Worked hard all my life Family / Marriage

  • View author's info Author posted on Mar 03, 2005 04:39


    Ive work hard all my life and have 3 kids and 2 ex husbands. Will i ever get it right and will i ever meet someone that isnt a loser?
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  • View author's info posted on Mar 01, 2013 15:58


    I appreciate your socialogical statistics but I would like to shine a realistic spotlight  to the other side of the coin.  People acuse me of being an optomist!  Statistics show that if one enters into a period of personal growth and  truly seeks to grow and learn from the experience, better can come.  As a person gets to know ones self better, learns to communicate more effectively and more clearly, discovers what truly makes one joyful, we attract a higher level of frequency partner.  Additionally, we choose partners for differing phases in our life.  Just because a partner is a perfect fit for one phase doesnt mean they are able to transition to another. Sometimes we are meant to be in a persons life for a short time or a lifetime.  The one thing I know for sure is that we should treat each other more respectfully, kindly with honesty.
  • View author's info Recommended posted on Aug 16, 2012 13:16


    Past statistics have shown that in the U.S. 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce.  It makes you wonder why it gets worse the more you try.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 28, 2006 09:40


    Cubster write:
    I read recently that MSG ingredient in foods may be a culprit in our "battle of the bulge". It also has some other name which I do not know at this time. We can look for it in all the packaged foods we buy just to see how rampant it is.

    Monosodium glutimate. Did I spell that right Lassy?? Cubster watch out for chinese food. Mostly all chinese restaurants use it.Lot's of it!!! I used to cook with it at home until I heard it causes cancer.

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 27, 2006 17:25


    tutelarkitten67 write:
    Ive work hard all my life and have 3 kids and 2 ex husbands. Will i ever get it right and will i ever meet someone that isnt a loser?

    Working won't kill you. I work too, if I did'nt maybe I would go nut's. I have 3 kids and am a single mom too,at the age of 28. I am at the point that i don't care anymore. I do what I want when I want. I can make it forsure without a man, but am lonely without my kids.

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  • View author's info posted on Dec 21, 2005 22:40


    You got it right, your have 3 children, teach them and let them lead the way. Keep looking. Someday, someday, someday .....
  • View author's info posted on Jun 19, 2005 05:17


    This is to weelassy 1. I LOVE the medical profession. I read all the time, and the medical book is like my best friend. If my friends have a problem, they tell me the illness and I look it up. Or if I have a problem as well. Sometimes I cannot figure out what is wrong though, like when I wasn't eating right, and had to take Vitamin B Complex. I had all these terrible mouth sores...so painful. How do all the Anorexics get away with not having the mouth sores that I had, when they are WORSE than me? I never hear that anorexics have mouth sores because of a deficiency in B Vitamins. They should REALLY be hurting. I had all these canker sores. My diet was lousy, but so are the cocaine addictes, and I never hear anyone complain about mouth sores, I wonder why they don't get what I had.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 18, 2005 22:30


    6am ..the mother hen gets up to cluck
    now this is good early morning exercise for the fingers...
  • View author's info posted on Jun 10, 2005 21:26



    KissesKisses write:
    OMG...ya f*cking fools .....try the other side of the fence... LIVE LIKE YOU ARE DYING...seriously...find happiness....in yourself...lol...I am dead...care less..

    LIFE..that is a nice F*ing four letter word...nasty B*itches...bowwow....yeah bow

    lmao...please don't hit us with a flower...ouch as it hurt...lol

    quote I am dead...care less..

    lol....nope too busy saving lives that deserve to live
  • View author's info posted on Jun 09, 2005 23:59


    MSG is present in most prepared meals esp Chinese food and I try to avoid feeding my kids that..u feel it when u take it, my face tingles with a sort of numbing sensation and it leaves u very thirsty after the meal..
    The long term effect is dire, it is suppose to cause cancer too..
    Processed, mass-produced food this last decade has caused more harm than feed hunger..my kids go to baording schools where they are fed rubbish..food catered by caterers who also supply to 'hospitals and prisons'..so it is true that my kids are fed lousier food than prisoners, since the latter are given food that cost more per head than theirs..
  • View author's info posted on Jun 09, 2005 13:40


    hello
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2005 01:08


    In a free country like US, you still get the big corporations , from tobacco companies, to unhealthy junk food producers like Coke and MacD..determine what goes into your children and your stomach..the war begins in your own turf..if you send some missiles into those companies it would save at least half a million Americans from lung cancer and heart diseases related to smoking..and obesity and high cholestrol and all sorts of malnutrition diseases caused by the mass consumption of their product..and not forgetting the huge health bill you will be saving for the economy...
    Yet in the face of such insiduous brainwashing , Americans who are parents are not doing much to campaign against their rights to better quality of mass produced food for their kids..instead you are letting a new breed of professionals develop their marketto capture the aftermath of that destruction.. from drastic liposuction, fat camp, a host of dieting plans and pills to pop and magic formula exercise dvds...when what you really need is educating mums , dads, kids and schools and all other child -related organisation and businesses to rethink their policies and ethos..
    wwww. you are right about the fat mall walkers..when I see Asians becoming that shape in Hawaii and CA..I fear the conclusion is they have forsaken their healthy diet for the dire American one..
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 19:05


    "We go back to the old survival of the fittest theory..evolution, evolution..change , change..the only constant factor in life..coping with change..ad infinitum"

    We have never quit being in that mode, even now. Competition, thus nations at each others throat,tribal warfare in Africa, religious warfare, geoncide, etc. Crazy.

    I agree with the obesity problem. Just go to a mall someday, sit, and look at the people passing by. 90 percent are overweight, including many of the very young.
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 14:55


    whenever I am in the US I am flabbergasted at the huge portions that restaurants serve and the endless free refills for soda that they give ..you no longer shop at supermarkets but more like warehouse marts where one could only get aspirins in bottles of 1000 and salsa sauce by the gallons..I mean that could last you two lifetimes ..so I think that obesity begins with excessive availability and easy accesibilty of cheap unhealthy junk food. Parental control could only do that much against the constant lure of advertisement of such food..unless there is concerted effort on all sides to curb that excess, the next generation of Americans will be burying their children before their time.
    Good habit in eating has to be formed at a very young age, of course the mother is the first person that starts that chain..and with working mums who are too tired to cook healthy good meals and everything comes in ready processed packs, there is little a child could do but eat and be conditioned by what mum cooks. It becomes a vicious cycle that has to be broken..
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 13:53


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    But if we breed out competition, what would you have? Who would work? Invent? Medicine? Science? Businesses? etc. etc.


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    We go back to the old survival of the fittest theory..evolution, evolution..change , change..the only constant factor in life..coping with change..ad infinitum
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 09:33


    OK, will do.

    wwwww
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 02:32


    www..go to bed and forget about the world problems ..we can't worry about that too much..when you leave them they take care of themselves..a bit like teenagers..they need to find their own way..even if it is the wrong way..
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 01:31


    Competition is really the big problem. My ball team will beat yours, my grades are better, I can run faster, think smarter, my religion better, my heaven better, my kids cuter, my country, my tribe,my language, my boy scout troupe, my band, my music, my paintings, my army, etc.etc.

    And, all animals compete.

    But if we breed out competition, what would you have? Who would work? Invent? Medicine? Science? Businesses? etc. etc.


    wwwww
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 01:17


    I don't know the answer and I have put my 280 IQ on the problem for years with no solution.

    I am so sorry, I forgot the minus sign.

    lol

    wwwww
  • View author's info posted on May 03, 2005 01:05


    Maybe we should bann all religions and certainly all radical ideologies?

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    Better still just feed everyone with Big Macs and Coke and get them so obese that no one could get up to fight and we would all die of heart failure or malnutrition from indulgence...]
    you can't ban all religion and ideologies with the advent of hi-tech..unless you send everyone to the moon and start a new community from scratch..like leaving test tubes of self-propagating babies with no parents/teachers/adults to brainwash them..sc-fi style..
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