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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 00:12

Focus or Net Casting
Mind Blowing SEX for MEN
Can you effectively date more than 1 person? Wait, that's not the subject of this commentary. What's up with that? Read it. May wisdom bring you bliss.
Let's assume for argument's sake that most of us have the objective ultimately of being with a single partner, monogamous and in love. With that in mind, can you really effectively date more than 1 person at a time?
I used to think so. Now I don't. To do so would be just passing time. Until you actually focus on someone, and only on that someone, you very well do not know what it would be like to be permanently partnered with them. Yes, there are exceptions, but they are exceptions.
If you are dating more than one, or dating one while seeking, it says to your partner that you have one foot in and one foot out the door.
Here is the kicker, that few men know. For many and probably most woman, to truly experience what she has to offer, you must have her trust. That means she feels safe with you. Safe like with her father, her older brother, or Steven Seal. Safe that you'll be there for her tomorrow, next week, next month, and that you are not just in a holding pattern with her.
News Clip.
Most women will do ANYTHING to make their partner happy. Sexually, or otherwise.
WHEN?
When they trust him completely and feel safe and secure with him. That means that SHE is the focus of his life, that no other woman could ever penetrate their bond, she is the most important thing in his life, and nothing will take him away, for such is the strength of his love, the solidity of his bond, and the reliability of his character. As safe and trusting as with her own father or brother.
THAT is what a real man IS. THAT is what most woman SEEK.
Give her that trust, bond, focus, safety, reliability, and comfort that a strong and confident man in love would give, and she will give you anything you want. Anything, she is yours.
That's my opinion.

BFDeal

  


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Posted on Thu, May 26, 2005 01:55


petiteone39 write:

Well he is taken...let's share Jake in our dreams...LOL



...well at the end of the day I think I rather "be in the movie that only watch the movie"....LOL...



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Posted on Wed, May 25, 2005 18:54

Give her that trust, bond, focus, safety, reliability, and comfort that a strong and confident man in love would give, and she will give you anything you want. Anything, she is yours.
That's my opinion


yes that is a wonderful statement-- however hmm nope not me still to shallow for all that--



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Posted on Tue, May 24, 2005 08:32


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D0mino_Gabriella write:

petiteone39 write:
Wow, you are a traitor Gab. I thought if you were a man, we would be married???? Ya I know Butter is pretty hot...:)


no,no Petite... what I share with U i couldn't share with anybody else...LOL... well maybe with MAS...LOL...

Well he is taken...let's share Jake in our dreams...LOL


Ok.... I like the "blond version" of Mas....LOL



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Posted on Tue, May 24, 2005 08:03


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petiteone39 write:
Wow, you are a traitor Gab. I thought if you were a man, we would be married???? Ya I know Butter is pretty hot...:)


no,no Petite... what I share with U i couldn't share with anybody else...LOL... well maybe with MAS...LOL...

Well he is taken...let's share Jake in our dreams...LOL



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Posted on Tue, May 24, 2005 03:20


petiteone39 write:
Wow, you are a traitor Gab. I thought if you were a man, we would be married???? Ya I know Butter is pretty hot...:)


no,no Petite... what I share with U i couldn't share with anybody else...LOL... well maybe with MAS...LOL...



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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 21:39

OMG...I couldn't remember what thread I posted that on. I meant to come back and say

"Just kidding...couldn't resist Dom, cause you left it wide open!"

  


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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 21:11

omg.... NO!!!!!!!!!
errr...well maybe they are..lol..

  


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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 21:05


D0mino_Gabriella write:
yeah....u r right...let's do it in private....LOL.... next posting is going to ask us if we r lesbians.....LOL...



Are you ladies lesbians?

  


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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 17:29


D0mino_Gabriella write:
yeah....u r right...let's do it in private....LOL.... next posting is going to ask us if we r lesbians.....LOL...

Wow, you are a traitor Gab. I thought if you were a man, we would be married???? Ya I know Butter is pretty hot...:)



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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 17:27

HAHAHAHAAH...LMAO..
you are too funny girly..hehe,,haha



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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 07:44

yeah....u r right...let's do it in private....LOL.... next posting is going to ask us if we r lesbians.....LOL...



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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 06:38

Gabb,, now,, if I get into all that on here,, I might be accuse of being a bad girl!!! Cant have that, been through it enough on these boards..

  


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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 03:50


butterflynjax write:
"Mind Blowing Sex".... nothing like it!!!!


oh Butter, please tell me how is it.....is such a looooooong time i didnt have any....i forgot....LOL



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Posted on Sun, May 22, 2005 11:49

"Mind Blowing Sex".... nothing like it!!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 12:46

BFD as i always enjoy reading what you say there are time i do not always agree. Not often but some. I have to say that on this you have said it to a tee without anything need in addition. That was quite frankly one of the best opinions you have ever written...S4U



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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 09:29

VERY well said BF! You hit the nail on the head.



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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 05:22

Give her that trust, bond, focus, safety, reliability, and comfort that a strong and confident man in love would give, and she will give you anything you want. Anything, she is yours

This statement is very powerful. It is the one thing almost every women wants and like you said, the man she is in love will get EVERYTHING in return. Excellent writings on this subject BF.



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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 04:59

Great piece of writing, BF



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Posted on Mon, May 16, 2005 02:57


BFDeal write:
"...THAT is what a real man IS. THAT is what most woman SEEK.
Give her that trust, bond, focus, safety, reliability, and comfort that a strong and confident man in love would give, and she will give you anything you want. Anything, she is yours.
That's my opinion."
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I agree with u, so what do u propose?....LOL...I am here all ears...



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