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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 17:36

I am looking for everyones views on this..What won't you tolerate when you are in a relationship..would it be something that you can work on and fix or would it be something that you would end the relationship over?

I know for me there are three things that I would never tolerate. Cheating, Lying, and Abuse. Now the cheating and abuse I would pick up and leave over..as for the lying it would depend on if it was a "little" white lie or if it was something more serious. Any thoughts?



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Posted on Mon, Jun 06, 2005 21:09

Also...............................

..... a Mama's Boy. No man should ever argue on the side of his mother against his woman.



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Posted on Mon, Jun 06, 2005 21:07

What won't I tolerate in a relationship?

Socks 'n sandals.



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Posted on Sun, Jun 05, 2005 17:45


Mandalay207 write:
Bella Wrote:

Remind folks never to date this kid!!! LOL

Kid?..lol





I generally date much older men!!!



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Posted on Sun, Jun 05, 2005 12:31

I wont tollerate my husband ED Tarboosh, sitting around on the computer any longer!!!!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Jun 05, 2005 10:43

Bella Wrote:

Remind folks never to date this kid!!! LOL

Kid?..lol



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 20:55


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Things I can't tolerate.

1. If you going to use some kind of hairspray, could you please wipe it off the tile flooring? I once slipped on dried hair spray and nailed my head on the vanity. That hurts!

2. Tags on clothes. If you're going to buy them, wear them. Why do they have to hang in the closet with tags still on them? And when you do take them off, can you pick up the little plastic part instead of letting it sit on floor?

3. Cook with a recipe. If you're not sure what goes into beef stir fry, look it up.

4. Agreed, the toilet seat should remain in the "up" position at all times. It takes more energy for us to always lift the seat and put it down again then it does for you just to sit. From what I'm gathering here, you want us to expend our engery in other ways. Toliet seat UP.

5. "Alone Time." Alone time does not mean me, you and the phone in your ear. Whew!

6. Joke telling. If you say, "and um" while telling any type of joke telling or humorous funny story, stop. Once you say "and um" I'm not paying attention to the joke anymore but counting how many times you say "and um."

7. Special Toys which you may have. If you have certain types of vibrating toys, could you please put them away so the dog does not think it's a new special chew toy for him?

Ok folks, that's about all I have.




Remind folks never to date this kid!!! LOL

































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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 20:36


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sharp1 write:



Well Man...thank you for sharing! I'll remember about the toilet seat remaining UP! After all it's important that you guys save your energies for better purposes to serve us! lol



I feel SOO much better...I just went through the house, ripped all the toilet seats off the toilets and threw them in the dumpster...Next, I'm going to put all the toilet paper on backwards...:) (OK- so I have a Few issues...)



Lorrie will appreciate your thoughtfulness...and all the energy you will be conserving ... just for her! :-) Backwards toilet paper is forgiveable considering the more important issue that Mandalay so kindly pointed out to all of us females! How thoughtful of him too! lol

Sharp,
In theory, you are correct. However, the NEXT woman in Zack's life, I am sure, will appreciate his thoughtfulness.



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 19:50


Mandalay207 write:
Six Wrote:

Of the 4 activities, all can be achieved by sitting, and if a man chooses to urinate standing that still leaves 3 out of the 4 in a sitting position. So let majority rule and leave that seat down.

But Six, we live in an era now where the minority always get their way. We win, we win, we win!! Down it is!



Mandalay, Didn't I read something about a conspiracy in Ohio in certain predominantly urban areas to deprive the minority of their morning constitutional rites by removing all the toilet lids thereby eliminating three quarters of the possible forms of elimination...(or was that voting machines...I get so confused)



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 18:46

bad hygiene, being cheap, other women...



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 15:53


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I won't tolerate a slob. He can't slam my drawers and must put things back in the exact order that they were. Actually just don't touch my silverware drawer. All labels must be facing front in the pantry and boxes lined up according to height. Shoes must be taken off and put back. The toilet seat needs to be put back down after each use and I had better not see any pee on the seat. He can use the remote but it better be put away. Dishes go in the dishwasher. If you snore, get an operation. No tooting, picking your nose or but*t allowed. I am a perfectionist...now you guys can see why I am single. Oh, and he must be of proper size and be good at it. I need to get it on demand.



Never tried getting "slammed" with your drawers still on? (Must not wear thongs!)

That is actually funny I didn't catch that when I wrote it. hahahaha



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 15:52

Six Wrote:

Of the 4 activities, all can be achieved by sitting, and if a man chooses to urinate standing that still leaves 3 out of the 4 in a sitting position. So let majority rule and leave that seat down.

But Six, we live in an era now where the minority always get their way. We win, we win, we win!! Down it is!



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 14:24


fun4two write:
I am honest ... to a fault! So, I don't and won't tolerate dishonesty. With good, old-fashioned, honest, non-judgmental communication ~ just about every situation can be dealt with. It may not end up the way you want it to, but at least there's no game-playing on-going.

~Smiles



But, aren't you an attorney? . . .



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 14:19


NYCHICK write:
i would not tolerate a freaking speedo



How about a normal speedo?



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Posted on Sat, Jun 04, 2005 14:17


petiteone39 write:
I won't tolerate a slob. He can't slam my drawers and must put things back in the exact order that they were. Actually just don't touch my silverware drawer. All labels must be facing front in the pantry and boxes lined up according to height. Shoes must be taken off and put back. The toilet seat needs to be put back down after each use and I had better not see any pee on the seat. He can use the remote but it better be put away. Dishes go in the dishwasher. If you snore, get an operation. No tooting, picking your nose or but*t allowed. I am a perfectionist...now you guys can see why I am single. Oh, and he must be of proper size and be good at it. I need to get it on demand.



Never tried getting "slammed" with your drawers still on? (Must not wear thongs!)



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Posted on Fri, Jun 03, 2005 22:12


1LovinLife write:

sharp1 write:



Well Man...thank you for sharing! I'll remember about the toilet seat remaining UP! After all it's important that you guys save your energies for better purposes to serve us! lol



I feel SOO much better...I just went through the house, ripped all the toilet seats off the toilets and threw them in the dumpster...Next, I'm going to put all the toilet paper on backwards...:) (OK- so I have a Few issues...)



Lorrie will appreciate your thoughtfulness...and all the energy you will be conserving ... just for her! :-) Backwards toilet paper is forgiveable considering the more important issue that Mandalay so kindly pointed out to all of us females! How thoughtful of him too! lol



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Posted on Fri, Jun 03, 2005 20:31

What wont I tolerate in a relationship?
Some one who likes to control every thing & have every thing there own way.

  


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Posted on Fri, Jun 03, 2005 19:48


ScrippsRanchMel write:

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LASTONENSTOCK write:

Hi, Zack....how are your knees?



Those carpet burns sure do hurt...:)








Yep, Mel, I agree... all the signs are there... At least some people are getting some, eh Mel??

  


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Posted on Fri, Jun 03, 2005 18:59


fun4two write:

1LovinLife write:

I feel SOO much better...I just went through the house, ripped all the toilet seats off the toilets and threw them in the dumpster...Next, I'm going to put all the toilet paper on backwards...:) (OK- so I have a Few issues...)



I heard ... had drinks with the realtor ... and you're the talk of the town!! You trying NOT to sell that house and move to Florida? What's that about? Better hope a male couple is one of the potential buyers ... LMAO!!



I AM my realtor's worse nightmare...I was going to pull the engine on my Triumph tomorrow and she had the nerve to inform me that I had to leave for half a day while a couple of realtors are showing the house....I guess the greasy garage look is out??



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Posted on Fri, Jun 03, 2005 18:36


Mandalay207 write:
Things I can't tolerate.

1. If you going to use some kind of hairspray, could you please wipe it off the tile flooring? I once slipped on dried hair spray and nailed my head on the vanity. That hurts!

2. Tags on clothes. If you're going to buy them, wear them. Why do they have to hang in the closet with tags still on them? And when you do take them off, can you pick up the little plastic part instead of letting it sit on floor?

3. Cook with a recipe. If you're not sure what goes into beef stir fry, look it up.

4. Agreed, the toilet seat should remain in the "up" position at all times. It takes more energy for us to always lift the seat and put it down again then it does for you just to sit. From what I'm gathering here, you want us to expend our engery in other ways. Toliet seat UP.

5. "Alone Time." Alone time does not mean me, you and the phone in your ear. Whew!

6. Joke telling. If you say, "and um" while telling any type of joke telling or humorous funny story, stop. Once you say "and um" I'm not paying attention to the joke anymore but counting how many times you say "and um."

7. Special Toys which you may have. If you have certain types of vibrating toys, could you please put them away so the dog does not think it's a new special chew toy for him?

Ok folks, that's about all I have.



Mandalay, your points were funny - lol.
Your point 3 though "Cook with a Recipe"... reminds me of when a woman says to a man when he's been driving around for ages and he's still lost: can't find your way sweetie? Ask for DIRECTIONS!

  


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