LIke your horse puckey picking analogy..
a bit like Cinderella with glass slippers..don't reckon she could do much work on those delicate glass slippers once she has got them on..
or Sleeping Beauty..if she has slept for that long, she can't be nice to kiss ..
T-Kitty , you're idea of romance,while it is noble and idealistic, leaves the door open for alot of troubles later on. I agree with SG and Sharp, You're empowering him to "Tell me what I Like" and I could see some not-so-good-intentioned Romeo abusing it later. A (girl) friend told me once, "I'll never fall for the Knight on the white horse again, You have to follow behind and scoop up alot of horse-puckey."