Whilst there is such a huge debate about men looking for younger women, I seem to get lots of young toy boys writing me.....since I am one of the few high female earners on this site., I do wonder about their private agenda..but I keep an open mind..and have found some very nice younger men too who prefer older women for good reasons..because we are secure emotionally and also financially..we are not on a baby making race and could be more relax and laid back about relationships...and there are lots of very beautiful attractive older women on this site...I m dating younger men and enjoying the experience..and had a very successful 20 year marriage with a younger man but unfortunately lost him to untimely death...so let us not be so hung-up about chronological age..as long as we feel compatible and there is chemistry and passion between two persons..who care for each other ..should'nt Love in this day and age be less concerned about chronological data, cultural and color-blind ..we are living in a globally diverse era..every experience should be an enriching one..so enjoy Life...we have less time than we think...love still makes the world go round..and MM is just such a site to reach out to diversity in race, age , color , culture..so enjoy this super kaleidoscopic party.
The original post was posted on 2005 it got belated replies lol
However I can account only for myself but I have always dated women who were older than me since I was 20. Of course now that I am 40+ it is becoming more even but I never found particularly attractive women in their early 20s.
It would be untrue to believe that men who prefer older women are gold diggers. I myself never got a cent and never got a paid meal. To me it has always been the fact that an older woman has a better conversation (oh yes it comes a time when also conversation is needed), it has more mental independence (if you have been a mother and a wife already, you won't need to push that agenda on your partner anymore and you will be more free to be yourself), they are invariably great in bed (expereince has its rewards and treats i guess!) and it is extremely fascinating having to deal with a lady who appreciates compliments.
What should i do with a 20 something who talks of purses tattoos and who changes her mind every other second? lol Just a bit of a caricature in this last line of course but i guess you got what i mean: age brings some stability. Not a general rule, but normally it does.
That's a good point to me. I'm very close to my decision to find an older woman...and why not? I'm 34 years old.
Older women have more experiences than younger. Older women can understand more things. They know what is true love and can teach young men.
This is a good post Bonnie. I get many 18 to 28 year olds doing the vulture thing aroung me when I go out. I'm pretty sure I don't look like carrion, and I've never been told I smell like a month old pork chop. So I just thank God for the little darlings!
I agree that age means nothing after you've already met and approved of each other's looks. Younger men than I are boldies ... they'll walk right up to you and tell you how hot you are! Love 'em!