1. Freedom of speech is one of our most highly regarded rights as public speakers. This site and the forums included within this site should be treated as such. The freedom and liberty provided us with that right allow each and every one of us to say what feel, how we feel, what we believe, how we believe; without prejudice. Whether or not we all agree with everyone's opinions or beliefs is an entirely different matter and has no play in this at all. It is shameful when one person goes to such great lengths to convince this service to remove an entire thread. The insecurity with that person shows me she does not believe in our basic right to Free Speech.

    2. The truth hurts. Amazingly it took this long for the truth to come out about certain individuals who thrive on this type of behavior. Insane jealousy is something I've never known nor do I ever want to be a part of. I don't understand jealousy. What triggers that emotion? Is it a deep desire to be the center of the world, or in this case, the center of the MM world? Why? What gives a person the right to tell others who to talk to, who to look out for and who to feel threatened by? Is it because certain individuals WANT to be liked so much they will go to endless boundries to achieve what's in their best interest? I believe that these individuals don't even know what their best interests are. They fly by the seats of their pants, waiting for the "next best thing." The "next best thing" in this case is another person they bring into their web so they can be manipulated like others here have. It's a sick game, a never ending game with the ending being these threads and being publicly exposed. Who would want that?


    3. MM. Because this is a public forum, the moderators of this site should provide a public explanation for the deletion of the thread in question. I think the forum public should know the reason(s) why the moderators believed the sick individual who had it removed instead of a person who never has had a complaint against her prior to this incident. MM owes YOU that much! I believe they need to answer these parts of their "Terms of Service" agreement below publicly.


    A. SuccessfulMatch (period) com has and reserves the right to remove anything that it deems in its sole and absolute discretion and in compliance with relevant laws, does not comply with the terms of use, or is offensive, vulgar, racist, harmful, or otherwise unfit.

    Please tell us what was wrong with the thread in question in regards to paragraph A. (I mean really, have you seen some other threads MM?)

    B. SuccessfulMatch (period) com is not responsible for any misuse of information or material provided. SuccessfulMatch (period) com is not obligated to monitor, verify or review any information provided nor does it monitor transmissions for quality or content. SuccessfulMatch (period) com may monitor the contents in its services but is not obligated to do so.

    If you are not obligated to monitor or verify content, why was the thread deleted?

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    Please explain the conduct that was violated in the thread that was removed.

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