It has to do with not having a photo...But even with I find that I don't get the clicks (with a few exceptions) unless they are over 50. Not that that is horrible, but it seems to be a truth... Don't give up...like anything else it's always a shot in the dark and none of the sites are a guarentee. It's just a way of incresing the odds.
1) The IM function in the "chat" section can sometimes really chew up my computer - sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
2) I would imagine you'd get better replies if you posted a picture, that way others can view your profile and get a sense of who you are.
I've clicked on someone's name in chat & they never respond.. I don't have a clue as to what to do in this site..Its just about the strangest site Ive been to..The emails I get from men, I respond back to them, & I never hear back..So I think this will be my first & last month with MM.