What's magic number? Message Board

  • View author's info Photo Verified Author posted on Apr 16, 2005 08:06


    Ok ladies. I have seen in many profiles on different dating sites words to the effect ?If you have baggage, don?t bother me.?

    So, here are the questions.

    After a man is divorced, what is the magic number before you will consider going out with him?

    After a man is divorced, what is the magic number before you will consider getting serious with him?

    If he is not a paying member, do you send him a message that includes a way to contact you?

    If he is a really great guy, would you lend him moral support to deal with the ex-wife and all the problems involved?
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  • View author's info Photo Verified posted on Apr 30, 2006 16:41


    Wow, I can't believe it's been over a year since I posted the original message here. Thanks to all for the great responses. I have relocated and have a good job that is very rewarding.

    I still find quite a few women that are very fickle in what they consider acceptable baggage. Oh well, their loss.

    I am honing my body at the gym so that when that right woman comes along, she gets not only a very nice guy, but also one with a fit body. The muscles are sore but the body is willing.

    I may get a new picture posted sometime soon.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 21, 2006 18:32


    reb413 write:
    Ok ladies. I have seen in many profiles on different dating sites words to the effect ?If you have baggage, don?t bother me.?

    So, here are the questions.

    After a man is divorced, what is the magic number before you will consider going out with him?

    After a man is divorced, what is the magic number before you will consider getting serious with him?

    If he is not a paying member, do you send him a message that includes a way to contact you?

    If he is a really great guy, would you lend him moral support to deal with the ex-wife and all the problems involved?

  • View author's info posted on May 20, 2005 05:26


    HI guys,
    The Cupid assistant is back , wrote a long message here but because it contains foreign words which are considered inappropriate here, Im under surveillance..lol will try again later..Bulgaira was hard work ut fun,sorry had no time to check on this site.. Bulgarian currency is Lever exchange rate $1= BL 1.50...yes, Cupid did hit some arrows at me , even had English tenor proposing to me at the corridors of the backstage to Bulgarian theatre...lol
  • View author's info posted on May 10, 2005 00:20


    hey CUB, you listening to my sales pitch about Minerva...Luxembourg is a great place to visit...
  • View author's info posted on May 09, 2005 07:40


    [. Or maybe I'm just not anybody's type... lol... (I wouldn't want to be presumptuous!!)
    ________________________________
    MIn, stop being so negative..you are a lovely lady who could cook up a storm as well..best way to a man's heart..and a vivacious lady with such a lot of oomph..exotic and multi-lingual..have u tried UK match sites? They are nearer and they love voluptuous women with European flavors...also I think not many Americans go to Europe that much for business..so it is a more isolated market compared to London..
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2005 23:28


    Minerva,
    Maybe there's hope for us yet...I have met 2 nice men online and perhaps will meet them both in person soon. They seem like gentlemen, but I'll keep you posted. I agree that I probably won't meet anyone here, which is why I didn't renew, but I'm always hopeful --- well, ya'll it's late in SoKali so I'll say goodnight...5:30 comes early!
    Hugs,
    Annie
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2005 16:11


    Minerva,
    You are welcome to come visit me in London anytime..should be fun...lol
    Never been to Luxembourg but will certainly bear that in mind now that I have someone I know there...this is becoming a sort of penpal column..lol
    You are right about meeting ones soulmate here..I m here mainly to chat and see what people of the same age and marital status are looking for around the world..hence never bothered to be a paying member..yet I still get male mail and actually met someone and have remain great friends..I guess i have been v. lucky ..or it is just London that is an attractive draw..
  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2005 01:26


    Minerva,

    I think there is always hope for everyone in the romance department ..I hear so many uplifting stories everyday..just found out another friend at 50 is finally getting married after several failed serious relationships...not just that, she is getting a title (Ladyship) too from this very wealthy banker she is marrying lol but she will be his fourth wife!! He is about 13 years her senior but an extraordinary man who is very well respected in the banking world both here and Asia..I had a great time with him at dinner recently and he has impressed me enough to contemplate going out with older men which I have never done in my entire life...lol
  • View author's info posted on May 06, 2005 11:40


    HI Butterfly/ Robotic,
    I m no expert but used to have a good memory at reading palms and faces , no longer do that because I actually did see terrible things happened to friends and though not a believer at all , am now fairly weary of seeing bad things happen..if interested just for fun, there are two good sites for Chinese and western astrology on the web...'Chris Critchlow' and 'ivillage horoscope' , whether you believe in it or not .it is good entertainment...lol
  • View author's info posted on May 06, 2005 09:36


    To me a head game is when a woman is giving me head, and that is a good game.
  • View author's info posted on May 06, 2005 09:28


    I happen to think astrology is all a bunch of h********.

    Anyway all the houses or whatever they are called over the years have gotten out of position.

    There is no way to predict anything. It is all a bunch of nonsense.
  • View author's info posted on May 06, 2005 01:08


    Aries and SAgitarius are fire signs and therefore they will be passionate and romantic together..they stoke each other's flames and will be a hotbed of fervor and romance..I think you both have a right good chance ..lol
  • View author's info posted on May 05, 2005 20:59


    Hmmmm Aries? I'm not the least bit bossy...I do give advice, however, LOL. Tell me more, Bonnie!
  • View author's info posted on May 05, 2005 01:40


    Hey Tall,
    You are just right Leos get on very well with Aries..and he is a typical Aries..impulsive, erudite, charming , wacky and has a wicked sense of humor..but he does not like bossy women..I think you might even know him already...lol
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2005 22:18


    Hmmm Bonnie, I'm not too sure about this guy...but do the chart and let me know!! Oh I thought ya'll could tell I'm a true LEO....supposedly Sags are best for me and it's absolutely true that the love of my life is a Sag...so who knows? Tell me oh wise Bonnie!
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2005 02:05


    Hey Tall,
    Check out this tall , wacky guy who loves to stay up late, thinks he is a good gigolo and harass women with his two cents of misogynistic views about women , gorillas and cars..but you must be prepared to deal with his need for low maintenance , easy to rev model..so are you a low maintenance easy to warm up, durable model who could take great weight and provide good mileage?
    Apply to me personally if interested and I shall check your astrological compatibility..what star are you Tall?
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2005 01:55


    Yeah, Bonnie, I've heard about Alaska...but it seems most of the guys up there are not prone to shaving and I don't like hairy guys...facial or back!! Nothing personal, fellas...that's just me....
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 00:50



    1tallsweetie write:
    Bonnie, would you help a pal out? I'm thinking I need an agent to get a date these days!!!


    Tall..
    Must be prepared to fly all over, I operate internationally..hey try Alaska , nearer you, I hear there the ratio is 1:8 ..there is also the Alaska Time..lots of men looking for a good woman to keep warm..must get use to long long dark wintry nights..
  • View author's info posted on May 02, 2005 23:26


    Bonnie, would you help a pal out? I'm thinking I need an agent to get a date these days!!!
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