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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 10:28

Why is it that numerous men look at my profile numerous times yet never initiate contact?

In some cases I've initiated an email that's in direct response to their profile, but never hear back?

Just curious for your male opinions. Thanks.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 19:49

Hey Min:

I think it's the combination we (or at least I) look for. I love to be in the lead and take control but sometimes a woman that is aggressive is very hot!



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 15:29

Many thanks to all those who added comments to my post. I appreciate it & good luck in your search.

Keep well



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 08:39


TheCatsMeow65 write:
You men, you hunt, you conquer, you dump!



women do that too.... both sexes are equally guilty of leading the other one on, playing hard to get, cheating, conquering and dumping.
I think - in general - men like to be in control of the situation and even if they say they like the woman to make the first move etc etc... deep down they prefer to make the first move. It's just an inbred thing that males have. I don't think it's very productive for women to be too forward and aggressive in pursuing men. I think if I were a man that would put me off.
I prefer a bit of subtlety.
Now if only I could put all that to good use myself - lol!!

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 06:32


TheCatsMeow65 write:
You men, you hunt, you conquer, you dump!


Someone's in a grumpy mood.

I could come up with my own quote from my experience. You women, you seduce, you cheat, you take half the assets and most of the children's custody. So there!

The good thing about me is I don't stereotype. I learn from my experience but I won't hold it over the next person's head. Now I know what I will and won't tolerate.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 05:52


TheCatsMeow65 write:
You men, you hunt, you conquer, you dump!



Please retract your claws, we're not all 'that' bad!



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 02:04


champagnepowder write:

READY502 write:
Was hoping to hear from some of you wonderful men, but to no avail & my post was already on page 3, so here's one more try.

I saw a few postings from females saying the men don't like being persued. I am very straightforward & go after what I want in life, so I thought in this day & age, I'd make the first move.

Maybe it's exactly that, they don't want the woman to initiate first contact?? What's up with that???

Hope to hear a few male opinions on this. It's been a long time since I've been on the dating scene & would sure like to know what not to do.



I don't think there is one answer to your question. Some men like to be pursued and some like the pursuit. Some of us like women who take charge and aren't afraid to tell us what they want and others want someone they can take the lead with. Then there's those of that like a combination of everything. Hey we're just like women sometimes and we're hard to figure out.

If you see someone you like then go for it and send them a message to express that interest. If they don't respond then don't take it personally. You will have a ton of people check out your profile and only a certain percentage actually express interest b/c they may not have liked what they saw once they delved into the detail. Keep your head up and you'll probably make some good connections here ;-)



umm is that your way of telling all us ladies you like to be chased and for us to take charge?. How I love a man who lets me be in charge..now do as I say and not as I do!



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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 23:35

You men, you hunt, you conquer, you dump!



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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 22:14

CP, nice to know that a young 30 something man could teach the mature lady a thing or two about men..keep u the good work Agony Hunk...:)

We ladies could sure do with some male aid..

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 22:11


WrightWoodPT write:
Hey Ready, have you ever heard the old saying,
" A man chases a woman until she catches him." ??????

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Hence Ready,
always get ready to run, and never be caught..that in a nutshell is the art of 'playing hard to get.'
Like fishing , men will go on forever talking about the fish they nearly caught..and will go fishing everyday for that slippery fish , challenging him everyday with new tricks and escapades...the art of flirting is to be that imagined slippery fish they dream of catching but never caught..



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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 19:53

Hey Ready, have you ever heard the old saying,
" A man chases a woman until she catches him." ??????



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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 18:11


READY502 write:
Was hoping to hear from some of you wonderful men, but to no avail & my post was already on page 3, so here's one more try.

I saw a few postings from females saying the men don't like being persued. I am very straightforward & go after what I want in life, so I thought in this day & age, I'd make the first move.

Maybe it's exactly that, they don't want the woman to initiate first contact?? What's up with that???

Hope to hear a few male opinions on this. It's been a long time since I've been on the dating scene & would sure like to know what not to do.



I don't think there is one answer to your question. Some men like to be pursued and some like the pursuit. Some of us like women who take charge and aren't afraid to tell us what they want and others want someone they can take the lead with. Then there's those of that like a combination of everything. Hey we're just like women sometimes and we're hard to figure out.

If you see someone you like then go for it and send them a message to express that interest. If they don't respond then don't take it personally. You will have a ton of people check out your profile and only a certain percentage actually express interest b/c they may not have liked what they saw once they delved into the detail. Keep your head up and you'll probably make some good connections here ;-)



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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 16:36

Was hoping to hear from some of you wonderful men, but to no avail & my post was already on page 3, so here's one more try.

I saw a few postings from females saying the men don't like being persued. I am very straightforward & go after what I want in life, so I thought in this day & age, I'd make the first move.

Maybe it's exactly that, they don't want the woman to initiate first contact?? What's up with that???

Hope to hear a few male opinions on this. It's been a long time since I've been on the dating scene & would sure like to know what not to do.



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