A Meeting Place Romance

  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 26, 2005 at 03:07 PM


    If two people decide to meet that don't live in the same state, is it best for one to fly/drive to the others location, or both meet some place that is new to both?,..Any comments?
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  • View author's info Posted on Jun 02, 2005 at 04:49 AM


    That's right honey! Pack your bags and head out,lol. I'll take you to Kentucky where we can sit by the river or go for a 4-wheeler ride.
  • View author's info Posted on Jun 01, 2005 at 07:18 PM


    D0mino_Gabriella,Hun Thats an Invite..Get Packed and Move it Girl....Smiles
  • View author's info Posted on May 31, 2005 at 07:49 PM



    D0mino_Gabriella write:
    ...OK...LOL...let's make Luxembourg's airport the best meeting place for a start! ...LOL... all the gorgeous guys on here and the nice girls are invited...Welcome u all...LOL



    Why don't ya just go ahead and fly on in to Nashville,Tn. and I'll show ya 'round the country! lol.
  • View author's info Posted on May 09, 2005 at 07:27 AM


    Oh Minerva, YOu are kind and sweet..I don't think I entice them at all, in fact I antagonise them more like it..lol ..suspect they all like bossy women ..well, a couple of them are more interested in me from a business point of view, so we talk business and of course free legal/business advice is always a good freebie for these business types , so we share alot of info that way an also learn to trust each other when we realise we talk the same lingo..one guy wanted to find out about the lawyers he engaged in his case, another wanted to know rental prices of prime London property, another wants to know what area of business is good in shanghai and Asia.....looks like I am running a sort of business info center more like it...lol..maybe should start charging my professional fees..
    I found in the end I get more business info from all these profesional guys, from real estate esp over the breadth and length of US... NY stock market to Palo Alto Venture capital deals..now that is valuable information I gather for a matchmaking site...lol..and I have met several multi-millionaires from this site..so Domino , where have you been looking, they are all here..!
  • View author's info Posted on May 09, 2005 at 01:54 AM


    I can understand London I guess. Just about every businessman flies in and out of London!
    Bonnie - you entice these nice, intelligent men with your wit, charm and intellect. Afterwards, the looks are the cherry on the icing.
  • View author's info Posted on May 08, 2005 at 01:45 AM


    For some strange reason I get a lot of guys , ( even lost count of the number of guys )who want to meet me here in London ..guess it is a convenient work and pleasure center as well... and I am not even a paid member nor have I posted my pic in my profile..
    I did meet one and we have remain very good friends and he visits whenever he is here for business. I think there are lots of genuine guys around , it is just sussing out the real from the fake..and chemistry is almost a natural instinct I find..
  • View author's info Posted on May 07, 2005 at 05:32 PM


    Sounds good to me - lol... it's practical too - my office is right across from the airport... I can see the planes landing and taking off.
    Wish I was in one of the taking off ones to the States!!
  • View author's info Posted on May 07, 2005 at 03:57 PM


    ...OK...LOL...let's make Luxembourg's airport the best meeting place for a start! ...LOL... all the gorgeous guys on here and the nice girls are invited...Welcome u all...LOL
  • View author's info Posted on May 06, 2005 at 12:37 PM



    wellab613 write:
    Minerva -- how could one not have a great time in Paris!!!! Love that city. Would go there several times a year for many, many years but have not been able to get back since I retired in 2000 so I'm long overdue.



    oh but Wellababe! I had a GREAT time in Paris - even without my red-haired pal... sorry Domino.... :-( lol...
    I used to spend almost every Christmas and Easter there with my parents a long time ago... but been there on my own too a few times. I have only wonderful memories... But never been there with Domino!! I'm sure that would be an unforgettable experience! (Every experience with Dom is unforgettable..!)
  • View author's info Posted on May 06, 2005 at 06:57 AM



    wellab613 write:
    Minerva -- how could one not have a great time in Paris!!!!


    ...she didn't have fun because her red headed friend was not with her....LOL...
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2005 at 11:02 PM


    Bobby -- I don't doubt what you say for one minute. How far is Lafayette from you?
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2005 at 05:34 PM


    Minerva -- how could one not have a great time in Paris!!!! Love that city. Would go there several times a year for many, many years but have not been able to get back since I retired in 2000 so I'm long overdue.
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2005 at 05:30 PM


    Domino--Bobby is a Cajun. They speak a mixture of English, French, and their own slang, and many of them only speak "Cajun" so some cannot speak fluently in either English or French. The only part of the world you will find their language is in Louisiana in the Bayous. I think you would have to go there and experience it to understand. As a result what he is typing is somewhat difficult to understand at times and his sense of humor may not come off as well as he intends.
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2005 at 12:01 PM


    I once travelled to Paris to meet with someone several years ago. I went by train. Stayed at his place - he had the guest room ready and was a real gentleman the whole time. In the beginning I could sense that he fancied me but I didn't and so he didn't pursue the matter but we ended up having a great time together. He was attractive but just not for me - not my type, no chemistry! There was one strange thing though: he had pictures of his ex-girlfriend all over his apartment and she had just been to visit him a few months before for 3 weeks all the way from Canada... hmmm.... makes one think. He was still hung up on her obviously. Wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway.
    Another time, I flew across the ocean and across part of the States to meet someone! Very nice, handsome guy - just like his pics - and we got along very well but.... it just didn't click the way it should have from his side so nothing happened! We were like good buddies. I fancied him but it takes two to tango....
    For some reason I have always felt more comfortable travelling myself to meet someone. I know I probably took a chance when I accepted being a guest at these two men's homes but my gut instinct told me it was OK and I was right. They both turned out to be very nice and polite etc... and made sure I felt comfortable and was having a good time. I must admit I never get too paranoid about the safety issue but having read HM's story... wow, that's a bit freaky alright!
    I think the ideal thing would be to meet someone halfway - that way you are both on neutral territory.
    But I live so friggin' far away if I want to meet someone in the US and we say we meet halfway - that's somewhere over the Atlantic ocean.... hahahaha
  • View author's info Posted on May 05, 2005 at 09:37 AM


    BB4 is it me or your "humor" is not so evident?... Must be me, with my poor english, but i really don't understand u.... no matter with thrend i read..
  • View author's info Posted on May 04, 2005 at 04:05 PM


    I had great success once, inviting a guy from the coast to come to Ottawa to visit me. We hit it off really well. I made the reservations for his hotel and at restaurants I thought he might enjoy. I showed him a bit of our lovely city. It was no-stress and delightful!
  • View author's info Posted on May 04, 2005 at 08:13 AM


    ...hi everybody...the place for me is not essential...is the person that matter...At present i wish i had to look forward to meet someone but is not the case....
  • View author's info Posted on May 02, 2005 at 10:28 AM



    LOOKATME2 write:
    Mel, money is not a problem,. what I am thinking is when two people are out of thier natural atmosphere they might react more positive to each other. Being that the weights are equal on both sides of the scale. Playing in someones elses home court is much different than meeting half-way so to speak.



    LOOK ... I have to agree with you. I met a fellow a few yrs ago while visiting friends in Ft Lauderdale. I ended up extending my stay so we could get to know each other better. We kept in contact via phone & emails daily. I flew back 3 or 4 wks later and we spent 10 days at Grayton Beach Resort in FL. It was a fantastic time, and spending that length of time together 24/10 gave us an idea of each other's personality, therefore, compatibility. We never got bored with each other, or lacked for conversation. It didn't work out, but not for lack of compatibility. When it's long distance, you really need more than just a weekend to determine if you really like each other.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 30, 2005 at 04:38 PM


    singlelatinpapi writes:
    My opinio is meeting half the way where both can explore new things,places, memories, etc.
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    I agree. I did that on a date once. We lived 3 hours from each other. We both met around 1 1/2 hours from each other. It was a very nice date. I have a great memory from it.
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