Where are the men who appreciate old fashioned women? Message Board Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 19, 2005 at 12:40 PM

    Hello everyone. It's nice to have this site. But I'm a little disappointed...where are the men who appreciate old-fashioned women? I mean, I'm from the old school of dating where the man made the first move when he encountered a woman who really caught his attention. He approached her, said something nice to her and asked her for her number. He called soon after and asked her for a date...not at the last minute, but days ahead of time, to give her time to prepare, so she could show up at her very best. What's with this "spontaneous" stuff? Women are expected to throw a bunch of loungerie into an overnight bag, and run off with a total stranger for a whirlwind sex trist, without the man even caring what her last name is! This new-age dating is not for me! As a lady, I think we that want to attract stable, secure, mature, family oriented men who value the company of a classy, sophisticated woman should just sit back, relax, and let the man do the choosing. Ultimately, ladies, all men know what they want, and they know what they are and are not willing to do to get it. The majority of singles out there do not want a lasting experience, they just want "right now, today, tonight, and lots of care-free sex". That's ok, too, to each his/her own. But there are some of us women who do not sleep around, who believe in being loyal and faithful to one special guy, and who will not sacrifice our dignity and self respect trying to "find Mr. Right"...No...I say, let "Mr. Right" sit down, notice my picture, read my profile, decide that I take his breath away, and that he has to have me over every other woman in the world, write me a sincere, interesting email, (none of this one-click wink stuff, I mean how does that tell me I stood out to you from all the other women on this site?) Then ask me out on a real date where he pays, and treats me like the most interesting, provocative woman he has ever met, and of course he calls me afterward ...
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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 11, 2012 at 07:48 PM

    Unfortunately most of the men on this site are not looking for Old Fashion Women. I myself believe that I am old fashion, so I understand.
    Even the older men are not looking for old fashion women. Wealth is so commercialized in so many ways. Men want what the media says is hot and sexy and usually that is not a old fashion woman. So what I am trying to say is that young, hot, sexy, petite, fake boobs,
    blond or not, is what men want because thats what the media indicates is part of a luxurious lifestyle ( cars, homes, money , young women, booze). And most of the young girls are not asking for commitment, the men give them gifts, they give the men something, young women usually accept whatever men offier and that is unfortunate.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2005 at 04:39 PM

    I hear ya Beach....I think there is some really nice guys out there looking for a Good Woman that not in a hurry,Just taken it slow..Looking to find that right woman to say....Hey I like your Style...And then he will ask you for that number..
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2005 at 07:18 AM

    Well i'm an old fashioned kind of guy.
    Believes in chivalry, courtesy, treating a lady the way a lady should be treated.
    I go out of my way to be funny, witty, charming, polite, basicaly a great companion.
    You can only get out what you put in, I never take for granted.
    I know from the many friends I have made on this site that my , dare i say it,Brit Charm is much appreciated.
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 21, 2005 at 06:21 AM

    Here, Here, B-Dreams.

    Here, Here!
  • View author's info Posted on Apr 19, 2005 at 09:02 PM

    I enjoyed your post. I haven't met many classy people lately. Frankly, it is beginning to cause me some discouragement. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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