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A good man is also hard to find
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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 07:35

I have been on several single sites, and have had many responds. Most of the men are only seeking sex. Is there anyone out there that wants to know the person first? I am not into a dangerous lifestyle, and am truly seeking a wonderful romance. Not saying I do not like, but, I want to know someone abit first. I am writing not to be a challenge, but to find true happiness, and love. Can that be you?



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Posted on Sat, May 14, 2005 23:57

perhaps the answer to finding a good woman is to look down south (down under australia) hint hint



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Posted on Sat, May 14, 2005 23:55

marry me (Just joking, well maybe I'm not??) Can't swim that far, can u? Would like to chat though..karen

  


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Posted on Sun, May 08, 2005 10:42

That was a very cute comment guy, just had to let you know.



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Posted on Mon, May 02, 2005 17:52

Yes!! I agree!!! There are a lot of men on datingsites that just looking for sex!!! And it
s not so nice or doesn?t feels so serious to get that question at a first contact!!! But what are a good man then?? There are many answers on that question!!!!! But many men are nearly trying too hard to impress on us women!! Its not neccesary!!!



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Posted on Mon, May 02, 2005 17:52

Yes!! I agree!!! There are a lot of men on datingsites that just looking for sex!!! And it
s not so nice or doesn?t feels so serious to get that question at a first contact!!! But what are a good man then?? There are many answers on that question!!!!! But many men are nearly trying too hard to impress on us women!! Its not neccerary!!!



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 17:00

i_llmakeulaff,
If you want to be spoiled then thats what you should look for. I have never been spoiled, and I am not looking to be spoiled. I just want to be loved by a good stable man. And have a stable home life, as in not moving, what seems like, all the time. I don't want to live like I use to. Never knowing, if my ex was gonna keep his job or be laid off. I wish you good luck on your search. :) Take care and be safe.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 04:40

I just want to be spoiled. Why is it that if a man wants to be spoiled he's labeled as some sort of Gigalo, but if a woman ask for the same thing than she's considered justified in some way. I spent the last 17 years of my life spoiling and treating the woman I was with at the time, like a QUEEN, Anything and everything, specially the last realationship before this one, where I finally through in the towel and proposed, got engaged, bought a hugh perfect ring, a truck, furnished her house, and wardrobe, (we decided to live apart, for 6 months, so not to "Fornicate") and guess what happens... She cheats, get pregnut by this guy she's known for 2 months, and RUINS it ALL... I Just Want To Be Spoiled, Just once, be on the recieving end. Is There any hope for me? Are there any women out there not only willing, but financially able to reverse the role? Do you have any idea how happy I would be?! And what I would end up doing for her, in the end.... If you're out there or have an opinion,(LADIES please) ....



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 03:21


angelpassion write:
I understand what you mean. I am looking for better than I have had, in the past. Let me clarify, to the men, I don't mean as in being a gold digger. I spent 10 years, 8 of them, in a marriage with a man wasn't stable in the job force. Much of the time we were together he went from one job to another. He also was laid off a good amount of time too. It was hard to live that way.


this was my situation as well. after the house was purchased he KNEW i wasn't going to let it be forclosed on, so he decided to work sporadically when i complained that my 3 jobs i worked at the time weren't going to keep us afloat. he also had the effective threatening technique which mentally forced me to keep him around("gonna burn the house down while you're sleeping if you throw me out"). well that technipue wore off needless to say, told him i had enough...so much that i told him if he followed through with his threat at least i'd go down with the house i was solely paying for no thanks to him. well that was 3 1/2 years ago and i'm FINALLY caught up on my financial situation but there's no room for the finer life. and THIS is why i will no longer date an average joe. being stuck in the same situation from the past. no offense to the average working class man but thanks to a complete speedbump on the highway of life, i'm more picky with this whole thing anymore.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 23:37

Ladies, I didn't exclude you on purpose! You are lovely lasses too! I'm just making a special effort to stay within the subject of the thread....

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 23:36

Hi everyone.. .and welcome to the Club, OneBigBoss.
DScoular; if it's any consolation it has been grim and raining for the past few days in Luxembourg!
A good man is hard to find - yes, in my area!! There are some very nice guys on this forum though!

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 18:17

I understand what you mean. I am looking for better than I have had, in the past. Let me clarify, to the men, I don't mean as in being a gold digger. I spent 10 years, 8 of them, in a marriage with a man wasn't stable in the job force. Much of the time we were together he went from one job to another. He also was laid off a good amount of time too. It was hard to live that way. I ended up going through most of my personal savings to keep us afloat and since we have been separated/divorced for the past 6 years. It is the same. He has been laid off the majority of it. I am working two jobs. Our kids live with me. And I get mostly no support money. So I would like to find a man who is stable work wise. I just want stability in my life for once.



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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 17:49

now i KNOW they're out there! just not in my hemisphere!!!....LOL

eh, i'd rather be dateless than continue the "bottom feeder" streak i once was accustomed to!



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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 17:46

Perhaps the answer to finding a good man is to look up north....like Canada (hint, hint)

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 26, 2005 17:40

shreca41,
Very well said. I am also looking for that. I am not finding it, too well. I do hope your finding some good guys to chat with. Good luck.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 16:52

I can honestly say Shreca that I woud not even consider having sex with someone until I felt that I knew them very well.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 16:48

Sounds like a very nice weekend Minerva. It beats my sunless weekend of rain and gloom here in NH, USA.



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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 11:55

ROFL.... I WISH!!!
My weekend was quite innocent really (even if I was in Amsterdam where anything goes....) Just visited with friends and their kids, did a bit of shopping, walked around a bit, had a nice English breakfast outside in the sunshine on Sat morning with a friend. Bought some tulips... and some cheese...as one does when in Amsterdam!!
One of my bosses wants me to bring him back some marijuana next time!! Not sure if he was joking or not.... ;-)



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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 10:26

Minerva!!!!! What kind of week-end did you spend??? hahahahaha

  


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Posted on Mon, Apr 25, 2005 09:32

I prefer this variation on the original title of this thread:
a hard man is good to find...

oops! did I say that???
OMG....

  


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