crabtrap write: no problem ed are you sure that you will try to kick your habbit just joking ed, ha ha ha well how do you know about steve? are you sure he does bad things to women: sharp any body can get back in all they have to do is re join, thats it.
Yes, I'm sure Steve is very bad Bobby. If you carefully read the Attractive thread, even tho Steve removed many of his bad posts, you should figure it out. I have also read mean ands dangerous letters he wrote to some women here.
If you don't believe me, ask some women you trust here like Mary (Butterflynjax). Maybe you should do it by email since some of them are scared of Steve and don't want to get in another fight with him.
I'll keep working on my crack addiction Bobby if you promise to work on your crabs problem. OK? Ha Ha Ha Ha!
Bobby, I really think that Andy,(ed) is trying to be nice to you, and help you. He and Orion were really not fighting, sorta, but they were having a strong discussion, about a very debatable topic. I dont understand even what they were talking about. except it was about God, anyways, the point is we are just tryiong to say, like me and you get along well, you can do that with everyon else too, right Bobby??
crabtrap write: well ed what about the fights you have with steve and orion? stay off the crack ed you will be all right pal . ha ha ha
Bobby...this is about you. Ed is not on crack. People are willing to give you a second chance and be nice to you. You have two choices. 1) Take the second chance people are willing to give you and be nice to all ... 2) Continue to be abusive, and you will continue to be reported and thrown off the forums.
People do not like being talked to rudely.
Either you do not understand the truce and friendship being offered to you, or you don't care and don't want them to be nice to you.
And maybe someone is just playing head games with all of us on these forums?
The choice is yours how you want to be treated on these forums.
sharp1 write: Andy, I like what you wrote, but I think it is too much information to be digested. I think once the word "mean" came into the picture, the focus stayed there, and the rest may have been lost. Keep it clear & concise. Small bits of info at a time. Make sense?
You're right. When I see several points I see need to be made I try to spit it all out because I'm impatient and don't want to wait. But I should.
I posted some more advice in Personality Disorders in response to you. Feel free to copy and quote it here in your reply. I think we probably want to move you out of that thread to make you look better. OK?
crabtrap write: ed iam sure you know what that means his way or the high way, these people werre wrong fully attacking me and idone it back to them i letted it go. one said quote: when are you going to get away from your father and his business partners life's and live your own,
Bobby, yes they were wrong to attack you, and you only attacked back when they did it to you. You let it go once, can you let it go again, and start new with everyone? I think this time it might go much better for you. Would you like to try? But in order to try, you have to start all over again by being nice to everyone, and they will also be nice back to you. What do you think?
Andy, I like what you wrote, but I think it is too much information to be digested. I think once the word "mean" came into the picture, the focus stayed there, and the rest may have been lost. Keep it clear & concise. Small bits of info at a time. Make sense?
Bobby...I'm glad you're here. What Ed is trying to say is let's start again and pretend the past never happened. From this day forward you are a nice person we are all just getting to know, and we do like you. No one will say anything mean to you. And because they are not saying anything mean to you, then you won't have to say anything mean back to them. Does this sound like a good idea to you?
Great advise Andy, i think you are right, Bobby seems to have gotten off on a wrong foot.
Like I always say Bobby, be nice,,ok??And people will be nice to you too. You have always been nice to me, so I know that you know how to..take care and have fun, you can do that without being mean, right?
Bobby, I'm writing you a completely honest post here. I admit I've teased and made fun of you before. But after reading what Moonray wrote in personality disorders I thought she might be right. Maybe you do deserve a second chance. When you originally showed up on this site you said some things that I and others found ignorant and offensive. Some also thought you were a fake at first. We all immediately jumped on you for it. You also joined this site at a time when tempers were really flaring from some nasty people and fakes who abused these forums.
Bobby, maybe you didn't mean to offend anyone, at least not until you thought they tried to hurt you first. But maybe you can understand how you might have offended some people here and how that ended up hurting you. That first impression and some of the stuff that happened since between you and others created a difficult first impression for you to overcome. Do you understand?
Maybe you can see that your world is a lot different than the one the rest of us understand. I would probably be pretty out of place where you live and I'd look silly and I think you are a bit out of place here. That doesn't mean we can't get along with each other. It just means we have to work extra hard to try to understand each other. I am willing to try that if you will. I guess the first thing you want to learn is that when someone asks you to stop doing something they find offensive, you should stop right away. After you've been here awhile and everyone knows you don't mean any harm, they will let you get away with a little joking and teasing. But it?s too early for you to get that familiar yet. Am I making sense to you?
Bobby, if we can all learn to get along together perhaps we can all enjoy each other's company here in these forums. If you're here because you enjoy the forums and are willing to play by the rules, then I have no problem with you. That said, if your main reason here is to find a date or soulmate I think you're wasting your time. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings by saying this. I just doubt there are many women here that would be compatible with you that you would also like. There just aren't that many backgrounds here similar to the one you come from. Read the profiles of many women using a search and see for yourself. That's my honest opinion. But it's a free country and you're free to do what you want to.
Bobby, as long as I can see you're making an effort to be a good neighbor on these forums I won't tease you anymore. And if you need advice or want me to answer a question of yours honestly I will do it. I suggest you start fresh by stop worrying who was trying to hurt you, report you, or use your pics. Let go of that and just treat people nice. After awhile people will come around - even Mr Look. Is that fair enough?