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Posted on Tue, Apr 11, 2006 16:59

Hi. In my mind this is similar to a Beautiful Woman Problem.

(All of these are a bit of a nice problem to have by the way...Rich Guy, Beautiful Woman).

Hard for "object of affection" to know if really, truely loved. That would be you.

Much depends upon your capacity to be loved and also to love. Sounds like a bit of a "nice brush off" and probably the woman was in too much of a box.

Similar to when guys say: "You jazz me 90% and I must have 100%" or "I just didn't feel that bolt of lightning I am looking for even though you are attractive, when we met. "

What do you all think?

  
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Posted on Tue, Apr 11, 2006 11:23

Bob, Only thing I seeing you is being so self center and selfish, what makes you think this way?



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Posted on Wed, Feb 15, 2006 19:22

whisperinocean write:
sandiegom write:
I dont like talking about money. When women ask you about money on their profile or on the first date, to me thats like me asking them why dont we go get naked. Somethings can be discussed at a more approraite time.

Sandie, liked your response. Maybe you should ask about the naked thing when the woman talks about money. You may get quite a few surprising responses, including her saying okay. :):)



See this is where the rules all blur for me...

So this scenario would be okay, but it would be unappropriate for him to bring up money and then bring up sex ??? LOL Obviously bringing up sex and then bringing up money would be solicitation, so we know that is wrong...



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Posted on Wed, Feb 15, 2006 18:01

Hi

Im new here and from the Uk and I have to laugh at some of the comments lol

What ever happened to plain ol prince charming? with his fancy heirs and her in rags and him still falling in love and her totally swept off her feet eh????

Problem is....

Too many men emphesize on money and not love and respect and if a rich man can't respect a poor man then a lonely old fool he will be????

The sad part is.. a poor man can live in a rich mans world but a rich man can't survive in a poor mans world so who is the stronger he has wealth or he who has true happiness?

ha ha thats my words of wisdom although it didn't come from dickens xxxx

Teresa xxx



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Posted on Thu, Feb 09, 2006 15:07

I dont like talking about money. When women ask you about money on their profile or on the first date, to me thats like me asking them why dont we go get naked. Somethings can be discussed at a more approraite time.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 08, 2006 17:28

What does it say about kings and sex and cabbages?



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Posted on Sun, Feb 05, 2006 20:20

Bob - get Real - stop whining - if you are truly interested in finding a partner/soul mate - then you need to do some research - soul searching - are you interested in a woman because of her "outside/inside" qualities or her checkbook? As we who have know, $$$ does not buy a true friend, only entice the needy - ackangel



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Posted on Sun, Feb 05, 2006 15:41

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If I do find a man who is crazy about me and I am nuts about him in return, I seriously think I will give him a hard time if he wants to get married because it doesn't guarantee "forever' like it used to. And if he did talk me into a walk down the aisle, I won't do the big white dress thing and spend a fortune on flowers and limos and trousseaus. It was a waste last time. $20,000 for five years of marriage. Jeez!

Eloping sounds fun. But maybe I'd blow a wad of cash on catering and open bar. I don't think all you guys would expect anything less as my wedding guests! LOL


Yes, there is no sense of spending this amount for 5 years, why not just settle in a common law relationship, it is by far cheaper and not much different than marriage if you are a keeper of your words, marriage doesn't guarantee words will be kept..marriage is just a ring that is about it; as word have become cheap. ha!

BQ



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Posted on Sun, Feb 05, 2006 00:24

If I do find a man who is crazy about me and I am nuts about him in return, I seriously think I will give him a hard time if he wants to get married because it doesn't guarantee "forever' like it used to. And if he did talk me into a walk down the aisle, I won't do the big white dress thing and spend a fortune on flowers and limos and trousseaus. It was a waste last time. $20,000 for five years of marriage. Jeez!

Eloping sounds fun. But maybe I'd blow a wad of cash on catering and open bar. I don't think all you guys would expect anything less as my wedding guests! LOL



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Posted on Sat, Feb 04, 2006 02:23

Prestige2000 write:
GeminiDi write:
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mesquiteguy74 write:
I want me a women with some $$$ to share with me ......but i want her to love me and i want to love her back ......And i love sexy older women that can treat me to the finer things .......Man you will find you a good hot women And if you know some rich women send them my way would ya .......



Well if an approach as charming and irresistable as this doesn't work, I can't imagine what would!


LOL Steve! The "Romance" thread seems to be lacking a lot of ... oh, I don't know ... ROMANCE, perhaps? LOL


Oh my gosh!! You guys are a RIOT here! I love reading these forums....I don't need to read the comic strips in the paper...I just come here to get my daily laugh! GREAT STUFF! LOL

oh you have to read Bobby boys other post it will crack you up!!! The man must have rooms full of socks he needs to put a few in his mouth.

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 03, 2006 15:35

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Katie,

As far as I understand these days your point about "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before." rings a lot of truth...whereas coming from a background where most of your aunts and uncles have been married for 40 years up to 53 years it is hard to understand all this marriage and bust roller coaster, I wonder if it is a lack of commitment on both side or one of them lacking brains..because it takes 2 people to make a relationship work. I know if you marry a person who is thoughtless and careless there will be problems later on..but many time you only fi*nd out most of these things after you said " I do " some are quite smart to carry on a double standard as I saw friends and friend of friends in this category.

What is your insight about this?

BQ

BQ & Katie,
It's not always the case that people are hiding their true colors until after the "I do".
Like you Katie, when my marriage ended, people asked me, "Well, what was it that attracted you to him in the first place?" I remember exactly what attracted me, and that is not to say any of that has changed. But if he was a quiet guy when we met, 7 yrs into our marriage he took on a job that took so much out of him he had nothing left to give his family...no conversation...not with us, and not with our friends. Ever hold a conversation for two when you are with friends? It's embarrassing. Ever have someone who is happy to just say "Hi" to you once in the day and that's enough to satisfy him? It's awful.


Sharp1,

I guess we all come from different walk and varied experiences, I see your point and pretty sad though...kind of hard to believe he was satisfied just saying Hi.

BQ



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Posted on Fri, Feb 03, 2006 15:13

katiegrl write:
BQ writes:
Katie,

As far as I understand these days your point about "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before." rings a lot of truth...whereas coming from a background where most of your aunts and uncles have been married for 40 years up to 53 years it is hard to understand all this marriage and bust roller coaster, I wonder if it is a lack of commitment on both side or one of them lacking brains..because it takes 2 people to make a relationship work. I know if you marry a person who is thoughtless and carless there will be problems later on..but many time you only out most of these things after you said " I do " some are quite smart to carry on a double standard as I saw friends and friend of friends in this category.

What is your insight about this?

BQ

Excellent point, BQ!

After my ex-husband ran off (not to be with another woman, I might add, but because his mommy told him to) people who were stupid and insensitive asked me, "Why did you not think of trying to make it work for the sake of your daughter?"

Well, shackling my spouse to the kitchen sink pipe has little chance of succeeding in keeping him loyal if I'm not aware he's going to bolt on me ahead of time!

And another thing I was often asked was, "Were you, drunk, when you picked HIM for a husband?"

Again ... not my fault!

When two people are dating, they never show each other how dispicable they can be! How could you ever keep a partner THAT way? So you always show your best side, even if it's fake.

You don't let your BF or GF see you when you've been on a weekend bender and haven't showered in three days. If you expel gas, take your teeth out before bed or enjoy extracting nose nuggets and sampling their nutritional value ... you don't let anyone ELSE see that until AFTER the honeymoon.

So it's never the jilted partner's fault if the unfaithful, evil partner is disgusting and greedy and would make Saddam Hussein look like the Pillsbury Dough Boy! Sometimes people get mean and ugly later on in their lives.

My parents stayed together until death, and that's because it was shameful in their time to be divorced. That word was often whispered by my mother about another woman, as though that woman were a crackwhore or something.

Today, divorce is not as unforgiveable and reprehensible as it was in my parents' day, so people don't think twice about breaching a marriage contract, sometimes without even consulting the other partner.

I don't know why anybody gets married anymore when it means so little to so many people. And churches, nowadays, seem to simply be a "commercial venue," a popular location that is more fashionable than a room in City Hall.

Not that I'm particularly religious though, because I don't subscribe to any specific organized religion, but I am a spiritual person, and when I said all the things I did during MY church wedding .... I meant them.

You just can't be sure anymore how things will turn out. But isn't that just life?


Hi Katie,

I'm a bit late replying to your post, my topic button has lost all forums I posted on, so I had to go through each forum I thought I had posted...what a process as I posted on some 25 - 30 boards...sheeshhh!!!!

Yes, I know what you are saying when you went to the altar and meant what you said. I did the same but it is like I think, the other spouse did not believe the way you did. I have notice my ex came from divorced parents so she might have viewed this normal..while you and I have sen parents sticking together to the end which is admirable..now I understand why they call it a silver and a golden jubilee as so few makes it nowdays.

I checked your profiles and you have some nice new pictures, never thought you were blond like that as your main picture doesn't show you like the others inside.

Down deep inside I find it still complicated to see people marrying one another and then several years down the road and they are divorced or seperated..like you say what is the point of getting married...I guess it is a fantasy people still believe in..just like a romance novel.

BQ



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Posted on Sat, Jan 28, 2006 23:36

hello blondelightning,

I really like your profile and posts. you have such a nice disposition. please contact me. I would like to know you better as friends. I would also like to meet other nice men as I am new to this site.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 27, 2006 08:18

GeminiDi write:
steve475 write:

mesquiteguy74 write:
I want me a women with some $$$ to share with me ......but i want her to love me and i want to love her back ......And i love sexy older women that can treat me to the finer things .......Man you will find you a good hot women And if you know some rich women send them my way would ya .......



Well if an approach as charming and irresistable as this doesn't work, I can't imagine what would!


LOL Steve! The "Romance" thread seems to be lacking a lot of ... oh, I don't know ... ROMANCE, perhaps? LOL


Oh my gosh!! You guys are a RIOT here! I love reading these forums....I don't need to read the comic strips in the paper...I just come here to get my daily laugh! GREAT STUFF! LOL



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Posted on Fri, Jan 20, 2006 10:11

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I want me a women with some $$$ to share with me ......but i want her to love me and i want to love her back ......And i love sexy older women that can treat me to the finer things .......Man you will find you a good hot women And if you know some rich women send them my way would ya .......


Well if an approach as charming and irresistable as this doesn't work, I can't imagine what would!

  


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Posted on Fri, Jan 20, 2006 10:03

mesquiteguy74 write:
I want me a women with some $$$ to share with me ......but i want her to love me and i want to love her back ......And i love sexy older women that can treat me to the finer things .......Man you will find you a good hot women And if you know some rich women send them my way would ya .......


I'm trying to think of a response. I'm pretty speechless so I'll just say good luck.



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Posted on Thu, Jan 19, 2006 16:04

sharp1 write:
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I'm sure Bob has nothing more to say other than "Look at me ladies and I'm rich and no one is writing to me on this site so I need attention". LOL. Funny but true. The rich and the pretend to be rich are very similar. They're needy. Needy is the key. If Bob wasn't needy he wouldn't be on here. Lash back at me Bob I see right through you like glass. Old and lonely. Post that profile without the rich part. I usually leave out how much money I have. I actually want someone to want me...for me! wink.


Okay ladies ... close your mouths...no drooling! lol



I did kinda of find it ironic for him to complain about Bob saying "hey look at me" and then posting a topless shot of himself... ROFLMAO...



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Posted on Thu, Jan 19, 2006 15:56

Thanks Dormavigo, I went out last weekend with the girls, we kicked up our heals, we cut loose, and I will let you figure out the rest.

  


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Posted on Thu, Jan 19, 2006 11:23

Unsnaggable nice new picture you look really pretty and happy..



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Posted on Wed, Jan 18, 2006 07:56

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heehee


Oh boy...that is pretty funmy! LOL



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