So why is it people are always trying to find falt with the other?Does no-one else think that maybe ,we are all the people we were meant to be.As for dating and trying to find a match.I feel ,as if we are all 6,8or 10 sided jigsaw puzzle pieces.Now,the puzzle has 30,000,000 pieces.We only match up correctly to 6,8or possibly 10.Of the 29,999,990 pieces.
So why do poeple take it as a personal Insult when someone says thier not a match.No-one is saying that thier not the perfect person thier meant to be.Just that thier not to parts meant to be together.The physical shapes may match and the colors of the print be so very,very close ,but thier just not the pieces designed to be together.
Life is so much better if we can stop finding fault with each other
and trying to lay the blame .Just except life,take what positive you can from the experiences.And move on .
May We all have our minds and hearts open to the blessing laid before us. HDKickstand aka dammitdave
StarVoyager write: Well for starters, you spelled "FAULT" incorrectly! Come to the DR and we'll teach you how to party instead! NOVEMBER 2006...come on everybody! non-spelling non-talking men and women of all ages ...as long as your over 18.
Yes!! Come to the Dominican Republic. Fun, sand, sun, drinks with umbrellas in 'em. Single people, incredibly fun people. US!!
StarVoyager write: Sharon honey? There is no one in here anymore...all the posts are from early 2005...Come over to the message board and look at all the nice new pics I've put up of the resort we're all going to.
Michael sweetie...I know...I just came upon the thread and liked it. So I thought I'd resurrect it again! :-)
I'll see you on the Msg Brds too!
HDK...An excellent post...Not everyone looks for the faults in others. Those that do are the one's you want to avoid...and it's good that they reveal this side of themselves on a forum such as this, so you can truly get a better perspective of their personality.
You are correct that no one should take rejection on a site like this personally. But sometimes if one receives too much rejection, it is demeaning to their own self-esteem and they may begin to internalize that there is something wrong with them or cause them to get angry at those rejecting them. They don't stop to consider things as you do from all angles.
How many people did you say one should date before getting married, so they may learn about themselves and their needs in a significant other? :-)
I mispelled they're as A Joke but I guess I'm the only one who got it.I wanted to see if the ideas in the writing, could over shadow the writing flaws.With this group ,it seems the ideas would never get though, unless perfectly gramarically stated.WITH PROPER spelling. So Sad. lol .I wish for you ,more than you deserve. .To the few who saw beyond the errors .May you be blessed in every moment of your lives. Sincerely,Dammit