Julia...this site loses another TERRIFIC person, i hate that.so many good people have came & left on this site empty handed & dishearted.i can only hope that somewhere out there is a great man for u & he see's a wonderful treasure that u are & snatches u up fast~ Good Luck!
Julia i really hate to see you go but as we have now talked i understand better. I still would never leave because of any man. But "that's me"
You have been a great friend and i will miss you terribly. You have my number and can call anytime. But we will keep in touch no matter what. Take care my friend and hopefully you will find someone in your own back yard!!!
Luv ya bunches....
And as you have never thought MAS was real i can assure you without doubt he is very real.Just look in my profile...LOL I can't believe you have always thought that.LMAo
Forgive me if I forgot you....
please pencil yourself on the guest list, you are more than welcome!
Scott can bring more wine if he is nice, because good people offer the olive branch, for give and forget... and move on.
We are going to have a surf party, One magnum is not enough.....
we must have more, so we will have 15 more magnums of dom....We will have a beautiful sunset bright with reds, pinks, oranges, A night to remember.
we all sit in the surf, quietly talking and laughing of the times we have shared, friendships made all over the world. We share the birth of our children, grandchildren, deaths, hopes and dreams. We see the dreams crushed,
only to be resurected into new dreams.
as I read through the threads today,
I was taken by what another had mentioned....so I will borrow something of that from her to share.
It is not the destination that matters
only the journey.....
So my friends come to my party sit in the surf, drink the Dom....view the spectacular sunset with me....I will continue the journey, but lets sit now
and enjoy la dolce vita, the sweet life together....
Life is too short for anything but love.
It is amazing each time it happens that people who care about each other
can hurt each other so deeply.
Anger is the result of unexpressed frustration, positive communication would be the cure.
This is my last post, in a few days Lucky will be just a memory....
You all have made life REAL!
Remember you are all wellcome to stay with me if you come to the west coast!
Contact Dawn, S4U, or Lorrie, Lastone
for a current email....
Thanks, for your laughter and your tears. I will miss the zany hummor,
witty remarks, and scholarly debates.
Everyone here is rich.....with gifts much more precious than gold.
We have spanned the globe and generations as well with friendships never before possible until the internet.
It has become more about relationships between friends, and a little less about the search for a mate....
and little to do with
someone being a "millionaire"
It is about learning to trust and care for people that you can't see, may never see.
I know I am a decidedly richer person.
Don't forget we have a date tonight as the sunsets.
Julia you are a beautiful woman with compassion & wisdom. Sometimes taking a break may be the answer instead of completely throwing in the towel. It's a slow process here, but you do make some friends. And who knows, maybe one day you meet Mr. Right who IS RIGHT for you! As a friend keeps telling me, you can't rush things, it will happen in its own time if it is meant to be.
Time will tell for us all.
Whatever your decision, I wish you well. And I will write you. Cheers!
now I am crying again.
I know, I am such a Wimp, that is why I can't stay, these things are too hard for me, I guess when you are as passionate as I am the sunsets are more vivid....and pain...it cuts deep like a knife. But that is me, it is part of what makes me who I am....
Julia we are quiet friends. I would much rather talk to you on the phone than on here. I never seem to catch you.I think we have had a similar discussion. And i would say to you do not let one man make a decision for you. You are a warm, caring and loving woman with an awesome personality. I think we need a phone call on this one. But we will wait for another day in making decisions. To my good friend of mutual interest. I love you.......
I didn't know you very well but always enjoyed your posts. You are very well liked around here. Don't let someone of little consequence keep you from something you enjoy. I wish you good prana and lots of luck in your search.
After careful considertion
I am cancelling my membership.
Thank you all for sharing a little piece of you your hearts!
A dear friend of mine is here, and I
am leaving him to his search.
most of you who care have my email or phone, but for the rest who may care
it is robertsjoneonefiveatyah**dotcom
Sorry Lucky I don't know u well, but you are one great lady with a fine brain and emotionally secure and stable..having followed your thread esp the 'Secret'..why let one guy whom you label 'friend' disturb you so much, if he is a real friend he should be encouraging you to stay too..
But if you think that will make u happy or keep u sane then do what u must do..but feel free to peek into this site..and amuse yourself..which is what I can't resist and find very addictive...lol
Julia,,that doesnt make sense to me,,sorry but you see, I am quite the opposite of you, that would make me stick around, just so I could win,,lol,
you know what I mean,, i would never leave because my X or whatever was here,,,hint hint!!!!!!!I would have fun just flaunting in his face....and believe me I do!!!!!
Please stick around,, you just come back girl!!!
luckysolucky write: After careful considertion I am cancelling my membership. Thank you all for sharing a little piece of you your hearts! A dear friend of mine is here, and I am leaving him to his search. most of you who care have my email or phone, but for the rest who may care it is robertsjoneonefiveatyah**dotcom
Au revour mon ami!
noooooo, y u do that for? come on stay a little longer...pleeeease i'll miss u...