This site is Millionairematch, but as I read through the profiles, money doesn't seem to be all that important to many women. That is commendable, but then this just becomes another ordinary dating site. I joined because I do hope to meet a special woman, who appreciates, that while money cannot buy happiness, it can buy some luxuries and comforts. So, how does a man of some means, meet a woman who prefers men with money. I mean, if I prefer tall or short..Blondeor brunette, or some other preference, I think it would be great if a woman put "wealthy" high up on her list of "want in a man"!!!
I have just joined this site after a long long break from some of the other dating sites. My reason is not for "money" or things. I want to meet a person with some integrity and honesty and proud of knowing he is the real deal. The "traits" necessary to be successful is my interest. After being married for 28 years it has been difficult to understand how many different types of men there are. I had no skills to pick out the players, users, alcoholics, predators and scammers. I have had some horrible encounters. I have also met some men that I am crazy about but they did not like me as much as I liked them. It happens. I have also met some great guys that will be friends for a long time and we are great company. I am not rich but I take care of myself and think I will be ok with or without a permanent lifelong partner....I prefer being with someone who is a great companion. I like the couples world better than the singles world.
Well herein lies the dilema. Seems this is neither fish nor fowl. You will find women that do want a wealthy man but cannot actually say it in case they are labelled gold digger. On the other hand, perhaps they are trying to convey that they are interested in the man and not just his wealth. Seems to be a minefield
Most of the time (not always) there are certain characteristics common in millionaires which are very appealing; communication skills, intelligence, drive, manners, public relations skills, organizational skills, charm, leadership, confidence and logic. Money is not really the issue. However, the characteristics are.
Its usually hard to separate the characteristics and personality traits from the end results. So do I want to meet a millionaire, sure, but only if he has the, traits of a millionaire.
The American women all wants MONEY... woow. Find a nice and sweet and financial stable is better than a millonarie man that will treat you like a negra. so please american women, I admire you grils but be more romantic, more better mom and teach values to your family. This country needs people with values and desire to work hard and be someone in life.- have a people remeber you for your good behaviour and what you have give tho this socitey.
I'm american but also Im hispanic too. Thanks I growth in South America and I have family values.
I am Francoise, a white beautiful woman living in Belgium.I would like to meet man for love and partnership. Please reply to me as soon as possible as I'm waiting a charming millionnaire man. Cheers Francoise
I have been called a nickel digger.. I wt this point want a man with a good job, car , home,and money in the bank!! Million?? who wouldnt want that BUT really at my age I am not supporting a man, Ive worked to hard I will settle for someone whos an asset to my life!
It is never about the "money." I have my own! ;-) What it is about is "your" time, attention, affection and to be heard. It isn't about the gifts, the trips...the "things." It never is. Sure, diamonds and emeralds and trips to exotic places are nice. When I was younger I am pretty sure it was about the "things." ;-) Now, it's about my horses and clients being safe, it's about wanting to pick up the phone and call "him" to tell "him" about Roma winning her first blue ribbon, or my clients winning at a horseshow..it's about being to tell "him" what matters to me, he is supportive of what matters to me whether he cares about a horse or not...he listens. It's about wanting to tell him first. If you listen to the other person, you remember the entire conversation, if you are the one doing the talking, you remember nothing. Those who have alot of millions...something is missing in your life too. Money helps, it does not buy peoples' genuine and true feelings. You cannot buy someones' heart. There is either chemistry or there is not. Of course I would love to have someone in my life who would buy me that fabulous grand prix show jumper...but, I would prefer to "earn" that on my own, otherwise, the goal is met before the journey has begun...and the journey is the best part!
OK RICH OR POOR MAN WHO CARES
HE BETTER BE REAL GOOD WITH EARNING HIS WAY WITH HIS HEART
BE NICE IF HE HAD MONEY
THEN HE CAN SPOIL ME ROTTEN
I LOVE TO HAVE FUN
BULTING HIS LIFE UP
N GIVE HIM MORE LAUGHTERS
N MORE N HUG
N FRIENDLY SMILE
IF HE GOT HIS LIFE ROCKING
THAT FAR OUT
BUT POOR GUYS I BEEN KNOWN TO HAVE TO
TAKE CARE OF THEM
SEEM TO ME THE WORLD SHOULD LOOK AT THE WHOLE
WHAT CAN A WOMAN DO FOR HERSELF
APPEALING IF SHE LEARNING
TO ENJOY HER OWN GIFT
N SIMPLE LIFE NOTHING
MAKE ME HAPPIER IF WE DID GOOD TO OURSELF
PUT HOPE N DREAMS
I POOR BUT GETTING RICH IN MY OWN WAY
WITH OTHERS I SHARE IDEAS AND CARE MORE ABOUT THE WORLD AROUND ME POOR OR RICH
I KNOW BOTH WORLD!
Some women are superficial and will try to form a relationship with a man for money alone. Personally I have never been in a relationship in which a man earns more than me, I have have either been the higher earner or within a 50/50 relationship. I love earning my own money but I'm happy to admit that it would be nice for a man to be a man, be the provider and take care of me. The women may not declare that they wanr a rich man on their profiles but the name of the websire attracted us all for that reason :)
Yes, that is what this site is about, "So the title says, I thought." I think women do want men with money, I know coming from a relationship were things are fifty fifty it would be nice to have someone take care of me. I do like to make my own money, but thats because the way the world is today its mad us women independent. But not saying i would not like a man to take care of me one day.
I think many women are afraid they will seem to averistic if the say "money is important." However, "money may not buy happiness, but it will buy a more interesting level of misery" if misery is what you are into. For me, money alone will not make a relationship but "yes, a weathly, interesting man is what I am looking for and I am not the least bit shy about saying so. So are you wealthy and interesting? boomsu
I look at this way, having someone who completes you in every aspect...leaves very little room for agrument, anger and hate.
So with said, money is money, that we are a slave to, then we die...lifes too short.... but money makes the world go round. If you have it awsome, if you don't, well you need to work harder lol jks,
Every woman wants to feel rescued, thanks to Disney lol...yes money's important, but it depends who pockets it coming from...douches suck regardless...lol
This may be long in the waiting but it my personal belief that though on sites like these where women are supposedly looking for men with money I believe that many, like myself get categorized in the wrong. I believe that thought women do want men that have money but to the extent that occasionally women like to be surprised they want to be gifted and feel like they actually mean something. In the same sense sites like these too often allow women to overlook men like you, men that though they are not handing them everything on a silver platter but provide them the same chance at happiness as anyone else, if not more so. Maybe since there is still a sense of anonymity they should speak out, with honesty and sincerity...i think they would be noticed
Money can buy stuff that makes you happy. ;) That said, I am, I guess, in the majority in that I don't really care about money. In fact, I am just now trying hard to get over a guy who couldn't even afford his own gas to drive 10 miles to my house much less buy a pack of smokes. :-( Yet, I turn over and over at night; that didn't matter at all. This may have to do with the fact that I've never had to 'struggle' myself - which I am not proud of - but I've never wanted that and the reason I am on here is because I thought I'd try a site that makes members pay for the reason that maybe the members are more serious about having serious relationships. I could be 100% wrong; I have yet to find out.
Are money equal intelligence and good manners?
Just asking and wondering... ;-)
I am sure you will find a man, that is beyond that, in the state of feel good with him self or worse, hate him self.
Rich people must have many comforts. But i fear they must be very alone too.
Can you trust anyone? Are the friends real friends or is it the money? Equal kids play best... how can they see the nuances in others life then? Find empathy... Will they know about The poor or ordinary people? Is it the same distance as i have to a wealthy?
Can a good education learn about that?
I am just asking. I dont know.
But i do know that wealth must be a gift or a curse. Its how it will be managed by the wealthy.
But hey.. I seek wealth too. I work as a maniac to find a way to earn money, so i can follow my dream. Fortunately, i have a husband, that like to dream too.
So we make businesses all we can ;-)
But i must agree with you about the picture you made of other dating services.
I found my husband in a chatroom about 8 years ago.
We was a match right away.
He could spell, be funny and say the right thing. We were egual in state and mind.
All the others was just like you descreibe it...
And here is my point...
A wealthy man (or woman)might have to find a equal in state and mind. Maybe not in wealth..
And if looks is the only thing that matters... then its sad. In my opinion.
About MY spelling:
I am danish, but i hope you can understand my meaning in this response. If not, you are welcome to ask!