READY502 write: Was hoping to hear from some of you wonderful men, but to no avail & my post was already on page 3, so here's one more try.
I saw a few postings from females saying the men don't like being persued. I am very straightforward & go after what I want in life, so I thought in this day & age, I'd make the first move.
Maybe it's exactly that, they don't want the woman to initiate first contact?? What's up with that???
Hope to hear a few male opinions on this. It's been a long time since I've been on the dating scene & would sure like to know what not to do.
I don't think there is one answer to your question. Some men like to be pursued and some like the pursuit. Some of us like women who take charge and aren't afraid to tell us what they want and others want someone they can take the lead with. Then there's those of that like a combination of everything. Hey we're just like women sometimes and we're hard to figure out.
If you see someone you like then go for it and send them a message to express that interest. If they don't respond then don't take it personally. You will have a ton of people check out your profile and only a certain percentage actually express interest b/c they may not have liked what they saw once they delved into the detail. Keep your head up and you'll probably make some good connections here ;-)
umm is that your way of telling all us ladies you like to be chased and for us to take charge?. How I love a man who lets me be in charge..now do as I say and not as I do!
WrightWoodPT write: Hey Ready, have you ever heard the old saying, " A man chases a woman until she catches him." ??????
Hence Ready, always get ready to run, and never be caught..that in a nutshell is the art of 'playing hard to get.' Like fishing , men will go on forever talking about the fish they nearly caught..and will go fishing everyday for that slippery fish , challenging him everyday with new tricks and escapades...the art of flirting is to be that imagined slippery fish they dream of catching but never caught..