A good man is also hard to find Message Board

  • View author's info Author posted on Apr 25, 2005 07:35


    I have been on several single sites, and have had many responds. Most of the men are only seeking sex. Is there anyone out there that wants to know the person first? I am not into a dangerous lifestyle, and am truly seeking a wonderful romance. Not saying I do not like, but, I want to know someone abit first. I am writing not to be a challenge, but to find true happiness, and love. Can that be you?
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  • View author's info posted on May 14, 2005 23:57


    perhaps the answer to finding a good woman is to look down south (down under australia) hint hint
  • View author's info posted on May 14, 2005 23:55


    marry me (Just joking, well maybe I'm not??) Can't swim that far, can u? Would like to chat though..karen
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2005 10:42


    That was a very cute comment guy, just had to let you know.
  • View author's info posted on May 02, 2005 17:52


    Yes!! I agree!!! There are a lot of men on datingsites that just looking for sex!!! And it
    s not so nice or doesn?t feels so serious to get that question at a first contact!!! But what are a good man then?? There are many answers on that question!!!!! But many men are nearly trying too hard to impress on us women!! Its not neccesary!!!
  • View author's info posted on May 02, 2005 17:52


    Yes!! I agree!!! There are a lot of men on datingsites that just looking for sex!!! And it
    s not so nice or doesn?t feels so serious to get that question at a first contact!!! But what are a good man then?? There are many answers on that question!!!!! But many men are nearly trying too hard to impress on us women!! Its not neccerary!!!
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2005 04:40


    I just want to be spoiled. Why is it that if a man wants to be spoiled he's labeled as some sort of Gigalo, but if a woman ask for the same thing than she's considered justified in some way. I spent the last 17 years of my life spoiling and treating the woman I was with at the time, like a QUEEN, Anything and everything, specially the last realationship before this one, where I finally through in the towel and proposed, got engaged, bought a hugh perfect ring, a truck, furnished her house, and wardrobe, (we decided to live apart, for 6 months, so not to "Fornicate") and guess what happens... She cheats, get pregnut by this guy she's known for 2 months, and RUINS it ALL... I Just Want To Be Spoiled, Just once, be on the recieving end. Is There any hope for me? Are there any women out there not only willing, but financially able to reverse the role? Do you have any idea how happy I would be?! And what I would end up doing for her, in the end.... If you're out there or have an opinion,(LADIES please) ....
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2005 03:21



    angelpassion write:
    I understand what you mean. I am looking for better than I have had, in the past. Let me clarify, to the men, I don't mean as in being a gold digger. I spent 10 years, 8 of them, in a marriage with a man wasn't stable in the job force. Much of the time we were together he went from one job to another. He also was laid off a good amount of time too. It was hard to live that way.


    this was my situation as well. after the house was purchased he KNEW i wasn't going to let it be forclosed on, so he decided to work sporadically when i complained that my 3 jobs i worked at the time weren't going to keep us afloat. he also had the effective threatening technique which mentally forced me to keep him around("gonna burn the house down while you're sleeping if you throw me out"). well that technipue wore off needless to say, told him i had enough...so much that i told him if he followed through with his threat at least i'd go down with the house i was solely paying for no thanks to him. well that was 3 1/2 years ago and i'm FINALLY caught up on my financial situation but there's no room for the finer life. and THIS is why i will no longer date an average joe. being stuck in the same situation from the past. no offense to the average working class man but thanks to a complete speedbump on the highway of life, i'm more picky with this whole thing anymore.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 26, 2005 17:49


    now i KNOW they're out there! just not in my hemisphere!!!....LOL

    eh, i'd rather be dateless than continue the "bottom feeder" streak i once was accustomed to!
  • View author's info posted on Apr 26, 2005 17:46


    Perhaps the answer to finding a good man is to look up north....like Canada (hint, hint)
  • View author's info posted on Apr 25, 2005 16:52


    I can honestly say Shreca that I woud not even consider having sex with someone until I felt that I knew them very well.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 25, 2005 16:48


    Sounds like a very nice weekend Minerva. It beats my sunless weekend of rain and gloom here in NH, USA.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 25, 2005 10:26


    Minerva!!!!! What kind of week-end did you spend??? hahahahaha
  • View author's info posted on Apr 25, 2005 07:58


    I can agree with that. Its so hard to find a nice, decent man around the world.
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